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Mom's and Grannie's funny frugal practices

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15 years ago

Is there a frugal practice that your parents or grandparents participated in that you thought was funny and somewhat ridiculous? What are those practices? I'm interested in hearing ways that those who lived through or were impacted by the Great Depression saved money. I'll start -

1. My mother NEVER bought paper towel. Any old cloth item went into the rag bag. I grew up using cloth rags only.

2. My mom curled my sister's and my hair by ripping those rags into strips, and then she wrapped and tied the strips around chunks of our hair. No curlers in our house.

3. My mom darned holes in our socks until I got to be a teen.

I'm hoping to gain suggestions of things my family can start practicing....I don't think the next few years are going to be too much fun.

Comments (150)

  • Adella Bedella
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Not to be disagreeable, but I will throw away the last brownie or whatever if no one else is going to eat it. I also try not to eat off my kid's plate just to save something from going to waste. It's easy to pop food into your mouth without realizing it. I don't need the extra calories. Sometimes a few bites of a food will stop the cravings. I throw it away instead of freezing it to reduce temptation.

    I always look through the clearance bins for stuff. I get some really good bargains that way. I found Crest Whitestrips for $1 a while back. They were at their exiration date. I found bottles of Gatorade for $.50. I don't like the high fructose syrup in it on a regular basis, but Gatorade is good to have around for cold and flu season. I found some decorative gourds for $.25 last week. Those will be good for the kids to paint into snowmen over the holidays. I've bought packs of pencils for $.10. The teachers are always requesting those. Earlier this summer, I found the pocket size spiral notebooks for $.10. I bought about 50. They are great for the nursing home gifts and occupying the kids in the car.

  • cynic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My cousin and I were talking about the colored oleo just a couple weeks ago. I don't remember the mixing of it - we never did, but I remember the big 5¢ tax on colored oleo stickers on the margarine boxes. It always amazed me how people who grew up on farms, and used so much butter, being used to butter, would scarf up that margarine! As a kid I never ate much margarine. I never liked the taste. I'd melt it into toast and occasionally a tiny bit on boiled potatoes but that's about it. Never wanted it on sandwiches. When I moved out I started to experience real butter and have used it ever since. When it gets overpriced, I don't buy and don't use it, but when I want it I want real stuff.

    The gum wrappers reminded me how my sister used to make gum wrapper chains. I don't know who chewed all that gum (I've never been much of a gum chewer) but she had 10-20 foot lengths of those gum wrapper chains and she'd make separate ones from the foil and the other wrapper.

    Even these days when camping there's the brush teeth & spit with a glass of water, although I do use toothpaste. Never really tried baking soda. Don't know why.

    DGS saw the bowl and said, "Are you using bowls for dustpans now?" Ha, ha. Very funny.
    Yes... sorry, but that IS very funny!

    One thing I never figured out. With all the frugality in my family growing up, especially with my dad, he would never carry a lunch box (or lunch pail if you prefer), even though he carried his lunch most every day of his working life. A skinny little fart who could eat all of us under the table. He always had a good appetite. Would really please people cooking for him. But I digress. He always wanted lunch bags. And they'd be store-bought. Ma would have to stuff it just right to fit everything in there. 2 big sandwiches, chips, 2 pieces of fruit (a banana and an orange were favorites), and 2 kinds of dessert (usually a piece of cake and 3-4 cookies). Fit THAT in those dinky bags! Sandwiches wrapped in wax paper, well most everything was. And he'd bring that bag back home to be reused until it fell apart. Then take a thermos of coffee with him and off he'd go. But he was excited that they were providing coffee in the later years so he didn't have to carry the thermos. -30° or +100° didn't matter, that thermos of coffee went with him after the bacon and eggs breakfast.

    I carried my lunch most of my elementary school life. I guess I started on school lunches in Jr. high. I was a fussy eater. Guess I still am in some ways. But didn't realize there was a desire to reuse the bags. Didn't bother me to bring it home again, but I wasn't as obsessive about it.

