Neither purple is not going to be a neutral color. It would be added to the poo yellow and salmon house list. I'd look around the neighborhood or others and find colors that you like that are more neutral. Then look up those kinds of colors on a website like Houzz. Then dig into the colors from the paint manufacturers and test a few.

You might post on home decor...they can give good color selections there as well. I love purple, but not for home exteriors. Our home is a taupe and I love it because it goes with the landscape regardless of season.

Or you might take a cue from your own landscape with all the evergreens...

A sandy tan or light gray would look good and be easy on the eyes.

Here is Ben Moore's exterior paint brochure

Here is a link that might be useful: Exterior Expressions

And here is Ben Moore's Curb Appeal page. And other paint dealers generally have idea brochures. You might want to pop into them and look around.

Here is a link that might be useful: Curb appeal