It has happend to me before...but not on an everytime basis.

The first time I relaized I loved my husband and we did it I cried.I think I was just overcome with emotions for him.

Because your husband is your first,maybe you just havent realized how emotional sex can be.It is certainly more then it is made out to be on T.V. and what not.
I'm guessing your other troubles COULD be adding to the issue as well.
Maybe you are feeling vulnerable because of your other problems (moving far from family) and it just comes out more after having sex because you are having an emotional release.
I also get weepy right around THAT time of the month,so it could be hormonal too.

I do fairly regularly; it's very emotional for me, regardless of whether or not the sex is good or bad. It's not that I'm sad. I'm just overwhelmed, and feel so very close to my husband, and love him so much. It's fairly common, and totally normal -- although, if you're actually crying from sadness, that would probably be something to investigate with a therapist.

I do cry sometimes. Usually a happy quick cry because I love my SO and he loves me and I get overwhelmed. But I remember I did it before with other people who weren't that emotionally connected to me and it was very obvious during love making. But good or bad I think crying is normal for a woman.

You would be suprised at how many women cry after sex. As women we are naturally more emotional. Sex helps release our emotions. Google "crying after sex" and see what all comes up. You'll be very happy that your not alone!

Oh, it's very common- I think it's the hormones we get rolling, like after you have a baby. The French call it "le petit mort" - the little death- because sometimes you weep and then you don't feel like moving for a bit. That's nature's way of trying to fertilize, women are programmed to want to lie still a few minutes. We're interesting creatures.

Had experience with this with one woman years ago. I freaked. She told me not to worry about it. Later explained how it was on her end...basically part of the "happy ending" for her. After that, it was quite wonderful on every occasion. Leaned to love bringing her to it.

thank you all soooooooooo much for posting a reply to my question. it brings me great relief to know i am not alone in this. thank you once more from the bottom of my heart.

Have you heard Alan Jackson's song "Remember When"

Lyrics:

Remember when I was young and so were you
And time stood still and love was all we knew
You were the first, so was I
We made love and then you cried
Remember when...