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Menopause without HRT

susan
23 years ago

Is there anyone out there who does not take HRT? I have two neighbors who do not, and I have just started menopause and so far am taking nothing. What are the risks of not taking HRT? I take my calcium, and Vit e and use lots of soy. So far my Dr. has not mentioned anything, but maybe by next year things will change as I have just started menopause.

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  • Leigh_K
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Replens, used as directed - every 2-3 days - has been reported to work as well as estrogen vaginal products without the risks and possible side effects. Although the estrogen creams etc are billed as having little or no systemic effect, there has been very little research in this area. While I know of no study which finds a relationship between vaginal/vulvar cancer or cervical cancer and use of these creams, the fact that all steroidal and conjugated estrogens are known human carcinogens should give one pause before using these products in any form.

    Vaginal atrophy is actually a rather rare problem. The usually temporary problem with dryness which may occur with menopause is NOT atrophy. It's simply dryness and can be "cured" with otc lubricants. Most fully post menopausal women find that normal lubrication returns once they *are* fully post menopausal. This may not be true for the surgically menopausal or those who have had extensive cervical surgery for dysplasia since such women lose the lubrication provided by the cervical glands. Such women may need to continue using some kind of lubricant for the rest of their lives.

    The best way to prevent vaginal atrophy is regular sexual activity with a patient and understanding partner. This is very much a "use it or lose it" matter.

  • wordenil_home_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I believed I could outlast perimenopause, and tried to cope with hot flashes every 10 minutes with obvious resulting insomnia, frequent memory problems, and a 12 day period so heavy that I became severely anemic and required prescription iron supplements daily. After 4 years of coping, I decided that my quality of life needed improvement. I've been on Prempro for about a year and a half, and cannot imagine why I held out so long. I just turned 51.

    The "natural" estrogen and progesterone creams did nothing to help me. Neither did the pills containg black cohosh, chasteberry, etc. Exercise and diet certainly helped with energy and fitness, but did absolutely nothing to diminsh those miserable hot flashes, etc.

    Each woman must conduct research and talk to her MD, and must make her own decision regarding HRT. What works for me may not work for you.

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  • hill_r_j_ihug_co_nz
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I agree entirely with you Rose. I don't take anything for menopause because I don't need to. I've had symptoms but have been able to manage them.

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  • Barbara__z7b_VA
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    When I was younger, I noticed that my aunt and my mother-in-law both looked and seemed younger than other women I knew their age. I knew that both of them took estrogen because they had had hysterectomies. I thought I'd get in line for estrogen when my time came.

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    So far, so good without HRT. However, if something else pops up that really bothers me and it seems like HRT is the right answer, I will certainly try it and stick with it until I find what works for me.

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  • anifani4_rochester_rr_com
    22 years ago
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    Hi Barbara, If the Luna bars have some soy in them, that is possibly what has alleviated your hot flashes. Sometimes just a small amount of soy can do the trick. Thanks for telling us about your journey with menopause. I'm glad you've found the help you've needed to feel well.

  • LDYDI
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I have been pretty lucky thus far with this menopause thing. I have hot flushes on occasion, not unbearable. No particular mood swings (did not have these with menstruation cycle, either), no real insomnia (except on those nights when my husband decides to snore or the dogs next door bark), no depression, no swelling. I do have some lines and wrinkles (I'm 50) and I'm thinking that if I can save the money I might otherwise spend on HRT, maybe I'll visit the cosmetic surgeon! In the meantime, I have researched all the side effects of HRT and the side effects of some of the natural products, and I think I will try to do some dietary things and not tip the balance chemically. As one of the other posters pointed out, thank heavens these decisions are subject to change if need be.