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  • vegangirl
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • ladytexan
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  • jayokie
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  • xminion
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    Aloha,

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  • ilene_in_neok
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    Jayokie, I got your e-mail and responded. --Ilene

  • roselee z8b S.W. Texas
    15 years ago
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    Just a note about adding olive oil to butter is to use extra light olive oil or the taste of olive oil will overcome the taste of the butter. I like the taste of olive oil myself, but hubby didn't, so now I use the extra light.

  • ladytexan
    15 years ago
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    roselee, thanks.

  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
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    LOL, you'll all think this is funny.... Turns out Jayokie and I live in the same town, not more than a few blocks from each other! --Ilene

  • ladytexan
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh ilene and Jayokie - that's too funny - and so very nice.

  • dockside_gw
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I'm (a young) 68 but reading the above makes me feel older than dirt as there is very little in them that is unfamiliar to me.

    I had to bring the aluminum foil that my mother used in my lunches home, to much derision from the girls that I ate lunch with in high school. Rarely could I buy lunch at school. I remember the orange button for oleo during the war years. My father absolutely refused to eat margarine after the war was over - only butter for him, which he spread on everything (even angel food cake). He stayed physically active his entire life and lived to be almost 81.

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    One year my father (who couldn't resist a "bargain") bought a case or two of canned green beans from a salvage place (damaged goods sold by the railroad). I came to absolutely hate canned green beans.

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  • Buehl
    15 years ago
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    Well, I just read this entire post...it was so interesting! I do remember some things and I realized that I used to do some of them myself but have gradually, over the years, succumbed to society's disposable attitude.

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  • ladytexan
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    dockside, I'm 67 plus - whether a young one or not, I'm still making up my mind.

    I do remember the war and rationing. I remember Granny and Grandad talking about giving up sugar in their coffee so the 'babies' could have their cocoa. I remember going to town in a horse drawn wagon or buggy because either there was no gas or the tires were too bad. We were pretty poor, so I'm not sure rationing affected us in too many ways. I still have my Grandad's ration stamp book.

    buehl, I'm a packrat as well. My husband used to say, 'if you haven't used it in a year, you don't need it'. Now he comes to me and asks, 'do you have any so and so'?

    There have been times my packrating has saved us, and others, money. I'd save more if I could always remember where everything is squirrelled away.

  • sherwoodva
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    This thread is wonderful. I am 60 and my parents grew up during the depression, so they saved everything. My mother tried to stretch stuff - she had us tear the paper napkins in half - we each got half. My sister mortified her one night in from of company by asking if she should tear the napkins in half. Mom also added water to the last of the syrup to make it go further. We grew all of our own vegetables and fruit. We (the kids) had to pick everything. All summer, we picked veggies and fruit. To this day, I can't stand green beans.

    My father's parents were very frugal. Grandpa made his own fishing nets. He had a bottling plant for a while, his brother had a dairy. My grandmother would unravel sweaters, etc. to make new sweaters or rugs. I still have a rug she made by sewing rolls of yarn onto a heavy duckcloth like material. She made a lot of our school clothes, stuffed animals, etc. Grandpa made our teeter-totter, our wagon, and our child sized furniture. When my nieces out-grew the furniture, my SIL gave it away. Mom was furious, but who has room these days to store stuff for nostalgia?

    My parents still save everything. We learned after my MIL died and the house was full of stuff she had never used; we have been going through our clothes, books, etc. to donate stuff or sell on CL. When we have to sell my parent's house, there will be a heck of a yard sale. My dad even has the wool coat he wore in college - he is 87 years old!

  • scarlett2001
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • pam225
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Hi,

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  • scarlett2001
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    This will gross you out, but when I was a teenage girl, my mom and I shared clothes, including underpants!
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  • twizzis
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • Bumblebeez SC Zone 7
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My mother would occasionally entertain us about her teen and college years - and the biggest horror was having to wash her hair in laundry detergent. Grandmother thought soap was soap!
    She had one new pair of shoes each year and one new dress. And they were a prosperous family- grandpa was a plant manager for many years.
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  • mommabird
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I'm 45, and even in the 60's and 70's when I grew up, we got one new pair of shoes each year. I usually had a pair of "school shoes" - brown lace-up shoes, a pair of sneakers, and a pair of Mary Janes for church. I wore my older brother's work boots to play in the snow.

