Who was the gal who had to move

juellie1962

9 years ago

because the person she cared for passed away? I may have missed an update, just wondering if she ever found a place or got that trailer she had wanted to buy.

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pam_25f
9 years ago
Oh, I wonder too. I hope something worked out.
rhizo_1 (North AL) zone 7
9 years ago
Deeby was the person.
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juellie1962
Original Author
9 years ago
I thought so rhizo, until I read her reply on the condo thread. Sounds like she lives in one...??
ellendi
9 years ago
I was thinking about her too. If she doesn't see this, maybe a shout out to her?
rhizo_1 (North AL) zone 7
9 years ago
I saw that post, too, juellie. But she was the one in such distress. I'm hoping that things have worked out for her.
Deeby
9 years ago
Here I am. I'm so touched that you all are thinking of me. I'm still in the lady's house. The trustee said I can stay until mid or late January. The neighbor who had agreed to sell me his vacant mobile home reneged on everything. I have no idea what's going to happen. Apartment rents are sky high and cheap ones had no vacancies plus I'd be afraid to live in one. I could never go to work and have peace of mind with my kids (pets) alone. My pets and I need prayer. I am horribly afraid. Thank you all.
pam_25f
9 years ago
Deeby, I am so sorry that you are afraid. I will pray that something will help you.
joaniepoanie
9 years ago
I'm glad they did not force you to move before the holidays, especially since it seemed like such short notice.

There must be a county agency or other social service agency that can help you locate housing. Good luck and keep us posted.
Deeby
9 years ago
No agencies. I appreciate your prayers and kind words.
phoggie
9 years ago
Do you live in a large city or why are you so afraid? Could you maybe move to a smaller town where the rent is not as expensive? No one should live in fear! Please keep us informed...there are a lot on KT who are about you.
arkansas girl
9 years ago
Maybe you can find a similar situation, people are always needing someone to live in with the elderly. I know a lady that does this, she is ALWAYS in demand.
rhizo_1 (North AL) zone 7
9 years ago
I believe that part of the source of Deeby's fears is that she has pet rabbits which makes it difficult for her to find accomodating housing.
tami_ohio
9 years ago
And surprisingly, people don't realize that rabbits can be much better pets to have than dogs, as they are quiet, litter trained. They are chewers, but if carefully watched when loose, even that is not a problem. I would rent to someone with rabbits, before I would rent to someone with dogs. And I love dogs.

I will keep you in prayers Deeby.
Deeby
9 years ago
Thank you, Tami. I have two cats and three rabbits. They're my family. All of my people are gone. Friends live in other states. Sometimes when the fear kicks in it's hard to think straight. To function. On Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday I'm going to go apply at every caregiving agency there is in my area. Dreading it.
PKponder TX Z7B
9 years ago
Oh Deeby, hugs to you! If there is any way that you can reach deep inside and find your happy place, the interviews will go more smoothly.

I too have grown comfortable in my job and fearful of change.
Lindsey_CA
9 years ago
Deeby, several months ago you said you were going to go to the Social Security Administration to find out about getting benefits based on your former husband's earnings. Did you ever do that? The extra income could be a big help in finding a new place to live.
arkansas girl
9 years ago
OH yes, if you were married for 10 or more years and are of SS age then you should get the Ex's benefits! Assuming you didn't remarry.
Deeby
9 years ago
I learned that if I apply for the ex's SS, I'd get only $1 to every $2 if I'm still working. Not worth it. Better to wait. Thanks for your kind comments and prayers.

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