  • marilynkayh_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
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    Hi Ladies, Guess I should have posted in this thread the other day instead of the Femhrt one. Since I am a recent dropout. I wondered if I would find some of the familiar names pop up again, good to see you Anne M and others-I am menopausal for about 5 and a half years now and after taking several different HRT with various side effects my doctor and I came to the conclusion that HRT prescript. are not for me. Due to bad circulatory etc blood clots quite possible to develop, aching legs etc after about 3 or 4 months using any of the estrogen-progesterone prescripts. I am back to taking only vitamin E 800mg. a day. Maybe I should try soy if that could help the flashes and insomnia etc. Vit.E does help me immensely with vag dryness and that is about all I can really notice. I am really focused on lowering my triglycerides with diet ,reduced sugar intake a great deal, fatty foods etc. and walking a mile a day,best I can do for now anyway. So for health reasons I can say I am doing menopause now without HRT. Hope things level out as I approach my 55th bd in October. All for now Good to hear from you all. Marilyn

  • artzkat_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Verna - I have had positive results taking Black Cohosh. I take 1 capsule, 540mg of Black Cohosh Root, in the early evening and it quiets the night sweats and hot flashes.
    There are different formularies so read carefully. The recommended dosage is 3 capsules a day...but I have heard that it can cause headaches so I use the lowest dose needed to suit my needs.
    I was on HRT for 2 1/2 years - very unpleasant experiences and side effects so went off. My life has changed in that now I have to be more in tune and more responsible about my body, diet and mind. HRT seemed like a quick, easy fix when I started and indeed seemed to be what I needed..for a while...then it just seemed to turn on me.
    It seems to be one of those things that if it works, it works great, if it doesn't, it makes you miserable.
    Maybe that's nature's way of sorting out who will benefit from it and who will not.

  • Qinz
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Hi! I've read all the interesting discussions on this topic. I'd like to tell you something about my mom. She had a total hysterectomy at age 50 (in China) and never had HRT. It's amazing that she, at age 79 now, still has normal cholesterol, heart condition and bone density. Of course, her life style certainly helps a great deal, e.g. high soy diet, daily exercises(walking), taichi and meditation for 40 years. I recently went back to visit her and found that 99% of women in China have never heard of HRT. It seems they are doing OK.

    Now I followed my Mom's steps and had a total hysterestomy five yrs ago (in U.S. though), but put on HRT - Premarin afterwards. In less than 3 years, I developed thyroid cancer, which is non-exist even in my extended family. Besides, I had very bad migraines, disabling me from working. There were probably ten more side effects I experienced from Premarin. It simply destroyed me. I started reading some books/info on net and decided to shoot for a life without HRT, as like my Mom. I started in June. I have had all the things in place, diet, weight resistance exercises, herbs, proGest cream and meditation. So far so good, no hot flashes, no mood swings, no heart irregularity, no migraines, no bloating, no problems.

    I believe that anybody who wants to go menopausal naturally should give a try.

  • notaclone_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Hi all,

    I work with many Chinese and I am always amazed at their healthy life style. They don't eat sugar and junk food. They eat wholesome vegetables. They drink green tea that they import from China. As for Chinese herbal medicine, one of the Chinese technicians suffered a serious burn when hot grease hit her face. After seeing the burn, her boss (a medical reseracher) urged her to go to the doctor. Instead she put some type of Chinese herb on it. In 2 weeks that burn on her face was gone and it was impossible to tell where she had been burned. I asked her what the herb was. She said a friend had brought it from China and she did not know the English name for it. Except for smoking cigarettes (many of the Chinese men have this habit) the Chinese have a very healthy life style. Also, they don't feed sweets to their kids either.

  • surmeno_hotmail_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Um, Quinz, you do realise that when you say your mother had a "high soy diet" and you are using "herbs, proGest cream" that both of you are using hormones, don't you? Just because they are not pharmaceutical grade hormones does not mean they are not exerting hormonal effects. I'm not saying that's bad, at all. I'm simply echoing my post way up at the top of this thread in which I said there are many ways to obtain hormones, but most successful menopausal strategies seem use them in one form or another. That said, I think it's great that you and your mother have developed a strategy that works for your own bodies' needs.

