How about Bride's Dream? Not tea cup shaped, but very pretty.

We're another couple who got married in a hurry by a judge. We'd been living together for years and really hadn't planned to marry but, his office wanted to transfer him from Montreal to Atlanta. I'd been living in Montreal for 15 years but I was and am an American citizen. His company had an attorney who was going to help DH navigate the path to a green card. I found out that if we were married I could simply go to the consulate and request status for him so it was a no brainer to get married. I mean, it wasn't that we didn't love each other or have a serious commitment, we owned a house together up there for many years and I brought the mortgage papers to the consulate to prove it, it's just that we weren't in any kind of hurry. We might have gotten around to it without the push or we might not have.

Oh my, Allison I am sorry! I wondered how your DD2 became engaged and married so fast :-( I should have known you would at least have posted a dress issue or something on the conversations board with all that wedding talk! Very sorry for that misunderstanding. But initially the posts that crossed over to houzz were not dated, so I had no idea the thread was four years old. Now I see they are dated, although in the faintest possible ink color. (Houzz must have mostly 20 and 30 something users with better eyesight.) At any rate, the groom may not have been a keeper but the flowers were lovely!

kkny- I do think your point regarding how long SM have been in the picture is valid. My mother remarried when I was 35 and frankly he is my mother's husband not my stepfather. I had a father who died- he respects that but he is my mother's husband and I show him the same respect I show her. A girlfriend,boyfriend is another story still. My SSs have been living with me half their life since they were 4 and 5. I don't expect to be treated like their mom at their wedding but I do expect to be treated like their father's wife and a member of the family. In my immediate family to do anything less would be considered a lack of social grace and disrespectful. I will gladly stand with their father whereever they choose to seat us but I will not be hidden in the back alone just to make BM feel better unless of course I am standing back there with her husband (I would agree to that compromise). It will be a very difficult event as my work involves hosting parties and speaking with people all day and BM is very shy and uncomfortable in social situations. So there I will be in another difficult situation where at my children's wedding I will go all out making people feel comfortable, arranging plans, etc and in SSs wedding I will have to sit on my hands and bit my tongue watching BM struggle. IF I'm too nice I'm trying to take over, if I do nothing I don't want to help. Until you are a SM- you can't even imagine how difficult it is- I sure didn't think it would be this hard.