I think I found it in a message from Celticmoon down a ways in this thread.

You had the clue. I figured "tack cloth" was a unique search term. Also, always use the search box at the bottom.

Sorry. I meant to say, OR a post by Sarchlos in this thread.

But I was in the middle of thinking these weren't what you were looking for (though good), when I hit the wrong button :)

Here are the painting instructions I saved in my clippings that were originally posted by Girlwithaspirin.

1) Clean with soap and water.
2) Lightly sand, only where needed. (I'm lazy, but the varnish had built up in some places.)
3) Prime with a thin coat of Zinsser Bullseye 123 Deep Base, tinted to match paint color. Let dry for a few hours.
4) Paint with a thin coat of Benjamin Moore Satin Impervo Alkyd. Do cabinet backs first! Don't paint bottom or top edges. Let dry overnight.
5) Paint fronts. Again, let dry overnight.
6) Hang cabinets. Carefully.
7) Paint bottom/top edges and do any touch-up.
8) Leave them open for as long as you can stand it. This stuff takes forever to cure.

I didn't do two full coats of paint like many people suggested. For one, the Satin Impervo covers amazingly. The dark color helped -- I imagine a light color would require more coats. But also, the thinner the paint, the more it looks like stain. If you glop it on, which I accidentally did in some places, it doesn't look as much like a pro job.