He probably filed those marks off, thinking the damage dummies inside did that to break the funny rod! Uhhh---what is "timing"? Kin ya set yer watch by them? Ohh, yes, How have we gotten this far in life?? Didn't anybody pay attention in school? When they passed out the brains, I hid behint the door, because I wuz scared of trains! Yes--the old guy is back! Still hale and hearty! Still fixin' stuff! Got a new lady friend, and life is GOOD! See ya! RJ

I think your trees will be OK. As for pinching off the new shoots/leaves?--I don't think this will kill the tree. If there was too much root loss resulting in severe and persistent wilting, I prefer to selectively prune off the less important branches, such as lower branches that you will want to prune off anyway, branches that by chance are growing very close to each other and/or crossing each other (the smaller of the two), and some smaller branches carrying foliage in the interior ot the tree--to thin it out a bit. And, of course, if there are two leaders, cut one off. It is normal for red maples newly planted not to grow much for the first year of two. As for the wilting appearance--this is also normal if it just means that the leaves seem a bit limp in the afternoons. If this wilting persists and worsens, even in the mornings, then some pruning as described above can help. And, of course, keep the trees well watered. If they were groqn in pots, sometimes the soil in the pots is thin and does not hold much water. Because the trees don't yet have their roots growing much into the surrounding soil, you must be careful to keep them well watered, maybe as much as every other day if the soil in the pot is a light thin soil and the soil you have planted them in is well drained (meaning the water soaks through it fairly quickly). --Spruce

I just read this post and wanted to respond. I was interested in the responses that you recieved V. Some were helpful. I have a few thoughts on this subject as well. I found it amazing that someone would have the guts to post that if you can't feed them don't breed them. As if by asking the question about how to prepare for the future, you are not doing your duty. It sounds like you are doing a great job feeding them, if you will, and are now looking toward the future. Good for you. I also found it interesting that the debate came down to a pick one scenario for everyone who did respond. You are crazy to pay for their college and not take care of yourself or you are selfish to take care of your retirement and not help your kids. I put forth that you have set two goals and want to know how to make both of those goals work. Without knowing more about your financial situation, no one can tell you how to do this or if it's possible. What I will tell you is about myself. I am a stay at home mother of three. My husband is ten years older than I am. He wants to retire in his early 60's (62 at the latest). Our children will just be going to college at about the time he wants to retire. I want to pay for college for my children. These are both valid goals. We gathered all of our information together and went and paid 400$ to a financial planner. It was the BEST thing we ever did. We are not rich. But we thought it was well worth the money to have someone help us look at our overall financial well being and help us draw some basic predictions (conservative predicitons) towards the future. He looked at our insurance and our finances. We found out we probably needed more disability insurance, if something were to happen to my husband, there is no way we could have held on to the house and made things work, even if I went back to work. We found out that we were doing fine with retirement and needed to think about college funds. I have the peace of mind now, knowing that if my husband were to die or get injured we could keep the house, maintain our style of living and be OK. And I won't have to go to work. That is important to us. We can retire in our 60s but it will most likely be age 65 (instead of 62) and pay most of our kids college expensis. I would strongly suggest that you think about going to a financial planner. Pick one wisely but know that they are worth the money in my book. Some things to think about- you can save for the local state university and your child will end up in Harvard. Then what? For us, we decided to save as much as we could towards helping our children get a basic four year degree. If we have enough to pay for their college, great. If they go to Harvard, Yale etc- high expensis, they will have to work and get student loans and scholarships. Or you will save for college and they won't go to college. Then what? This is one reason we have not put anything in their name that will equal a large chunk of money that will be theirs at age 18. Although they are adults at age 18, we know that they are still young and still lack the in depth decision makign skills they might need. We would hate to see our money spent on a nice car at the expense of college. The choice will be theirs at that time. What college to go to? How to help pay for it- live at home, work, not go? They will be well on their way to adult hood and able to make decisions that impact their future. Even now, our children are encouraged to save for college. (ages 4,2,5 months). We take any gift money sent to them and put it in the bank in their name. We give them a small allowance and help them split it up to tithing, spending, savings (my 2 and 5 months old don't get it yet, but they will). We are setting a policy now that any money they get in gifts at least 1/2 will go to the bank. This will be their money towards college and other expensis they may have as they grow and leave home. (Down payment on a home? Down payment on an appt? Down payment on a car? college?) The other thing we did- we took all of our money (except for a little bit) and put it in our accounts. We have not seperated out college vs retirement vs a big wedding. We figure it is all ours and if something comes up that we have to spend it, we want to be able to do so with out feeling like we are spending our childrens' money. WE earned it and we want to use it the best way we need to at any given time. You just never know what will come up (accident, job loss, etc.)... So it's in one big pot with our name on it (except for a very little bit). Closer to college time we will sit down and figure out where we stand- how much we have total, how much we can help each child out with college, how much we need for retirement etc. Then we will help our children. It is my belief that we had these children and along the lines of if you can't feed them don't breed them- we want to help them along in their adult hood the best we can. It seems a shame to force them to take on student loans when we will hopefully be in a position to help them if not pay for their college totally. I have some personal reasons for wanting to help my children through college based on my history. But there you have it. On the flip side though, we do not want to hurt our retirement or not retire to help our children. As someone posted earlier- $30,000 at age 30 is easier to pay off in the long run than the same debt at age 60 on a fixed income. I maintain that there is probably a fine line between these two goals that you can walk. I would put forth that with some research and budgeting, most families can be in the position we are now in. It's not ideal- we scrimp a bit and we don't do everything (many) of the things I'd like to do (like move to a huge house, go on more vacations, fly etc). But I feel good about where we stand. We know we can take care of ourselves and our children now and for many years to come. We know we can retire and help our kids through college. A 529 is a great option. We have one for each child. There are other options- roth iras, coverdale ira, schwab accounts, drips, etc. You get the idea. This is one reason we went to a financial planner. He helped us untangle the information and then backed off and let us make the decisions that we felt were best. Good Luck. Ginger

