I'm sorry for what you've been through, but congrats on getting to this point! With red and yellow already in the mix, I think I'd lean towards a more neutral door; however, the link to the picture didn't work for me.

You may want to post this in home decorating, too; there have been quite a few posts over there about front door colors lately. To embed the picture, upload it to flikr or photobucket or tinypic and copy the html code here.

Here is a link that might be useful: Posting Pictures on GardenWeb

Black or dark gray/charcoal. I know it seems dark, but it's a nice contrast to light yellow.

Beautiful house!

I think you are on the right track with green, but you need something less mossy and more toward sage green.