| Hi Southwind, Have you ever lived in the area where you think that you'd like to live later? Some recommend that folks planning a move to a dream area rent a place for a year or so before they buy. You don't require a fancy place - many folk are happy in a modest home, after their family are on their own. Is your husband's new occupation transferable? Maybe he can practise it while at your new place. Can you find work in your chosen field, there - or some other kind of work at similar rate of return? Just some ideas that bounced around in my mind after reading your post. Good wishes as you get used to the new situation. As one who was willing to be appointed as a missionary helping people get back on their feet in an area where a war was still waging (it was finished by the time of my arrival), I guess I'm more willing than many to take risks. Though I did trust that my Heavenly Father would take care of me (as long as I was reasonably careful - I don't like sticking my head in lions' mouths (or even one lion's mouth, thanks). But - I say that I hope that you don't give up on your dreams. Don't take crazy risks, for if they turned out badly, you might end up with an impoverished old age. Good wishes as you proceed with your plans. joyful |