Not NO, but HELL NO!!!!!!!! When I was a 15yr old kid back on the farm my cousin and I found a 300ft length of 1/2" steel cable hanging in the shop and we got the brainstorm to make a zip line. We grabbed the cable and a couple clamps and headed to the woods where we strung the cable across a bit hollow. When we went looking for a pulley all we could find was a pulley designed for 2" rope, but when your a kid, that s close enough. I hung the pulley on the rope, then I got a stick about 2" in diameter and three feet long, which I attached to the pulley with bailer twine to make a seat. I then sat on the seat, gripped the bailer twine for dear life and let her go...zooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom, only as I was rapidly approaching the tree at the bottom at about 40mph I realized, I had no brakes and sure enough,,,Whaaam, I hit the tree hard enough to knock the wind out of me... Well we weren't about to let anything as stupid as the lack of brakes from thwarting our effort, so we got an old burlap sack and wrapped it around the cable near the end, figuring the burlap would get jammed up in the pulley and serve as a brake, which it did very nicely,,,however, what we had not taken into consideration was that on the first pass my weight had pulled all the slack out of the line where it wrapped around the trees and this time it was sagging a bit lower on the finish end, which I soon discovered as it drug my butt through a blackberry bush at about 40mph, totally tearing the rear end out of my bluejeans, along with a substantial part of my backside. And if that was not bad enough, after I finally hobbled my tore up butt to the house I tried to sneak upstairs to change my jeans before Mom found out, only when I started up the stairs, Mom was right behind me, and she could not help noticing a raw bloody mess where the backside of my jeans was supposed to be. She made me lay face down on the bed and had my cousin bring a bucket of warm water, then Mom cleaned up the mess to see how bad I was hurt and for the next hour she sat there with a pair of tweezers digging blackberry thorns out of my butt. Believe me,,,I have had a lifetime supply of riding zip lines....LOL