    I have 3 sons - each have a hiking boots, tennis shoes, basketball shoes, church shoes, snow boots, reguar oxford shoes, slippers. We are DROWINING in shoes in my tiny house! And compared to their friends, they each have very few pairs of shoes.

    I think, as a percentage of income, shoes cost a lot more back then as compared to now.

  • grittymitts
    15 years ago
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    Back in the 40's when I was small, we were taught to polish our school shoes each night...no liquid stuff, it was wax & buff. A pc of newspaper was placed on hearth & they were all lined up & ready for school the next morning.

    My Dad was a real stickler for clean, polished shoes all his life and I am too.

  • roselee z8b S.W. Texas
    15 years ago
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    Does anyone remember bluing? Anyway my grandmother always did the final rinse of white things in blue water. The bluing came in a bottle, a blue one of course, and it only took a capful to do the rinse.

    She used it as a rinse for her white hair too :-)

  • budster
    15 years ago
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    Oh yes I remember bluing....my mother swore by it and still does at 84! Remember all those lacy doilies? Big change EVERY week and having to starch all those darn doilies ..... and my mother liked colored doilies...so the neighbor would notice the change from blue to pink or whatever. God forbid you put out blue ones following a week of blue ones.....no one would notice!

  • roselee z8b S.W. Texas
    15 years ago
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    How cute about the colored doilies Budster! But I didn't know they still sold bluing since we now have modern detergents and enzymes to brighten the laundry. We're always learning about something old, or new, around here everyday. Thank you everybody!

  • mommabird
    15 years ago
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    I bought some bluing recently to use to grow crystals on a sponge. Remember that from elementary school - salt and bluing on a sponge? I did that experiment with my boys. I found bluing at the grocery store.

    Speaking again of button jars, I lost a button off my favorite sweater this weekend. It has 8 buttons and I had to replace them all as the ones on it were very distincitive & I couldn't find a match. I looked through my button jar & the wonderful box of buttons nan_ne sent me recently - and there were not 8 matching buttons of the right size, I ended up having to go to Joann's and buy buttons! So just WHY did our grannies save all those buttons? To add frustration to their lives?
    :)

  • budster
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    mommabird Our mothers and grannies saved all those buttons to provide hours of entertainment to the kids. We would divide them up into piles by color and size. We practiced our counting and our adding and subtracting. Never needed to worry about missing markers for games, grab a button! We did crafts making whole scenes out of buttons glued on with the old four and water paste glued onto the cut up cereal boxes. Sometimes Grandma would see a certain button and have a story to tell - "I remember that button came off your dad's workpants when he drove the bus." The hours of entertainment those buttons provided. I'm sure we all have button jars somewhere, but now a days the kids need more complex forms of entertainment it seems. Did anyone else have emergency surgery done on their stuffed animals by having button replacements sewn on for noses and eyes after the factory one had fallen off or got lost? I'm sure half the stuffed toys I had as a kid had a replacement somewhere on their body. Those were the days!

  • jel48
    15 years ago
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    I'm only about a third the way through reading all the posts in this thread but I am enjoying it so much. And as I've read, and recalled things my mom and grandma did, I wrote them down. Even added some things I still do. And recalling all those things and writing them down is just as much fun as reading all of your posts. I've got to quit now, and make supper shortly, but will come back and read again later. for now, here are the great memories you've brought back to me.

    My mom took lard sandwiches to school (the few months of the year she and her siblings were allowed to go to school instead of working on the farm). They were homemade bread spread with nothing but lard. When they came home from school, their after school lunch was sourkraut from the crock that my grandmother stored in the root celler.

    She always saved margerine and cool whip containers to do her freezing in.

    My grandmother was the interesting saver though... she saved rubber bands, pieces of string, and even the aluminmun top that she cut off her coffee cans with the can opener. The rubber bands and string I can understand but I never did figure out what she was going to do with all those sharp edged circles she cut off the coffee cans!

    Oh, and she gave each of her grandkids a dollar for Christmas, rolled up in the cardboard from the middle of a roll of toilet paper!

