| They may have a bit of a problem getting used to civilian life, where we must all make our own decisons. In the military, most decisions are made for the grunts. When the leader says, Jump!" ... all that they can say is, "How high?". Maybe a book dealing with managing one's life a good idea. We have one here, mostly dealing with personal financial management, aimed largely at employed women (but useful for anyone), that's quite comprehensive but written in easily understood language. "Balancing Act" by Joanne Thomas Yaccato. But it's based on the Canadian system. Sorry I don't have any better idea to offer. joyful guy/Ed |