Right now I use a harness for my bulldog. The reason I started using the harness was because I was afraid of choking her with a regular collar if I put it on too tight, but if it was not tight she would get out of it. The harness just made me feel alot safer walking her on the street. However with a harness I have no control over her. She is a good dog, but sometimes she does not want to walk. I refuse to use a choker or a prong collar. Recently I've been taking her leash and just looping it around her neck and using that to control her and make her walk....of course I still have her harness on because I'm afraid the looped leash is not good enough. Is there a better collar that I should be using?