    Grandma made applesauce cake and cookies for all her kids and grandkids for Christmas. She'd start out with the same basic recipe, but if she didn't have enough applesauce, she'd add some other kind of mushed canned fruit, and on more then one occasion she filled in with tomato juice! Odd thing was, no matter what she used instead of (or mixed with) the applesauce, the cakes were always moist and delicious! Then when she had measured out and baked cake, she'd take the rest of the batter and add extra flour to it to make the cookies. They were always great too.

    My mom raised chickens and she'd can the old hens once they no longer laid eggs. That canned chicken made the best milk gravy. I love it over biscuits and mashed potatoes to this day! And Mom would save the chicken fat and use it for the shortening in pie crusts. That yellow chicken fat made the prettiest and flakiest pie crusts you ever saw! Chicken manure was the best fertilizer too.

    Mom always had a garden that was about an acre in size too. She raised strawberries too. I remember picking strawberries and green beans by the 5 gallon bucket! And sweet corn.. we'd pick a pickup load of it and all of us girls would blanch it, cut it off the cob, and freeze it (in all those saved margerine tubs). The guys would usually help out with picking and shucking it.

    Oh, and the cracklin's that a couple of folks have mentioned. They are the best ever when heated up and served with pancakes. I haven't had those in YEARS! Ok... haven't had them in DECADES! But they sure were yummy.

    And we didn't wash styrofoam plates (of course Mom only used those in her later years) but we always washed plastic 'silverware' and used it forever, or at least until it broke.

    We had an outhouse when I was growing up and although we used toilet paper (not magazine pages) my dad, who was a farmer, always used corn cobs. I guess he did that when he was away from the outhouse and had to go, but then he also kept some corncobs in the outhouse and used them there too. Not exactly sanitary and definitely NOT soft!

    And when they had their first icebox, my father in law wouldn't let my mother in law or the kids freeze icecubes because it would cost to much.

    I guess I've inherited some of their frugality.

    We always reused wrapping paper. Even now, I can hardly stand to rip the paper off a gift. People get impatient waiting for me to find the tape and remove it :-)

    My step-daughter had jeans that ripped... all the way around each leg. The only thing holding the legs on was the inseam. We bought a pair of old jeans at the goodwill that were nearly the same shade, and I cut sections out of the legs (after matching up the width of the legs) and sewed them into the original jeans. She loved them! She wore them to a school dance and got all kinds of compliments on them!

    I work at home, doing telephone support for a software product, and it's necessary for me to take lots of notes. I save ALL of my scrap paper, use each side, and sometimes (if I didn't have a lot of notes for a single customer) I turn the paper upside down and use it from the other end too!

  • mommabird
    15 years ago
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    budster- now I have tears in my eyes. My original button jar came from Mrs. Green, our elderly neighbor when I was a kid. When she and my mom would visit, I'd sit on the floor and play with the buttons. I would sort, count, etc just like you described. She also used to give me a darning needle and thread so I could make button braclets - and there are several still in the jar that I made when I was 5 or 6. She gave me the jar when I was 8 or 9, when she moved into a retirement home. It was, is, and always will be my #1 prized possession. You are so right - the point of the button jar isn't to have a button, the point is to provide entertainment. She also used to give me a darning needle and thread so I could make button braclets.

    I wish I'd let my boys play with the botton jar more - but I was so afraid they would break the jar or loose the buttons. I was too caught up on MY memories of it to let them develop their own. I did let them play with it on occasion, so maybe they will remember those special occassions.

    Nan_ne sent me a whole box of buttons in plastic bags. Does anyone have any idea where I could get a large, thick glass jar with a screw-on lid to make a button jar? Mrs. Green used a giant sized Mallow Creme jar - the lid still has the Mallow Creme logo & recepie for Mallow Creme and PB sandwiches. Food just doesn't come in jars like that any more - giant sizes of stuff comes in cans now.

  • Adella Bedella
    15 years ago
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    If you want a large jar, check out the huge pickle jars like they have at Wal-Mart. They are with the extra large cans at our Wal-Mart.

  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
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    Mommabird, they sell big jars at K-Mart, too, for use as canisters. They're under the Martha Stewart brand and they look like the old coffee jars. Hold about a gallon. I think there's also a smaller version that holds about a quart.

