Can you post a photo?

Based on your other colors I'd lean away from a white white. With cream in your floor and mocha on your backsplash I think you just need to find a creamy white that will look soft and not stark.

I had my backsplash and counters picked too but got totally lost in all the white choices when picking the color for my cabinets. I called a color consultant who came to my house looked at my backsplash and counter samples and helped me nail down the best white to match. The color we ended up with (BM White Down) was not even on my radar prior to her coming and I'm very happy with it. She also helped me choose the wall and trim colors. My floors are hardwood so that wasn't much of an issue.

I found her service so valuable. It gave me such peace of mind when I had to pull the trigger and actually order the cabinets because I felt much more confident that I was making the right choice.

White is really one of the hardest colors to pick and making a mistake with something as costly and permanent as cabinets is a big risk. Sometimes getting in a trusted professional can really save you time and money. The key is "trusted".