Son 19 flunked college..now what?
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What do you think of this? Discrimination against boys?
Comments (23)I'm not saying boys shouldn't be disciplined for acting out in class. I agree with Houseful - - children need to be taught self-control. My DS doesn't act out in school. He raises his hand and follows the rules. But he does have a lot of trouble sitting still and staying focused. He is not on ADD meds because he isn't hyperactive, just unfocused and fidgety, but he also has serious learning disabilities and "regular" teaching methods simply do not work for him, nor for lots of other boys with whom he is pulled out for special ed. I do think that we need to appreciate that boys are often different and learn differently and embrace that rather than trying to shove them into a mold made for girls. While many manage to conform to the mold, many do not. In the "old days" before the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act was passed, my son would have been the kid that was pushed from grade to grade, earning c's and d's, not really learning to read, and he probably would have dropped out at 16. We all had those boys in our schools, right? Because of this anti-discrimination law, our school system has to find a way to teach him that actually works for him. But it's a constant battle, because he also has to be mainstreamed to the extent possible (according to the law), so it's like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole for 3/4 of the day, and then he gets pulled out for an hour and actually learns something. And there are lots of boys who go through this with him every day, while only a couple of girls. There must be a better way....See MoreWhat Have You Hung On The Walls In Your Kitchen?
Comments (51)We have just about zero wall space. I put b&w photos my daughter (a jr. in high school at the time) took during our first family overseas trip (to Italy)on the sides of some tall cabinetry. I love the look and the memories (dd is about to grad. from college.) We also have small family photos (also from trips) on little shelves in the kitchen....See MoreIn Need of Help
Comments (6)I agree with Vivian. Just take care of yourself and your hubby. These are adults now. Or basically on the cusp of being adults. It is your husbands fault for raising his kids in such a manner andyou cannot undo what has been done. Stand your ground with the youngest. Speak with your husband assuring him you are not yelling at him or anything. Please dont get into a stink about what he gives his kids. Those are his to do as he pleases even though you are digusted by their behavior. i know it its hard to ignore but focus on your relationship and let him handle that. If he wants to spend his cash, let him, so long as it does not put a cramp financially on you guys. I dont think they will be around forever..maybe another few years....See MoreWhat to put in these niches?
Comments (104)I would do stained glass with timer lights behind the panels. Something like flameless candles, or timer string o lights that are around during Christmas. Or if you are lucky and can find them, there are remote control lights out there- I picked some up during Halloween that were supposed to go in pumpkins. Then you would have the niches lit up or not at will, or timed during the later evening hours when a little ambient light is nice. Even the stained glass could be easy- they sell the fake stuff at most home improvement places, or you could make your own using liquid glass. I've made several fake glass panels out of the liquid glass stuff. Or you could use rice paper, and just do solid frosted panels....See Morepopi_gw
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