minic yup that's my bathroom most likely (cabs built around sink). I ended up ordering a sink and toilet from the antique plumbing supply for him (no slate not the dragon...though I liked that best LOL but he has a train themed room so we're going with a train). Minic if you do use the cabinet design, here's my feedback after a year in that house (it's in a different home than the one we're doing the child's bathroom in). I love love love the six spice drawers on the base of our stack (3 on 3). They're perfect for a bathroom, meds, small hair goodies, makeup, blah blah they're always full and we love them. I wish I'd have done more. But on the cabs...I wish I'd have done the plug receptical inside of the cabinet door verses on the wall outside of the door. It interfears with a drawer if you have anything plugged in and with opening the door fully. Having it inside the cabinet would allow me to leave some items plugged in (like the tooth brush charger etc) without them being in the way.

The old-fashioned plunger sometimes works wonders on sinks. The plunger does it's best work when you pull it up. The vacuum helps pull back compacted debris so that it can hopefully move on down the drain. Run water while using the plunger.

Build it now. We built our late last year and have a 2.5 yr old and a 2 month old. The 2.5 year old is already swimming under water and jumping in and we started teaching back in April. Prior to that we exposed him to the pool in the hot tub over the winter. If you will teach, then do it now. By the way, good instruction video on youtube check out Samantha from Sharks and Minnows swim school. That's what I used and its been great. We are already floating the 2 month old around the pool and he loves it. Pools can be dangerous so the sooner you teach how to float and get back to the steps/edge the better. I could imagine what we would have done this summer without our pool. We spend all day just about everyday out there whether in the water or not. Good luck

Its easy for people to say run and get out of this relationship, but if you're truly in love with him, it's not an easy thing to do. I'm sure you already know that. I think you have to do a few things. First, if you can't accept that he has a child and you're not "his first", then move on because it is what it is and it's not going to change. There is a child involved and it's not fair if you go into this relationship with some bitterness that could affect this child later on. If you are truly in love with this man and can't live without him, then accept that he has a child, accept that you need to be a loving stepmom to this child and have a heart to heart sit down with your fiance to let him know that and most of all, that there can be no more lying/deception. I'm not making excuses for his lying at all, but it's possible that he knew how you would react and how you want to be his first and that's why he was embarrassed and scared to say anything. If you let him know that you're supportive of the fact that he now has a child, hopefully he'll be more forthcoming in the future. If not, move on. And I'd also wait a while if you do get married, before having a child. Wait and see how he does with being a father to this other child before you put another child into the picture. If he's not a loving, supportive father to his first child, do you really want him to father your child? I would think not. Bottom line, you can't re-write history, accept the current situation or move on. Good luck to you, I wish you the best.