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Posted by toolgranny (My Page) on Fri, Nov 20, 09 at 17:57
| Okay, I already have tons of fabric. More than most people, even quilters. I can't pass up a sale, fabric garage sale when a quilter dies or moves, fabric in the thrift shop, you name it.
I made a plan today. I would clear out colors I never use and take them over to our charity quilt people (and have space to store more fabric). So, I head for the big box of peach color, lights to darks, all peach. I got these mostly at a garage sales for next to nothing but I NEVER use that color. I tried and I tried but I can't bring myself to put it in the giveaway box. Same with the blues and extra greens. I tried, honest.
What's wrong with me? Maybe if I cut a small piece of each to fondle I can let the rest go? This is crazy! I think I'll go have a glass of wine and think about getting therapy! |
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RE: Fabric addiction, I'll admit it!
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| Well "Toolgranny", pour a glass for me because I'm thinking I have the same addiction and need therapy also. I have gone almost a whole year not buying any new fabric EXCEPT for the other day I bought my first fatquarter in one long time...the fabric was so pretty but what can you do with one 18X22 piece of material? I need more material to go with that one 18X22 piece of material....I have promised myself I would not indulge until January 1,2010....it has been a hard year for Joannes Fabrics and also for me. So my dear you are not alone, sometimes I feel like a "closet alcoholic" except that material is my addiction of choice. |
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| Think of this way. There are chilly people out there, people with no quilt at all, people who love peach but can't even afford a peach t-shirt to give them a bit of comfort on a cold, hungry night. Think of a small, shivering child, clutching a broken peach crayon, who wonders why the world doesn't care about her. Look into your heart--can't you spare a bit of peach fabric? |
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| Hey, if you'd feel better if you knew it went to a good home, I'll take real good care of the blues & greens! Can't do much with the peaches though... |
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| If you can't let it go, you must use it. Try making a block or two, and if you just can't do it, perhaps it will be easier to let go. Now more to the point, I thought I timed my fabric purchase so it would be delivered the week DH worked. But it came today, 3 boxes. He just shook his head. I haven't opened them yet. He doesn't know how tightly they can be packed. beverly |
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| Ah it is nice to have some friends with such a wonderful addiction! Let me know where we can go for therapy...I always thought that's what a retreat was LOL. I love buying fabric as much or more than sewing it. I stash and hoard it in totes and a big trunk and on wintery days I can sort through it and remember purchasing each item...not necessarily what I was going to do with it. Over the past couple years I have weened out fabrics I will never sew, poly cottons and other odd ball stuff. I couldn't do it in one shot, just kept going through stashes and took out a bit each time. I am down to strictly cotton quilting fabrics. I came across Bonnie Hunter's site and the Heartstring site and now I better utilize my scraps and now I am also addicted to scrap quilts so the stash takes even longer to use. I now keep track of what I use and what I add..the guilt of adding MORE than what I use help me keep some self control. Each year I set a goal to donate 12 quilts...the most I have done in 1 year is 9 and this year I am at 5...but it is all better than none. I send mine to a children/adult cancer treatment center. Jeane |
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| I have a very small stash compared to some other people, but I'm still emotionally connected to each and every piece. The other day I was "shopping" in my stash for a child's quilt and picked out a blue that worked with the other colors. I had inherited it from someone, can't recall who. When I took it to the ironing board it was so thin I could see through it. The selvedge said cotton but it was like an ancient handkerchief washed nearly to death. I folded it back up but stood there arguing with myself for a good 5 minutes whether or not I would EVER consider using it in a project, any project. It's such a great blue (but it's see-through), it's such a large piece (but it's see-through). You understand my point. I ended up tossing it but thought about it all day long with pains of regret. I feel your pain, toolgranny! |
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I gave away half of my stash the spring of 2008. It was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made. Bon :) |
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Here's my solution: Make a mandate to yourself - no new fabric until you've made a decision to either part with or use some of the stuff you don't like in your stash! That's what I did when I lost my job. I actually made a couple of very nice quilts. (But I broke the mandate when my husband requested a quilt for our bed and I didn't have enough of the blue fabric I needed). Having a limited budget is probably the only thing that makes this sorta work, and I don't wish that on anyone. So if you have the cash, increase your stash! Hey, if it makes you feel better, put the stash in your will to go to some charity that makes quilts, that way you can live happy and die beloved. Rita |
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| Linda...too funny about the peaches! I don't think I use them very much either. I did make a nice Tumbling Block baby quilt in peach and med/dark blues years ago. That baby girl is probably close to graduating high school. I love to "shop" my stash to make a quilt. In fact, I'm quite put out if I have to go buy other fabrics to make up the mix. Now, finally, we have Hobby Lobby that does at least have a fabric department. Good idea about the will, Rita! I need to make a codicil for my machines to help my boys when my time is up. Teresa |
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| I feel for you all--although I have to admit that I don't have the same problem. I destash at least once a year, usually in January when I clean the disaster area that is the sewing room after all the Christmas sewing is done. I ruthlessly get rid of any fabric that's been in my stash more than a few years without being used. If I look at it and say, "What was I thinking?", it goes. I think that's why my stashes (yarn and fabric) never get out of hand. I haven't bought any new fabric since I was in Wisconsin last August, and that was for a specific quilt that I was working on. |
