I'm so sorry for your loss.Your mom touched many lives here,and she will surely be missed.May she rest in peace.My condolences to all who loved and knew her. Kathi

OMG just when do you think the son would have registered? years ago? HE said he found this site by doing a search for Richards name and this site popped up since there is this discussion currently going on with his name in it. I just have to say this short of a bloody corpse I don't think some will ever be happy and even then the conspiracy theorist will scream photoshopped. What a way to ruin a mans memorial thread. I wish they would removed all those post from this thread and leave it as his memorial as it should have been. Any doubters could have at least had the courtesy to do their doubting on another thread. This has gone beyond anything questioning to just flat out disrespect and disgusting. I would possibly expect to see something like this on a teen forum it is just crazy to be happening on an adult forum of MATURE adults. My goodness do you hate the man that much? What has he ever done to hurt anyone here NOTHING. Wow I bet no one ever asks a friend or husband to come to this LOVELY place to notify their FRIENDS of their illness or passing. I know I sure will remove it from my list of places to contact. RIP Richard

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This post turned out to be longer than I wanted it to be - sorry! I also saw the movie "The Help" after reading the book a while back. I agree that the movie stayed on track with the book, changing a few things, but did not stray from the storyline. I had an interesting email from my SIL, who read The Help, and experienced some disappointment because she thought, from what her friends had said, that the book was going to be another To Kill A Mockingbird. She also said once she realized she had misguided expectations, she was able to re-evaluate The Help and enjoy it in its own right. The Help is not To Kill A Mockingbird in many ways. In my opinion, here are three big differences between the books. To Kill A Mockingbird 1: TKAM was written through the innocent eyes of a powerless child, albeit a precocious one. 2: TKAM was a serious book that did not have a punch line or anything fantastical in it. Its light heartedness came from the fact that the children in the book did not truly realize how dangerous and dreadful things in their lives actually were, racially, financially, or physically; the readers know it, but the kids in the story do not. 3: In TKAM we are not left with the feeling that life will change for the better, for anybody, any time soon. The Help 1: TH was written from the viewpoint of a college educated woman, one who is coming to the realization that her world is terribly flawed, but she possesses power to affect it. 2: TH was not a totally serious book; it had a punch line - the chocolate pie - and a sense of fantasy about it. The chocolate pie was pivotal to the story, and although some might wish that it were true in real life, it most likely wasn't; yet we as readers suspend our disbelief and accept the idea that this pie is real. I have one problem with that: I believe that we as readers and moviegoers, especially those who lived through the turbulent CRM, must be sure to acknowledge the horrible truth about the race situation in the south. That situation also is nearly beyond belief, especially to the present generation. So, if the 'terrible awful' thing that Minnie did is a 'joke', was the situation in the south in the 1960's also a 'joke', or was it actual? In the movie, there is footage from the news coverage of the time; that is very important, I think. It moves the movie out of a possible fantasy tale and back into the real, historical world of that time. 3: In TH we are left with the feeling of hope. Things are changing in the culture; they are changing slowly and painfully and imperfectly, but they are changing, and for the better. Even though it is true that The Help is not To Kill a Mockingbird, there are some big similarities: Both books are generally about the same subject: racial discrimination in the south. Both books personalize that subject with such power that we cannot help but be moved. Both books have...