  • leighkeel_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Most successful menopausal strategies for intact women do not use hormones in some form or another beyond those which are produced within the woman's own body after menopause. The intact human female body is perfectly capable of maintaining itself after menopause, just as it is capable of doing so before menopause. It does not need the assistance of drug companies, doctors, or healthfood stores.

  • Peggy_mypad_com
    22 years ago
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    Leigh these are you opinions only, maybe you should consider using a disclaimer.

  • leighkeel_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Why would I post a disclaimer for what is well-known fact even in the US but certainly in the rest of the world and has been true throughout history? Intact postmenopausal women do not have a disease. They do not need medical treatment of any kind and most don't seek any treatment for this normal life event.

  • Pat_newhouse_com
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    Is Leigh's new word of the day "intact", she seems to be using it on all her views today, also, she seems to have to follow every post that Framboise post. Do I sense a jealousy here? In all sincerity, keep posting Leigh, we thoroughly enjoy the laughs you give us.

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  • Sandy_mymouseworks_com
    22 years ago
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  • Betty1937
    22 years ago
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    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    A pap test tests the cervix for cancerous cells. If you have had a hysterectomy and kept the cervix, you continue to have the same need for this monitoring as you did pre-operatively. If you did not retain your cervix, many practitioners still encourage the test because they feel that since there is not a clearcut line between cervical and vaginal tissue, some could still be left to develop cancer, and the test would also catch early vaginal cancers.

    A pap test really has nothing to do with your menstrual flow or any other uterine, cervical or vaginal secretions.

  • Sandy_mymouseworks_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My OBGYN Oncologist requires a pap test every 3 months for a year after my Hysterectomy. I've had my uterous, ovaries, & cervix removed. I don't believe he would make me go through this if there wasn't any need for it. He's making sure that my cancer cells did not spread outside of my uterous before it was removed. He told me it's important to do this for the first year and then every 6 months for another year after that. He's a specialist in these types of cancers and I trust his judgement completely. I thought a pap collected tissue cells. If there's even a remote chance that I could develope cancer of any kind down there, I'll continue to have the tests every year. I would rather be safe than sorry...:o)

    Sandy

  • Qinz
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Sandy,
    I totally agree with you about refusing to obey your GYN. They are working for the profit of the phamaceutical companies and at the same time for their own rebate - a big retirement nest as long as a lot of us take HRT drugs for rest of our lives.

    A friend of mine developed breast cancer two years after she was put on HRT by her GYN. After the surgery, she has never taken any HRT. It's been more than 10 years and she is doing just fine healthwise at the age of 70.

    Sandy, I use black cohosh and the natural progesterone cream for my hot flashes. They seem working pretty good.

  • Gardengirl
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Can anyone taking HRT say they've NOT gained weight since starting it? I've read a lot of menopause forums, and though I haven't taken notes, it seems weight gain with HRT is quite common. Personally, having fought weight battles all my life, I'd rather deal with occasional hot flashes, insomnia and depression. Weight gain would only make me more depressed. I'm 51, active, and slender but have no libido whatsoever. DH's is waning as well so maybe we're a good match, but this change is a definite negative for us both. I hope resolvng his sleep apnea will help him but continue at a loss about how to increase my own. And I'll remain HRT-free until a new study guarantees it won't cause me to gain weight.

  • anifani4_rochester_rr_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    There has been an occasional post about not gaining weight and even losing weight while taking HRT. But mostly on the forums, you hear from the women with problems, so it's not a representative sample. If you can get some help for your depression, that may relieve your insomnia and low libido.

