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Would you ever..........

Posted by kayjones (My Page) on
Sat, Nov 22, 03 at 14:03

Let's have some fun - either copy and paste the questions into your resonse or just answer by number. This is NOT a quiz!

Would you ever:

1. Cheat on a mate?
2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?
4. Have a romance with a coworker?
5. Have sex on a first date?
6. Date someone not of your race?
7. Live with a lover?
8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
10.Write a poem for your significant other?
11.Move to be near your love interest?
12.Have a "one-night" date?
13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
14.Roll-play with a date?
15.Ever pay money to get a date?
16.Park under the stars and just make out?
17.Walk out on a date?
18.Do a background check on a potential date?
19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?


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RE: Would you ever..........

Good thread, I'm interested to see the replies myself

1. Cheat on a mate?
No, but temptation arose a couple times where I almost did, towards the end of my marriage

2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
Only a journal in my mind

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?
My little black book would account for 1 page

4. Have a romance with a coworker?
Does your boss count?...if so, yes

5. Have sex on a first date?
Yes

6. Date someone not of your race?
No

7. Live with a lover?
Yes

8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
No

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
N/A

10.Write a poem for your significant other?
Never was good at putting words on paper, speaking my feelings works for me.

11.Move to be near your love interest?
Yes

12.Have a "one-night" date?
No

13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
No

14.Roll-play with a date?
No

15.Ever pay money to get a date?
Never

16.Park under the stars and just make out?
Yes

17.Walk out on a date?
No

18.Do a background check on a potential date?
No

19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
No

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?
Yes


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RE: Would you ever..........

Come on Kay, it's your turn to answer.

1. Cheat on a mate?
NEVER.

2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
I keep a journal and might mention the date.

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?
No.

4. Have a romance with a coworker?
Perhaps.

5. Have sex on a first date?
Yes, but not if I wanted a relationship with the person.

6. Date someone not of your race?
Yes.

7. Live with a lover?
Yes.

8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
No. Those words are too important to play around with.

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
I don't think so.

10.Write a poem for your significant other?
I don't think so.

11.Move to be near your love interest?
No.

12.Have a "one-night" date?
I'm not sure what this means.

13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
No, not to an adult bookstore or porn shop. But, a date could earn "extra points" by taking me to a regular bookstore to browse.

14.Roll-play with a date?
I can think of several possible meanings to this question and I'm not sure which is intended here.

15.Ever pay money to get a date?
Uh, no.

16.Park under the stars and just make out?
Yes. But, I also like to look at the stars.

17.Walk out on a date?
Yes.

18.Do a background check on a potential date?
No.

19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
No.

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?
Yes.


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RE: Would you ever..........

1. Cheat on a mate?
I have started a relationship with another before letting go of a current one - I tend to 'hang on' until the last thread of hope is gone. I always make it clear to the 'new' person that I still have feelings for the current one if that's the case.


2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
I have kept a journal all of my teenage and adult life because I can't remember well.

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference? Yes, I have a little black book and would use it if I wasn't happy in a relationship.

4. Have a romance with a coworker?
Yes, I have done it - I like the excitement of trying to hide it from other coworkers. I love a thrill!

5. Have sex on a first date?
Probably not - I did that in a past relationship, which lasted for many years, but it takes a lot of strong feelings for me to do that, and I don't usually develop the necessary feelings so easily. I had known this person for many years, so didn't really look at it as a first date.

6. Date someone not of your race?
It would depend on how I felt about that person as an individual. I tend to look at what a person's heart and intellect is like rather than the color of their skin. All humans have the same anatomical make up.

7. Live with a lover?
Yes

8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
Probably not - again, it depends upon how I feel about the person's sincerity regarding our friendship.

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
Absolutely

10.Write a poem for your significant other?
Yes - I love to put thoughts of the moment down on paper so my mate can see in writing how I feel. I love romance and personally written poems means someone took the time to be vulnerable in another's honor.

11.Move to be near your love interest?
Yes

12.Have a "one-night" date?
Yes, I would do this - have done it a couple of times. I would have to have had this person as a friend first though.

13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
Absolutely!

14.Role-play with a date?
Absolutely!

15.Ever pay money to get a date?
Not unless it was Tom Selleck or Wayne Newton, then definently YES!

16.Park under the stars and just make out?
Yes - what is more romantic - puts me in the mood for love!

17.Walk out on a date?
Yes, and explain to my date why.

18.Do a background check on a potential date?
No - if I felt the need do this, I wouldn't go out with him to begin with.

19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
You bet!

