Am looking to paint my kitchen and my cabinets are your typical old yet in good shape medium oak color. I am finding it difficult to find a color to blend with the adjacent rooms. My family room is a grey with a hint of lilac to it. My living room on the other side is a grey with a hint of blue or green depending on the lighting. The baseboards are also oak and my countertops are a neutral blend of greys, browns and ivory tones. Please help and photos would help too if anyone has them. Thanks.