  • JerriEllijay
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    This is such an interesting discussion. I'm 42 and have been reading up on peri-menopause and menapause in an effort to be informed BEFORE any symptoms start. I am reading a wonderful book (mentioned earlier in this thread) call "What your Doctor May not tell you about menopause" by Dr. John Lee. The book makes so much sense to me, and many of the above posts seem to confirm exactly what this doctor is saying, that estrogen replacement is not the miracle cure for all, and may be a detriment to some. I think we all should research before we take the word of our doctors as the end all-be all, remember there is a reason they call it a medical "practice". Just my two cents, but I intend to start lifestyle changes now - and when/if I ever start seeing signs of menopause, I believe at this point I will look first to natural progesterone instead of man-made products. Jerri

  • leighkeel_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    "Natural progesterone" is also man made. The only natural progesterone for your body is the stuff your own body secretes. Lee's book is full of biological absurdities. It is normal for one to have occasional anovulatory cycles before menopause and that the numbers of these will increase as menopause approaches. An anovulatory cycle means no progesterone for that cycle which will probably affect some aspect of the next period or even prevent it entirely. Lee's "research" was done on 100 women many of whom were taking some form of estrogen. There wasn't even a semblance of any kind of scientific trial. Lee is now very wealthy, has given up his medical practice and makes a handsome living allowing manufacturers of so-called natural progesterone cream to quote his supposed "research." He also goes about the country giving seminars at which he stages empty chairs which were reserved for doctors (the same one who won't tell you the "truth" about menopause) who have decided not to attend. He proclaims himself a voice crying in the wilderness trying to tell the real story. What he is is a charlatan who is selling the modern version of Lydia Pinkham's Syrup for Ladies.

    If you're interested in menopause issues try Dr Susan Loves Dr Susan Love's Hormone Book: Making Informed Choices about Menopause. There you will find a great deal of information all of it cited to peer-reviewed journals. Love provides information about the normal menstrual cycle and then discusses the changes that take place with age and approaching menopause. Once you've read Love, you'll be able to find the serious flaws in Lee's book.

  • Ktl_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Why is Lee's information "flawed", but Love's is so accurate? I believe this to be YOUR opinion, not proven fact.

  • leighkeel_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Because Lee's book is full of biological absurdities unless one subscribes to the notion that the post menopausal woman and the prepubertal girl along with the reproductive woman in the first half of her menstrual cycle are diseased. This strikes me as an obvious absurdity. YMMV.

  • JerriEllijay
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Leigh, I see your point about Lee's assertion that today's woman is suffering from both external influences caused by technology, and internal influences from our eating habits; thus we are "ill".

    I do however still like the information in his book about eating healthier, exercising and vitamins.

    I was also wondering if in fact he had a stake in the natural progesterone industry!

    Your input on this thread has been very insightful.

    Jerri

  • anifani4_rochester_rr_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Dr. Lee claims he has no stake in the production of OTC progesterone cream, and does not recommend any particular brand. Granted all of the information in his book is anecdotal evidence, but to me it says: this is something to look at. My question at the end of the book was, "If he believes in it so strongly, why didnt he pursue authentic research?" He claims no drug company will back research on natural progesterone because they can't patent it. However, there are other sources for funding research if a person wants to do it. Of course you won't see doctors at his seminars; the medical profession in America has labeled him a quack. I believe he has some valid points. Some women do need progesterone and for too long doctors have not acknowledged this. They have been too ready to hand out prescriptions for Premarin and Provera in doses that are beyond what is needed, to any woman who comes in asking for help with menopause related problems. Too many of them have also routinely handed out hormomes to women who have no problems; apparently the doctors were buying into the "forever feminine" myth put forth by the makers of Premarin. Well, that's my two cents worth.....again. It still boils down to each and every woman needs to educate herself, advocate for herself, and make choices for herself.

  • Leigh_K
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    At his seminars he reserves chairs at the front of the room for doctors. Then during the seminar he uses these empty chairs as props to demonstrate that other doctors won't tell you the truths he is about to reveal. He is a *paid* speaker at these seminars in which he urges women to use some version of THE CREAM. He is also paid by the companies who use his book to promote their version of this product.