    You can also go to restaurants and ask them for jars that they get pickles or marashino cherries or hot peppers in, although some of these things come in plastic jars now.

    Garage sales are a good source, too, but you may have to go to several before you run onto one. Try flea markets if there are any near you.

  • sheesh
    15 years ago
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    Bluing works wonders on whites! I discovered it 3 or 4 years ago; now I use bluing in every load of whites. Wish I'd known about it when my kids were little. Makes a very big difference. I use Mrs Stewart's.

  • budster
    15 years ago
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    Mommabird - I have some of those jars you describe, my MIL got them when she worked in a hospital kitchen. Any large establishment should have some - start calling around and I'm sure you will score a hit. Like you I wonder why I too didn't let my child play with the button jar more. I guess like some one else said, it was we were worried they'd swallow them or something just as awful. Funny that wasn't even a consideration when I was small. Guess we just knew better? I did purchase a little toy for my child about 30 years ago.......how dumb was this - the toy was a jar of oversize buttons and a plastic needle (also oversize) to help with hand eye co-ordination! They were to thread the buttons through one eye, one on top of the other and then go back up through the second hole. Some of the buttons had 4 wholes, some had 2 but they were to be separated and made into two strings as the child advanced. Oh yah, a therapist reccommended this toy and my child did enjoy it but just how dumb is that?? Oh well, I donated it to a preschool after we were done with it. But really how silly!

  • mommabird
    15 years ago
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    There is a very large nursing home in my neighborhood - I'm going to call and ask if they can give me the jars! I called them once when I needed giant cans for a Cub Scouts project for my den. I asked the kitchen manager I needed 2 large cans. When I went the next day to pick them up, he had about 40 cans for me!! I hope they recycle all those giant cans if they use that many in a day!

    Budster, I'm laughing about they toy because I bought something equally as silly when my sons were toddlers. It was a kit with a big plastic needle and felt shapes. They were supposed to sew the shapes together - like whip stitching. I thought after they opened it, this is dumb - I have plastic needles from sewing pieces of afagans together, left over yarn, and felt squares! I had everything in the house to MAKE that toy. It was a "frugal slip" to buy it.

  • bobo101
    14 years ago
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    I've LOVED all these stories, brings back old memories. My kids and grandkids now automatically hand me the boxes, bows, gift bags, and ocassionally paper from holiday wrapping when we are opening gifts, along with a "funny" look, but they've also asked me on occassion if I have any wrapping paper or gift box lying around if they are in need of such. As for the bacon grease, of course, I can't imagine anyone not saving it. My kids sure like "Granny's green beans" and ask me to bring them to any add a dish. I would really like to have a good book with "recipes" for making all natural things such as shampoo, laundry detergent, etc. if anyone can suggest one.

  • ilene_in_neok
    14 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Bobo, I recommend Rodale's Book of Practical Formulas: Easy-to-Make, Easy-to-Use Recipes for Hundreds of Everyday Activities and Tasks, edited by Paula Dreifus Bakule and put out by Rodale Press. You might try to find it on Amazon. --Ilene

  • Rudebekia
    14 years ago
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    I'm 50 and grew up in the Chicago area. A few memories are:
    --making those endless gum chains, for no real purpose. Did we really chew that much gum??
    --also making endless yarn-rope chains with that neat little contraption (a spool with four nails in it) and a hook. I guess we were supposed to then sew them into a round rug, but we only kept making colorful chains.
    --my mother sprinkling then rolling up my dad's white shirts and putting them in the refrigerator (?) until ironing them.
    --typical school box sandwiches were liverwurst or peanut butter. For both, my mother spread mayonaise on the other side of the bread. (Peanut butter and mayo? Amazing that I'm still alive).
    --my German/Czech grandparent spread lard on bread, then dipped it in chopped parsley for a sandwich.
    --that super thin onion-skin-like overseas letter paper. You wrote on every inch and then the recipient lost a lot of the message because it always tore when trying to open the sides and top.
    --some of my favorites memories were long, hot summer days with mom and grandma sitting outside on the porch swing and fanning themselves while we ran through the sprinkler. And warm nights with the windows open and the crickets' songs and fire flies everwhere. Where did all the fire flies go? I don't even think we had electric fans.
    --some luxuries in the house were the occasional magazine my mom bought, paper towels, any beauty product besides Johnson's baby shampoo, Tame cream rinse, Ponds' cream.
    --powdered milk. We hated the stuff, but went through several years of it. Had to make it freezing cold before we could drink it. Yuck!