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| I don't want to be cured of my fabric addiction. I don't have bolts of fabric, don't buy a lot and only buy what I like, or think I like. I don't know where all this fabric came from, but it's mine and until I use it, or give it to Salijo, it stays and there is no guilt involved at all. Linda, I double dawg dare ya to make a light to dark peach quilt...that, my dear, is your challenge for 2010! LOLOLOL Sharon |
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| Hi! Ladies~ Reading this thread has lightened my Sat afternoon! You've all made some great points. Going thro my stash, caressing it, remembering the fun times had when I bought it (often on shopping binge with quilting friends) & planning the next quilt - what an upper! To me THAT is therapy! I'm with you, Sharon, I don't want to be 'cured' of my addiction. Maybe I'm justifying, but I figure this addiction is 1-my creative outlet, 2-a good thing because it's being used, 3-harmless (until the tower of cottons comes down on my head), 4-legal, & 5-keeps me out of the bars! LOL! And what other addiction, other than knitting/crocheting, results in a beautiful item to warm the body & spirit?? I say Stashers - be proud! Hold your heads high! because we belong to the Sisterhood of Quilters, & that's pretty darn cool!! ~Cindy Toolgranny - I love peach! (Our first daughter was nicknamed Peaches the moment my husband saw her peachy little face) If you'd like to trade some for another color that you like, let me know! |
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| Ohhh, I am so bad. Went to Hancocks, just to get thread mind you. The place was packed! Seems they were having a 30-50% off sale, plus another 10% if you had one of their cards. So....I got my thread for 99 cents a cone, and some denim for more rag quilts, and some more green fabrics, and a pattern, and some jewelry findings for DD#1, and some extra thread (just in case you understand), and some fast 2 fuse. I think that is all. beverly |
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| Oh Bev, you inspire me! There's a big sale at LQS on black Friday. Maybe if I pass off some of this stuff, I can buy more?? I'm not sick, I'm just inspired! Fortunately my daughter quilts so it will all be hers some day. |
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I love peach too!!! Peach and brown is gorgeous, also peach and green!!!! My prob is the opposite, I buy fabric I love and don't want to cut it up!!!!!!! I guess I'm afraid it will not be as lovely cut into smaller pieces, and that is weird LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I need to start throwing the Connecting Thread magazine in the trash unopened!!! Rosa |
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| I am greatful that my addition is fabric as there are a lot of worse ways to be hooked. I think we all have some in our stash that gets buried but there is always the scrap quilt that needs that extra boost or someone in need that can use just that ?? what ever were we thinking. That could be a 2010 challenge for all of us to try and make something from THAT fabric we just never use. Jayne |
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| I don't have this problem either - like Annie, I'm perfectly willing to get rid of fabrics that have been sitting around for a couple of years. I did this earlier this year, and got rid of about 12 yards of ugly fabrics. Many were the lone fat quarter I didn't like in a bundle of fat quarters, some were yardages given to me several years ago, and some were left-over fairly large pieces, and some were from gifted "scrap bags" from quilty friends. (There's a reason I don't buy "scrap bag bundles", LOL. I offered them up on our neighborhood email first, and a young girl wanting to learn to quilt took all of it. She was going to spend the summer at her grandmother's house specifically to learn how to piece a quilt top. I was both relieved and pleased - my excess of stuff I really did not want to use went to someone who wanted to learn. |
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| Mary, how wonderful to help a budding quilter start her addiction, I mean hobby. I love the idea of a neighborhood email too. May have to set one up here, (except some of our neighbors are related to each other and don't get along at all). beverly |
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Guess many of us feel your pain! My fabric addiction doesn't bother me so much except for the storage & finding things when I need them. It's becoming very difficult! A small group of us have gotten together to do quilts that use up our stash. We look at books & come to a consensus of what to do. 1st we did the Jubilee pattern, uses strips. Now we are doing a Buggy Barn star pattern & next we want to do a Karla Alexander Stack the Deck. Granted this barely makes a dent, but we feel better & we have a blast! My guild offers many opportunities to donate, fabric, tops ,you name it. We even have a free table at guild meetings. I even leave non quilty items like magazines, books, It always goes! yipee! Jill |
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| when my friends saw my stash they don't understand how i aquired so much. it's because when ever i was upset with my husband i went out and bought fabric. hehe ralfsmon |
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| I got to the point where I was stashing fabric in my daughter's room under her bed. A couple of months ago, I had surgery and was in another world when I came home, while my hubby took care of the kids. DH decided to "clean" our daughter's room and found the box of stash. He asked me if I needed it and I said no just toss it. Now looking back, it makes me rather ill what was in that box! If he only knew the money I had spent for the contents he would be ill too! Rebecca |
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| I've been weeding out my sewing room lately as well,and now have 2 bags of fabric here that i plan to try and sell on Craigs list.One bag has over 50 yds in it,all big pieces,about 3 yds + -,most are cottons and a few rayon types.The other bag is flannel,t-shirt knits etc.I also have stacks of as new quilt,sewing and craft books.I need to make a list of those so i can post them to Craigs list as well. I'm not doing much sewing,quilting etc as much anymore as the breast cancer and the removal of lymph nodes has left my arm messed up and in pain too much. I worked in a quilt store for 10 years and had a fabric addiction,LOL that's my excuse and i'm sticking to it. Kathi |
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| I'm enjoying my TG holiday and plan to hit the LQS yard sale tomorrow. Great deals. To make room, I brazenly threw colors and fabrics I knew I wouldn't use into boxes and sent them off to people I know who will use them. I feel liberated. This makes them enablers but they don't know it so it's not their fault. I think I'll make a new rule, if I don't use it for any project for two years, out it goes. And, I'll also be more careful about what I bring home. |
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