    If there are post menopausal women who *need* progesterone (and other than the intact ones who take estrogen I don't believe there are) then they need it in amounts large enough to actually be detectable in the blood, since that's the only way it's going to get to the receptors. The otc cream does not supply that.

    You are presenting this as a choice between premarin/provera or progesterone. The realistic option for most women is nothing at all.

  • horscri_aol_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Doctors, whether promoting alternative treatments or prescribed medications, are subject to propaganda and are well paid by the corporate companies. I would guess less so by the alternative manufacturers since they don't have the millions of dollars to spend. But as the consumer we have to go with our educated guesses. I have resisted hrt after a hysterectomy (uterus, ovaries, cervix) although my oncologist offers it every time I see him. Even though my cancer was estrogen receptive and my mother had breast cancer. And my symptoms are very mild infrequent hot flashes, night sweats and vaginal dryness. Since he is one of the best gyn oncologists in NYC I trust him for the oncology side but use my endocrinologist for hrt consultations - tomorrow we review a recent bone scan. And by the way - Replens seems to work well for the vaginal dryness and is cheapest at Walmart.

  • Leigh_K
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Why do you think alternative companies don't have millions of dollars to spend? This isn't really David and Goliath although the supplement manufacturers would like you to believe that it is. They spend nothing on research, and their raw materials are cheap. Since they have no quality control and can pretty much do as they please - no one makes sure the bottles and tubes contain what's claimed in the amount claimed - they can hire minimum wage or even undocumented workers to run their blenders and fill their jars and bottles and tubes. It's a highly profitable industry.

  • Ktl_yahoo_com
    22 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    You're not considering the the publics' right to sue over practically anything nowadays. One hefty lawsuit against a company could put them out of business, no more profit. I really would think it is in their best interest to be accurate with their claims.

  • cheerful1_gw
    13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I've been on low dose HRT (Activella) for the past three years, since my bloodwork showed I was post-menopausal.

    It initially got rid of my hot flashes, but I've gained what I think is too much weight; my anxiety/bad moods have recently gotten worse; am extremely fatigued.

    While I don't know if the weight gain is from the HRT, or just that my metabolism slowed down to a crawl, I'm going to see if my GYN is agreeable to taking me off them when I see her in November.

  • huffclan_homesc_com
    13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I am 55 and have been suffering terribly with symptoms on and off for 5 years. I never really considered taking HRT primarily because I just don't like taking medicine of any kind except for the occasional headache or cold pill. I had a very painful period last month so I am still not in menopause. I wonder now if HRT might have been a good idea though the idea of it still scares me a great deal. I believe that it should be considered when the symptoms interfere with your sense of well being. I believe now that I will emerge from this ordeal in a much better place but I would never tell another woman that toughing it out is the best approach either.

  • mary-in-toronto
    13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Both my gynecologist and family physician have stated that HRT is safe, and the media hype against is just that. Even Dr Oz is a beleiver in HRT!

  • mary-in-toronto
    13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    link to Dr OZ view of HRT

    Here is a link that might be useful: Dr OZ view of HRT

  • nikkigasca_hotmail_com
    12 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Today I had an appointment with a new Doctor that is putting me on HRT. I had a complete hysterectomy 6 years ago at 32 years old. I thought I was doing great because I don't have hot flashes any longer, however the side effects I have been having are so much worse and no other doctor told me it had to do with my hormones. I have been in complete misery for the last 5 years. Painful sex, bowel problems, chronic bladder infections.
    I did not know...the last doc I went to 3 years ago told me he didn't see anything wrong and it was my duty as a wife to have sex with my husband.
    I feel like I have a second chance after today, I hope this HRT works...

  • Carrie Shindorf
    9 years ago

    Please someone tell me how you are all doing now. I am at this crossroads. I am so confused after researching it for months.

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