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colliecm

sexless marriage

colliecm
16 years ago

I'M IN A SEXLESS MARRIAGE, WE'VE ONLY BEEN MARRIED FOR LESS THAN 2 YRS. I'M BECOMING VERY FRUSTRATED WITH HIM. I DO LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT HE'S MAKING ME NOT LIKE HIM VERY MUCH

I'M 27 HE'S 28 WERE BOTH YOUNG. SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE IT'S ME, BECAUSE I HAVE GAINED WEIGHT. I WAS ALWAYS A LITTLE OVERWEIGHT AS A CHILD THE LOWEST WEIGHT I'VE EVER BEEN IS 160LBS. WHICH IS THIN FOR ME. AFTER WE MOVED IN TOGETHER I GAINED ALL THE WEIGHT THAT I'D RECENTLY LOST, I ASKED HIM IF IT'S THE WEIGHT AND HE ASSURES ME THAT IT'S NOT. HE SAYS HE JUST DOESN'T WANT TO BE TOUCHED. IMAGINE HOW THAT MAKES ME FEEL. HE'S NOT IN THE BEST SHAPE HIMSELF BUT I STILL FIND HIM VERY ATTRACTIVE AND STILL WANT TO BE WITH HIM. I CAN'T IMAGINE BEING WITHOUT HIM. ANYWAYS, HE TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY HE WAS WATCHING PORN!!?? WTF? HE SAID IT'S FUNNY????!! HE SAID HE WASN'T WATCHING FOR SEXUAL REASONS BUT HE THINKS SOME OF THEM ARE FUNNY. I FIND NOTHING FUNNY ABOUT THE FACT THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN TOUCHED IN A MONTH IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM AND HE'S WATCHIG PORN. IT'S BECOMING A BATTLE AND I FEEL LIKE IF SEX HAS BECOME A CHORE FOR HIM THAT HE SHOULD LEAVE BUT HE WON'T HE SAYS HE LOVES ME AND WANTS TO BE WITH ME, IT'S NOT ME IT'S HIM. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK. YES, IT'S ONLY BEEN A MONTH BUT THE WAY THINGS ARE GOING I'M AFRAID IT WILL TURN INTO 2 AND SO FORTH. HE SAYS TO GIVE HIM A MONTH TO FIGURE IT OUT AND THEN HE'LL GO TO THE DR. MY HUSBAND IS ANTI-DOCTOR, HE AND I WERE HAVING MARRIAGE PROBLEMS @ THE BEGINNING OF THE YAER AND IT WAS SO BAD I HAD TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING BY MYSELF. HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE MANY WILL WONDER, BUT IT'S TRUE. BACK TO THE WEIGHT THING YES I AM A LITTLE OVERWEIGHT BUT I'M NOT SLOPPY THERE IS NOT FAT ROLLS JUST HANGING, I DO NOT SMELL, I KEEP MYSELF CLEAN, MY HAIR IS ALWAYS KEPT NICE, I GET A PEDICURE EVERY 2 WEEKS, I CONSIDER MYSELF ATTRACTIVE. HE KNEW WHEN HE MET ME THAT I AM THE WAY I AM. I TOLD HIM HE CAN LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT. I ACCEPT HIM JUST THE WAY HE IS. BALDING, CHUBBY, SOMETIMES LAZY, AVERAGE. I'M JUST FEELING LIKE I'M AT MY WITS END I'M SO FRUSTRATED AND SAD. I THINK IT MAKES ME MORE SAD THAN MAD, KNOWING THAT THERE'S SOMETHING GOING ON AND WON'T JUST COME OUT AND TELL ME WHATS WRONG. SOMEONE PLEASE OFFER GOOD ADVICE. THANKS

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