ANY ideas what to do...it takes both of them to sign to remove his dad's name.

My other thought is that she is perhaps unstable and it is an emotional problem. Is she in denial over the death of her father?

Does she have some stated reasons for being unwilling?

But then - you wouldn't know, if they haven't talked.

How can joint executors deal with an estate if they aren't talking?

Does she fear that your husband may be about to skin her?

Alive?

Is there someone familiar with such issues, who knows them both and whom she trusts, who could talk to her?

Such as a priest, rabbi or other clergyperson?

Family doctor, etc.?

I hope that you can find your way out of this dilemma without too much damage.

And without hurt feelings, or long-term anger or resentment, not speaking, etc., along the way.

ole joyful

I didn't check today but the KT is worried about you!!!