overreacting to stripclub??
Hi, I'm new to posting here but have been reading for a while now and would like your opinions on something.
A few months ago my dh told me he was going to go out of town and do some xmas shopping. He left that morning and said he would be back later that afternoon. I was pregnant at the time and made him promise to me that he would not go to any strip clubs. ( He knows I despise strip clubs anyway, but when I'm pregnant I have very low self esteem about my body)
I talked to him a few times throughout the day, and he said he was having trouble finding me a gift so it was taking him longer. Finally around 7 pm he called me and said he was on his way home so he should be there around 9 pm (the town was a 2 hour drive).
At 9:30 he still wasn't home so I started getting worried and tried to call him, got no answer. I tried calling him every 10 minutes after that. At 10:30 I was literally having a panic attack. I was positive something horrible had happened. I began looking up information to call area hospitals to see if he was there.
At 11 pm he finally called me. He was drunk. He said "I'm not going to lie. I brought Joe (his friend) with me and he wanted to go to the strip clubs."
I was crying from relief that he was alive and anger that he had done this to me. I had no idea he had even taken a friend with him to go "shopping"! He was so drunk he could barely put a sentence together. He said he kept wanting to leave but Joe wouldn't. I told him to leave Joe there then. I told him if he was too drunk to drive to get a taxi and get a hotel room and call me from the hotel to let me know where he was. That didn't happen.
Around 1 am he called me to tell me that tried to drive home but was too drunk, he had left Joe at the strip club, and he pulled over in a parking lot somewhere and was going to take a nap. At this point I was beyond p*ssed and really didn't care anymore so I went to bed. It was the first night I've ever spent away from my dh.
He finally made it home around 7 am the next morning. He tried to explain/make excuses and I told him to just shut up. He went and got into the shower and I grabbed his cell. I listened to his voice messages and there was a message from some slut who I assume was a stripper. It said "Hey this is Kylie, I'm just sitting here on your lap rubbing all over you. My number is xxxx give me a call so we can get together." I FLIPPED OUT. When he got out of the shower I asked him who the hell Kylie was and he said he had no idea unless she was the girl that gave him a lap dance. He had no idea how she had his number either, unless she grabbed his phone when he went to the restroom because he left it on the table.
Basically I don't know what the hell happened that night. Dh says I'm over reacting. He says all guys go to strip clubs. I say... maybe so, but I doubt they lie to their wives, make their wives think they are dead, and give the stripper their cell number. Am I...
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