I hope you don't think we're ignoring you--not at all.

But your question was pretty specific, and none of us could help.

Also, once someone answers your question, then it starts slipping down the list, and it might get overlooked, so I'm betting most of us left it alone in hopes it would be spotted by someone who could help better than we could.

It sounds like you don't want do-it-yourself suggestions, but maybe you could find a professional organizer?

an organizer in Westchester County I found by googling 'professional organizer' and 'westchester'

a list of Connecticut organizers

Here is a link that might be useful: National Association of Professional Organizers