So yesterday mom is calling here because SD is in trouble at school for making a fake facebook account and bullying another kid at school, her and another friend did it over the weekend ... the other child's parents called the school are contacting the police regarding the matter.
while hubby is on the phone he asks SD did you blah blah she says yes so what ... he says its a big deal so then the boys chime in with their opinions its a big fiasco .... I was pretending to be asleep so as not to include myself with their parenting decisions ... hubby tells her no electronics ... she says so what. Her district has no school today ... last night I said to hubby she has to go with you today or she is going to pick a fight with me tomorrow he says he can't well mom better be around to come get her because I will not be very tolerant of her tomorrow.
The boys go off to school (different district mom lives less than a mile away but its a different town) hubby off to work ... I head to my room a half hour later I can hear her on my comp in the living room ... I come out and say no electronics and close it she opens it back up so I take it away and put it in my room ... she goes into my room and takes it back out ... I said no you are not using my comp ... she then says you're not my parent you're right I am not ... her response oh where are your parents oh thats right they're dead ... I answer yes they are and christmas is coming neither of which matters right now... so now trying to turn on my cell to call dad but first it has to load all the text messages etc... in the mean time she is calling me an idiot why don't you mind your own business as she is standing in my doorway of my bedroom guessing I was supposed to cower and say here have the comp... you can't tell me what to do .... I said well I could just talk to you like your parents do would that make you happy ....
Hubby finally answers I tell him whats going on ... he says smack her in the mouth for talking like that to you ... I said smacking her would be too easy she says well I'll have you arrested I reminded him I told you yesterday she was going to pull this BS and play victim like she has done nothing wrong! I then told hubby I am giving you a courtesy call because if she keeps it up I will call the police and have her removed ... and hung up the phone he called back a few minutes later while she is still screaming at me from her room ... to tell me her mother is on the way ... 5 minutes later mom shows up.
No one can tell her anything ... she should have no rules and be able to do whatever she wants poor thing has anxiety ... but its ok for her to threaten another kid.
I told her the jab about my parents being dead doesn't bother me, I would rather them be dead then have to witness you talking to me like this ... my parents would be embarrassed for me same as your parents are embarrassed of you ... no they are not she says .. oh yeah they are so proud of their daughter bullying someone makes them feel so special! proves what great parents they are.
I did get a screw you as she was walking out the door ... atleast she acknowledged she was leaving :)
only 1861 days to go!!
momof3_stepof1
Amber3902
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