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Comments (40)i am menopausal at 53. I live with a 32 year old man. We do fine. Sex has many dimensions. First see what vitamins you need. Sometimes lack of energy is the problem. I do ten hour shifts at times, and I sleep a lot when that happens. Sex? I tell him to go do some porn. So jobs can just mess things up. Porn, by the by, can turn you on too if you take time to find what you like to hear and see. Trust me, its out there. Take time to get turned on if he won't do it. If he won't then maybe you need someone else. If he will, experiment. You are sex researcher Dr. Cocktease, and you are going to see what gets the nights hot. Play. make up stories. Fun is something that does wonders for everyone. Do different places. Do you have a yard or go camping? Tents can be fun. We set up one in our living room and played camping like kids once and had a great time. Consider that while the body might have problems (I have serious hip arthritis, for instance), the mind is the most important sex organ there is. Think about what made sex good in the past. Think about stuff you are intrigued by but never did. Imagine these things, find pics of them, watch videos if those are good. Read stories on the web or write ones of what you think would be the best sex night (a great candlelit bath with flowers, a nice night taking turns doing rubs, whipped cream on parts being licked off, pretend meeting for the first time somewhere, dirty talk, whatever) and make time to do them. Get with yout man and talk about it. If you have hope of seeing results, this can turn things around....See MoreActivities, acitivities, activities
Comments (7)My DD9 is allowed two activities. She does baton and one other activity. Although this year she wanted to do parades, so even though it's still baton, that's her additional activity. My DD4 does one activity...swimming. She loves it. She's already starting to learn the front crawl. I see swim team in her future. My SD9 does 4-H with her mother, and right now she's taking some vocal lessons when she's with us. She wants to be a future American Idol. She was also in her school's drama club this year, and she was really great at that!! Often times I feel like a taxi service, but I think it's important that each of the children have their own thing they're good at...something different from the other children so there's no competition over it. I want each one to feel they excell at something without having the others trying to be "better" at it. At times we put the older girls in activities together, like cheer camp, and at one time they all three were taking swimming lessons, but I've found that each one is so different and that they all have a different niche. I've also noticed that sometimes you have to try a few different things before you find your passion. My DD9 did ballet, tap, jazz, and tumbling before she saw the twirlers, and she said, "Mom, I want to do THAT!!" It's been a passion of hers ever since. DD4 tried gymnastics and ballet, and I put her in swimming just because I'd like her to learn those skills and learn water safety, but she took to water like a fish...her passion found. Who would have thunk it when DD9 wouldn't even put her face in the water until she was 7 years old? I do take the summer off though. The parades this year will last until early July though. I think they also need time to just be kids without having a "schedule", and right now summer is perfect for that. Also, gives me time to refresh before I become the taxi service again!!...See MoreAnyone have any gardening activities going on now?
Comments (18)I drizzle out cleaning over winter. Last weekend I raked and trimmed some plants back, sort of a rough stage one cleaning, the biggest one will be in late January or mid February when I cut back the grasses. Henbit is coming up in earnest along with the invasive Privet seedlings and a few dandelions & fescue from the property next door so thats been being weeded out with gusto. I've been direct sowing seeds in dribs and drabs insuring all kinds of surprises coming up in the mini prairie. I've added Astralagus, Prairie Larkspur, more Moss Verbena, Three Leaf Sumac, Spectacle Pod, SW & Texas Native varieties of Penstemon and quite a few others I would have to rack my brain or go through my box of home made seed packets to remember. Upstairs in a sunny window I'm growing various varieties of grass plugs which need warm temps in 4" pots (S. 'Prairie Blues', S. nutans 'Indian Steel', Weeping Muhly Gulf Muhly & Sacaton Alkali). I also have some Sand Penstemon up to get a head start on plants for spring. I plan to order some Muhlenbergia porteri (Bush Muhly Grass) seeds this week and sow those coming up indoors. To add more silver/blue I'm starting more Fringed Sage from rooted sections I took from the established plants. The over all plan is to tone down the bloomers in favor of texture since I want the blooms to just be accents of color among the grasses which will dominate in drifts. I took 3 large cuttings from a blue O. macrocentra cactus that I'm rooting indoors to add some more blue/purple sculptural interest in chosen spots which I will set out in March. I also have a nice blue shindagger agave I got in a trade this fall to set out that came from New Mexico, its under the carport wintering over dry along with another cactus that will form a patch of fuzzy 'dinner rolls' eventually. No journals or drawn out plans happen around here. No plant tags are saved or organized since most plants are from collected seed rather than a nursery but if its growing out there, I always recognize it and know where it came from even if I don't know the name of it yet which happens a lot. I like to spend time online trying to ID some of these wild things. Luckily I have big windows upstairs and I can look down and right away see the layout and spacing and plan changes visually. Thats about as close to a plan as I have, the rest is done in my head where I pretty much have it memorized anyway and nature makes many decisions here which are better than the ones I had. The sowing I do in winter makes the next year an adventure of sorts as I discover things coming up. This post was edited by TexasRanger10 on Mon, Dec 15, 14 at 14:10...See MoreRecent activities ... (caution: maybe TMI)
Comments (32)I talked to a pharmacist the other day and he suggested some Imodium, which is good for diarrhea ... but he didn't have any. i got a box of a dozen little droplets of Imodium the other day (about $10.00). He'd suggested that I take one about an hour before I'm to be out on a journey. Friend picked me up last evening, in his GM electric Volt, to go to a meeting about 20 miles away of the investment advisory group, subscribers to what we consider Canada's best personal money management magazine (that carries no ads, so is totally subscriber-driven). Hadn't taken one of the drops ... no accidents: only needed to visit the bathroom to take one of the regular pills.... I thought that it'd be a good idea to take one this morning before going to the old guys' coffee, cookies and conversation at the village church, but forgot following rising from my bed this morning. Will have to use the drops later, I guess. ole joyful ________________________ ..........((Caution recommended)) I usually help clean up following the meeting, replacing hotplate and supplies, washing dishes, etc.and find that I often need to use the bathroom around that time, and usually figure that I can survive one locked bathroom door. It was locked on the second effort, this morning ... ... and I figured that I'd better head for the bathroom upstairs, just outside the door to the sanctuary. Made haste up the stairs, but wasn't hasty enough in the travel, the unzip and other required clearances, etc. ... ... so major clean-up became necessary. Possibly a good idea to have cleaned up some of the language, as well ... as it wouldn't be considered ideal for use in such a location (or anywhere close to any but the aged hard of hearing?) I had a spare set of underwear ... in my bag, which often I bring in, but hadn't this morning, so had to go out to retrieve it ... not in skinny-dip fashion, let me assure you. Thought to bring in a bag to transport the injured clothing, ... but forgot. Didn't offer compensation at the office, as I had at the grocery the other day. Better be careful for the rest of the day - back-up has disappeared. Maybe I'll get the drop on one o' them little drops, prior to my next journeying. If I don't forget. Wish me luck, O.K.? o j...See Morenotaclone_yahoo_com
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