  • bobo101
    14 years ago
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    ilene,
    Thanks so much for the tip on the book Rodale's Book on Practical Formulas. I did go to Amazon and found one for $.54 + 3.99 shipping, talk about frugal. I'm sure I'll enjoy it and get lots of info.

  • ilene_in_neok
    14 years ago
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    You're welcome Bobo!

    Marita, I saw fireflies just the other night! It took me back, too. We lived on a farm when I was little and I remember those evenings on the porch. We kids would chase the fireflies with a jar and try to save them. One Hot evening, as we all sat out on the porch, eating fresh, hot buttered "roast n'eers", it clouded over and started to rain. We kids played out in the rain and got soaking wet, but it was SOOOO refreshing after such a hot day.

  • plantmaven
    14 years ago
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    I just "surfed" in here.
    When I was about 8 yrs old my uncle gave mother a parachute.
    She made panties for us. I hated those, as the had the elastic in a casing and not sewn on like the store bought.
    Lord forbid that I look different than the rest of the girls.
    I don't know about now, but back then parachutes were made from 100% silk.

  • ilene_in_neok
    14 years ago
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    Oh, my gosh! I had forgotten all about the parachute! We had one too. I was about five or six when I first became aware of it, so that would be about 1952. It was huge, and I don't remember whatever happened to what was left of it. My mom had a picture of my oldest sister in her prom dress that was made out of it! My sister was 16 when I was born and so that would've been about 1948 or 1949.

  • joyfulguy
    14 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    And how often did you run around in just panties, for the public to see whether the elestic was store-bought sewn-on ... or enclosed in a tube???

    I have a current problem.

    I have briefs whose elastics have got older and tireder than even I ...

    ... and when working in my garden in my coveralls (with cotton sheet between cap and covderalls to deter mosquitoes) ...

    ... or running errands in town ... or doing whatever ...

    ... it becomes somewhat frustrating to have them slide down till they hang around my knees: the only thing worse that I can think of in that departement is were I to be wearing a dress, and out in public!

    I've been trying to figure a way to make an elastic belt for myself to hold the briefs up. Portable ... because I have about half a dozen pairs of briefs in such condition. Trouble is, I've been wondering what to use as a fastener ... but think that a couple of pieces of velcro fastened to the ends would work well.

    Too frugal to throw those old briefs out ...

    ... well, at least until there's such holes in the bottom that they look as though they'd suffered through jet-propelled diarrhea.

    I have some bean seeds, saved from last year's crop - stored in a carton that held choc. milk a while ago.

    Hope you're having a great week - I just spent part of yesterday and today visiting with my brother and wife from the Prairies ... down in this area to attend their son on the birth of their grandchild. It's always as joy to spend time with them.

    ole joyfilled

  • plantmaven
    14 years ago
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    LOL
    I was referring to gym class and sleep overs.

    When I was in HS Mother used old panties as a dish rag.
    A friend of hers came to visit and took them off the clothes line and took them home with her.
    When Mother's birthday rolled around, she received a package from her friend. It was those panties. They frequently did those type of gags to each other.

  • mommabird
    14 years ago
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    Joyful - it sounds like it is time to throw in the towel on those briefs! LOL

  • budster
    14 years ago
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    Hey go with the velcro Joyful......and each extra wearing will give you a smile. Budster

  • cmj_1313_hotmail_com
    13 years ago
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    Loved the post about making the milk go further by mixing real milk with the powdered kind. Not bad if it got ice cold, but as you I had 5 brothers and sisters so it hardly ever did. So many other posts remind me of my grandmother "Nana", who would never throw out a paper towel if it just wiped up a splash of water, put it over the towel rack and let it dry and it can be used again. Make two cups of tea with one tea bag, who could taste the difference. Using old nylons to tie things, reusing almost anything that was purchased really, certainly not the disposable society we have created!!

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