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Posted by jennycao2011 (My Page) on Fri, Jan 27, 12 at 10:10
I m in a realtionship with a man who has two kids. i really love him and want the relationship keep going. However, his kids on my way. my boyfrined has to see them everyday and take them back to my house have dinner( because their mum working). I really hate them because they really naughty, shouting, running around the house, trying to kill my cat,etc. Be honest to every one, all I want is both them be killed by car accident!! i hate them this much!
I dont knmow what to do next and i am so scared to lose him. Please help me, thank you. |
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RE: Will you marry a man who has to see his kids everyday?
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| This is a joke, right? If not...please do yourself, your BF and more importantly those kids a favor and leave...please. Or better yet, go walk in front of a car yourself you selfish b*tch. You are wishing for your BF's kids to get killed by a car? My, what a f*cking catch you are....what a lucky guy! I knew this was gonna be a doozy by the use of the word "HAS" in the title. I am a divorced dad, and consider myself so lucky that I "GET" to see my kids almost every day. I'm really hoping this was a joke... |
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| Well, if this isn't a troll, then I echo mkroopy's sentiments. A man who has to see his children every day is called a "Dad" and a good one too. You sound like a real prize. Wishing children dead, you should be ashamed of yourself. It's OK not to like his kids but that means you need to do you all a favour and get out of his life. |
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To reply to your other post, so the OP doesn't have to put up with replies to your carp,
If you "lose your lover's love" it will surely be because he recognises you for the selfish b*tch you are. He sounds like a nice guy who doesn't deserve to be saddled with a cow like you. Leave....here and him. |
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| Wow - I think we're being a little harsh here. I don't think OP really wants her BF's kids dead. There might be some selfishness going on, but maybe she needed to vent some. OP - The problem isn't that your BF has his kids every day. The problem is that his kids are so bad. Good grief -trying to kill your cat? Sounds like they have some serious issues going on. I don't think you should marry him, not because of what the other have said, but because his kids are so bad. |
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| I am not sure everyone is being harsh here. I wasn't gonna respond because I think the post was designed to get people worked up. She posted on another thread that she wished the kids would die in a very nasty way. Who would say that? It's no secret that I do not like the way my SD treats me, I choose to disengage & have nothing to do with her and it's unpleasant to have her live with me and I do wish she would go live with her mom if her mom would have her... but wish her dead? I don't even wish her harmed. That is cruel, to even say it under any circumstance. So, if the OP is real and her situation is real... she is not a nice person. If her boyfriend's feelings are waning, it is because he sees her nastiness and mean spiritedness. That is something you'd have to be blind and aloof to miss. My advice to OP, get rid of the boyfriend and you'll be rid of his kids. He loves them and sounds like a good, devoted father and OP sounds jealous. If they kids don't behave, then it could be that the guy isn't that great of a father but I can't tell if that's true because in one post the kids are trying to kill the cat, in the other they are trying to play with the cat. If he sees his kids everyday and they behave that badly, then it's your boyfriend's parenting that is a problem and maybe if he had less distractions (like a girlfriend), he could spend more time on parenting. right? Do him & yourself a favor & look for someone that doesn't come with any baggage. But, please deal with your mental health issues and hate before bringing any of your own children into the world to suffer having you as a mother. Any person that wishes a child dead does not need to be a mother. |
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| Harsh? No. This posting is not a 'vent' it's a desire of true physical harm to come to children. A 'vent' is pouring it out a bit and getting things off one's chest so to say...letting off a little steam. Perhaps even saying something you don't necessarily mean in the 'heat of the moment'...but wishing death to children crosses the line. Wishing a child killed in an auto accident is not venting. It's an extreme unhealthy fantasy. One I'd be as concerned about the person desiring the scenario as I would be the ill behavior of the children. Sure these kids sound like spoiled out of control undisciplined brats. I would not want such behavior in my home and I would never ever consider dating (let alone marrying) a man who parents his children to be such. But with all that said, yeah, deliberately yanking 'our chains' or in dire need of a relationship review pronto. |
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| Yeah, after I made my post I saw what she put posted on the other thread and it does seem like the OP has issues. I would take back what I said above, but this forum does not let you go back and correct posts. |
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