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?
Yes


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RE: Would you ever..........

Would you ever:

1. Cheat on a mate?

NO
2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?

I keep a journal, and sometimes my dating activities are written about there.

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?

No.

4. Have a romance with a coworker?

Yes, I would if it felt right.

5. Have sex on a first date?

No. (but I guess I have, depending on what you count as a "first date".

6. Date someone not of your race?

Probably.

7. Live with a lover?

Yes.

8. Say "I love you" on the first date?

No.

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?

No.
10.Write a poem for your significant other?

Yes, probably.

11.Move to be near your love interest?

Yes, if everything was right enough to warrant that big of an investment.

12.Have a "one-night" date?

Well, not anymore.
13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?

Yes.

14.Roll-play with a date?

Uhm. What does this mean?

15.Ever pay money to get a date?

No. Yes. I guess. Isn't that what Internet dating, and all types of dating services ask you to do.

16.Park under the stars and just make out?

Sounds divine. I haven't, but would if offered the opportunity.

17.Walk out on a date?

If he was really abusive or offensive I would.
18.Do a background check on a potential date?

A google search, yes. A background check, no.
19.Watch a porno flick with a date?

Not with a date, per se, but a lover/partner, yes.

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?

Sure, as long as we were taking turns or something.


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RE: Would you ever..........

Hey! I'm not giving away ALL my secrets, so I'll just select responses!

1. Cheat on a mate?
Never, under any circumstances. (I note you said 'mate' not 'date'. Until there's a commitment, there can be no cheating.)

2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
Never. I can remember my activities without writing them down.

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?
I have an address book for anyone whose details I want to remember - friends, family etc.

4. Have a romance with a coworker?
I did, and kept it a secret from other colleagues for 10 years, until he died. It was all above-board, just nobody's business but ours and our friends'and families'. It was a committed, live-together thing, not a fling.

5. Have sex on a first date?
No comment.

6. Date someone not of your race?
Why not?

7. Live with a lover?
I wouldn't live with anyone who wasn't my lover!

8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
I don't lie.

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
No.

10.Write a poem for your significant other?
No. Poetry isn't my thing.

11.Move to be near your love interest?
Only if he wanted me to live with him or to get married - with a definite long-term commitment, and plenty of arrangements for 'contingencies' - at his expense.

12.Have a "one-night" date?
All dates are 'one-night dates'.

13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
No.

14.Roll-play with a date?
No. This calls for trust, which can only be built up over a long time.

15.Ever pay money to get a date?
Are you kidding? I'm not that desperate!

16.Park under the stars and just make out?
No comment

17.Walk out on a date?
Yes, if it's called for. I don't take s..t from anyone.

18.Do a background check on a potential date?
With our current privacy laws, this is impossible. In any case, you find out the truth soon enough if you're careful.

19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
No comment.

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?
No. If he's asked me out, I'm his guest and he pays. If I'm not asked, there's no date! In a relationship, I might shout for an outing to celebrate his birthday or something - that means, I've asked him out, he then becomes my guest.


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RE: Would you ever..........

1. Cheat on a mate? Never
2. Keep a journal of your dating activities? Nah - no need
3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference? Nope
4. Have a romance with a coworker? Sure - why not?
5. Have sex on a first date? Only with an established friend
6. Date someone not of your race? Absolutely
7. Live with a lover? Probably not
8. Say "I love you" on the first date? No way!
9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date? Yes and have done so...
10.Write a poem for your significant other? Maybe
11.Move to be near your love interest? Sure
12.Have a "one-night" date? Been there - done that
13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date? sure
14.Roll-play with a date? sure
15.Ever pay money to get a date? No way
16.Park under the stars and just make out? yes - fantastic!
17.Walk out on a date? Yes, if necessary
18.Do a background check on a potential date? Yes
19.Watch a porno flick with a date? Maybe with a long term relationship
20.Pick up the whole cost of a date? Yes


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RE: Would you ever..........

So, I take the responses to mean that a "one night date" is the current term for a "one night stand?"

And, role playing is referring to sexual role playing. I guess I wouldn't categorize that under a date. I'd have put it under sex practices or preferences or something like that.


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I took them for what they were intended I think....I just mistook "Would you ever" for "Have you ever"...I feel blonde...lol.....I'll do a revisal on mine and add later...I see a few that will change


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RE: Would you ever..........

1. Cheat on a mate? NO. A relationship is built on trust. Without trust, it is nothing. And if you aren't honest with your mate, you aren't honest with yourself. If I find it necessary to seek someone else out, I will first end the present relationship. I wouldn't respect myself if I cheated on my mate. And also, when a relationship ends, I like my alone time. I need a breather before the next relationship.

