Intentional Perenting
I heard just a piece of something on the radio (I had missed most of the program, as I had gotten into the car in the middle of the radio program).
They talked about "intentional parenting", meaning parenting your children with the long term vision, of what is important to you in teaching and passing on to your children.
For example, look ahead to the years when your job as an active parent is finished (when your child becomes an adult, or goes off to college, etc) what is it that you feel is important to make sure you have taught your child?
They suggested coming up with a plan to "intentionally parent" your child. If you want them to know how to cook, or take care of a home, or laundry, or fixing things, etc. then come up with a way to teach your child what you feel they will one day need to learn. How about passing on values and character, or faith? How about teaching them how to resolve problems, or work as a team, as they will have to in work situations one day? How about finances, and the lure of credit cards? How about saving for long term goals?
And so here it is January. A fresh slate for new ideas in your family.
What about one night a week for a game night, so they look back one day and think it was fun being a child in their family?
Chores so that they learn a work ethic, and what it means to be part of a team (family) and contribute towards the better good of the family, beyond just themselves?
If you are good at something, or their grandparents are, what can they learn from other family member? Knitting, car repair, cooking, fixing a toilet or a leaky faucet, how to iron, gardening, etc. The list could go on and on.
And so, I thought I would pass on what I heard, and perhaps some of you have some really great ideas on what you do (or would like to do) to "intentionally parent" your kids.
Any great ideas on what would be really great to pass on and teach kids?
And as a P.S. I had talked to a building supervisor one day about what his biggest frustrations were. And he said the young people he hires today don't know how to do anything. he also said that there is no work ethic in so many of the young people he hires. He thinks that kids are on the computer or playing video games for hours on end when they are off school during their childhood, that they don't know how to do many of the things that young people used to know how to do.
Anyway, passing it on...food for thought.
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