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She's gone

11 years ago

My sweet sister in law finally passed on. I say finally because she was suffering SOOO much from the cancer. All the family wanted was her pain free. She passed away Friday at 5am, the same day Hospice called us in for my brother. They wanted us there yesterday, so all 5 of his siblings, his kids, grandkids, and close friends were there for him. We had a miracle in that he awoke and was with us all day!!!!!!!!!! The hospice nurse said it truly was a blessing. We were able to spend the day with him till they totally sedated him to ease the pain. Please say a prayer, our family is going thru SOOO much right now. Her funeral is tomorrow :((

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pam_25f
11 years ago
Your poor family. Blessings on you all.
User
11 years ago
My heavens! You have so much to take in. It is wonderful that you realize the blessings that are taking place as your sister-law passes on and your brother was able to give you time with him that you never thought you would have again.

Thank you for sharing you story of family love and hardship. I am so inspired. I will be thinking so hard of you tomorrow and check back in for updates.
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gemini40
11 years ago
Why must they suffer so much? I just don't get it.

So sorry for all you're going through Jamie.

June
minnie_tx
11 years ago
So much at one time. Try to know and see your dear one in a better place and remembering all the love you expressed.

And such a happy surprise about your brother try and know that this good news is not just for one time but all time hugs
gemini40
11 years ago
Why must they suffer so much? I just don't get it.

So sorry for all you're going through Jamie.

June
marie_ndcal
11 years ago
Sending hugs and prayers for the family to accept what is happening. We don't know why things happen, but with our friends and family we will survive.
Prayers with you.
Marie
petaloid
11 years ago
All of my very best wishes go out to you, all of the family and loved ones.
gadgets
11 years ago
I pray for His peace to cover your entire family.

Shirley
kayjones
11 years ago
My sympathy to all the family!
hounds_x_two
11 years ago
I am so sorry.
Keeping you and your family in my prayers at this difficult time.
phyllis__mn
11 years ago
Caring thoughts going out to you and yours, Jamie.
terilyn
11 years ago
You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry your family is going through this.
Georgysmom
11 years ago
So, so sorry your family is going through so much right now, Jamie. Life can seem so unfair sometimes. (((Jamie and family))))
lindaohnowga
11 years ago
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you all the strength and comfort that you need in these hard times.
nanatricia
11 years ago
So so sorry ! Praying for you all.
glenda_al
11 years ago
She's in a good place after suffering.

My condolences!
lydia1959
11 years ago
So sorry ((Jamie)). So very much to go through in such a short time. I pray your brother will have a peaceful passing. Prayers for the family.
sjerin
11 years ago
You and your family are always in my prayers, Jamie. Much sympathy to you and them.
donna37
11 years ago
(((Jamie))) Prayers and special thoughts for all.
jannie
11 years ago
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. She's at peace.
Cherryfizz
11 years ago
My condolences to your family.

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