2. Keep a journal of your dating activities? No need. I can remember what I wanna remember.

3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference? No need. When I'm ready for another relationship, I'll meet someone new.

4. Have a romance with a coworker? Yes, why not? If you're a workaholic, like I've been in the past, the workplace is the ONLY place you meet people.

5. Have sex on a first date? Yes, if the connection is there, if I have known this person previously. But I don't go to a bar and pick up someone just to take them home for sex. There's more to life than just sex.

6. Date someone not of your race? Yes. I am particularly fond of olive-skinned men, like Middle Easterners. I love their accents and their looks.

7. Live with a lover? Yes, absolutely! I'd live with someone before I married him.

8. Say "I love you" on the first date? No, love takes time to build.

9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date? No, let him send the flowers.

10.Write a poem for your significant other? Yes, I love to write, and am always looking for inspiration.

11.Move to be near your love interest? Yes, if we both agreed there was something between us. I'd probably just move right in with him.

12.Have a "one-night" date? If you mean just going out with someone only once, then yes, I would do that. If you are referring to a one-night stand, no, I won't do that. I did that in my younger years, but sex is much too important and too dangerous for a one-night stand. And I have more respect for myself than that.

13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date? With a lover, I would. Sometimes they have great toys in there!

14.Role-play with a date? Yes, why not? I'm all for spicing up a relationship and keeping it from getting stale. I am in the process of learning belly dancing, which can coordinate with the role playing scenario.

15.Ever pay money to get a date? No, don't have to.

16.Park under the stars and just make out? Oh yes! How fun!!

17.Walk out on a date? Yes, if the guy was horrid.

18.Do a background check on a potential date? No

19.Watch a porno flick with a date? With a lover, yes. With a casual date, no.

20.Pick up the whole cost of a date? Yes

Casper


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RE: Would you ever..........

As promised earlier, a revision..intead of a have I a
Would you ever:

1. Cheat on a mate?
No, I resisted temptation once....a relationship means that much to me
2. Keep a journal of your dating activities?
Same answer....my mind is the only journal I need
3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference?
I have need for only one number in my little black book
4. Have a romance with a coworker?
I see nothing wrong with it at all....if I had a female co-worker I'd not let that stop me if the attraction was there
5. Have sex on a first date?
only if I had a chance to get to know the person prior to an actual date
6. Date someone not of your race?
I have no problem with that, never had the opporunity in the area I live in so it's never been a consideration
7. Live with a lover?
If I am in love with her, I will do whatever I can to be closer to her
8. Say "I love you" on the first date?
No, that takes time to build
9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date?
N/A...but will add that it is extremely flattering if the lady is out to make an impression
10.Write a poem for your significant other?
Again, a terrible writer...my words do all the talking that I need
11.Move to be near your love interest?
Most definitely
12.Have a "one-night" date?
No, I don't do one night stands...that's why God gave us hands :)
13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date?
Never been to one with a date, but it sounds like fun
14.Roll-play with a date?
Never done it, but it sounds intriguing
15.Ever pay money to get a date?
Never have and never will
16.Park under the stars and just make out?
yes
17.Walk out on a date?
it would have to horrific because I can't imagine putting myself into the possible scenario in the first place..I am too picky
18.Do a background check on a potential date?
I do a background check with my brain, every time I talk to someone
19.Watch a porno flick with a date?
Date, no....a lover, anytime that she desires
20.Pick up the whole cost of a date?
Yes


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RE: Would you ever..........

1. Cheat on a mate? No
2. Keep a journal of your dating activities? no
3. Keep a 'little black book' for future reference? no
4. Have a romance with a coworker? no
5. Have sex on a first date? no
6. Date someone not of your race? yes
7. Live with a lover? no, now that I have kids
8. Say "I love you" on the first date? no
9. Girls: Send a guy flowers after a first date? no, maybe later, though
10.Write a poem for your significant other? no, not into poetry at all
11.Move to be near your love interest? maybe
12.Have a "one-night" date? no
13.Go to an adult bookstore with a date? no
14.Roll-play with a date? no
15.Ever pay money to get a date? no
16.Park under the stars and just make out? yes
17.Walk out on a date? probably not, unless the guy was scary
18.Do a background check on a potential date? can't afford it
19.Watch a porno flick with a date? no
20.Pick up the whole cost of a date? Have done it but probably wouldn't do it again.


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