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You know you're TKO when...

Posted by bmorepanic (My Page) on
Fri, Oct 30, 09 at 5:39

There is a full scale model of your island hood made from cardboard hanging from your ceiling. The fact that it compliments the full scale model of a shelf in front of a kitchen window is just icing.


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

...or when you're reading posts on GW at 5:50 in the morning.


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what does it mean when you've done both?


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That the men in the white suits coming up your front walkway aren't delivering milk?


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

I've been on GW for 3-1/2 years. I registered specifically for the Kitchens forum, I check it and the Appliances forum several times a day, I reply to threads, I have a huge online folder of information on all things kitchen related...and I still haven't remodeled my kitchen.

TKO much, me? Nah.


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

...when you're sitting in a restaurant having dinner and you happen to overhear the words "remodeling our kitchen" from the next table and your husband practically has to physically restrain you from jumping up, running over there, and offering to help them with their layout options. Meanwhile, you spend the rest of your dinner actually worried that these perfect strangers may not realize the benefits of drawers over pull-outs or may not understand the concept of zones or, OMG!, what if their island overhang isn't the proper depth for their counter height?!


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OK, Im pretty new here.....What's TKO? Im pretty sure, that whatever it is, Im it. I LIVE on this forum. My husband thinks I have a "problem" and may soon need an intervention.

(totally kitchen'd out???)


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

When you dream about the kitchen, and how this would look, or how that would look...

I still can't believe my DH doesn't dream about it. I guess he would probably have nightmares!


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tko

cawfeegirl, TKO = Totally Kitchen Obsessed :)


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Face it, if you have to ask, you probably are...! LOL


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When you remodeled your kitchen 5 years ago and you still find yourself drawn to this site. . . .


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holligator - great comment about the restaurant!


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holligator- that is so true about the restaurant. That is too funny.

I swear my husband is gonna leave me if he hears me utter the words "In the new kitchen...." one more time!


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When you tell yourself, "just one more thread" and an hour later......


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I am so TKO'd!! What is it about kitchen remodeling that makes otherwise normal people become obsessed? Is this more of a female-based obsession? I have also become addicted to buying remodeling magazines.

Whatever it is, it sure is fun !

pbear


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I'm like zeebee. Been looking through Appliances and Kitchen forums here for about 11 years and haven't remodeled. Have tons of ideas and love reading everyone's experiences.

I did a ton of research before buying a new stove to start the old house remodel. We moved to a newer house and I just can't afford to remodel quite yet. I'm planning though!

I'm TKO because when I go to the appliance store, I talk to customers and steer them into a better decision (it's sad because I know more than the sales people!). I'm TKO because I constantly at this forum for ideas! And yes, I've done the restaurant thing too.....but not in a restaurant.


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I'm with dees 1. I've been in an appliance store and see someone totally lost. I ask if I can help them and go over in detail their problem and a few solutions and suggestions on appliances. They then ask me about prices and I tell them I don't work there I'm just a customer. This has happened quite a few times - with granite, appliances, cabinets and even balusters!


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LOL, I thought I was the only one who did that, bmorepanic!

You know you're TKO when you pay more attention to the kitchens in TV shows, movies and commercials than you do to the plot line or the product!


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

...when you ask Hubby (a contractor) about ordering an extra glass shelf for your medicine cabinet, he replies that you need the make and model number, and you know the make and model number (size) without even having to look!

Yes Folks, it spreads to the bathroom!


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holligator: Thanks!!

countrygal905: THATS ME!!! At 11PM, I tell myself, "ok, just one more.." and I look at the clock and its 12:30AM!!!

pbear2007: Yes I do that, too. I have spent tons of money on remodeling magazines. IMHO, they dont make enough of them!!!

dees1: I did so much research on refrigerators that the other day, when I was at Lowes, I was trying to sell a guy and his wife on the Samsung FD CD. I think she was mad at me because he asked me what CD was and when I told him, he turned to her and said "Did you EVEN measure the depth of the other one?????" HA!

Lisa A: You should go into "hood" design..thats awesome!!


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. . . Rhome gets new ovens, and I look up the specs to see how they are different than mine. DH says, how long are you going to worry about the things. You already have ovens. Me: Oh, you just don't understand! I am interested to see what Rhome got, I am NOT worrying. (just obsessed, I didn't say, ha)


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When you walk into a kitchen store and after 1/2 an hour they say..."would you like a job?" and it's NOT a box store but a real kitchen store!

When your neighbor who is building a new house with a custom builder comes to YOU and wants advice on everything and even asks if you'll go to talk to the kitchen designer with her!!! And you really want to, but you don't want to offend the kitchen designer!

When you know more brands of faucets then they do at the plumbing store, even though they carry those brands, or you ask for something even your plumber has never heard of!!!

Or the best of all, you still have to say to yourself (or your husband says to you) "you've already remodeled...keep walking...keep walking," as you pass all the kitchen magazines at the grocery store check out!!!

I guess like the saying goes, once and addict always an addict and I have to fight my TKO addiction everyday! ;-)

It's not that we're arrogant know it alls, it's just that we LOVE kitchens and the thrill of the hunt!

Kat :)


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Yyou know way more than the KD about soapstone and granite. So much misinformation out there and so little time to convert - uhhh educate - the misinformed. LOL

I found GardenWeb a few years ago while researching kitchen faucets and I am go glad I did. The GW kitchen forum has saved me a lot of money because I quit buying all the remodeling and kitchen magazines after a couple of months of reading the posts. The magazine pics are lovely to look at but on GW when you see something you are interested in you can easily get all the info you need by posting a query. Best of all, everyone here is willing and eager to help.

My DH thinks I may need a 12 step program when the kitchen is done.

Hello, my name is Julie and I'm TKO.


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My kitchen has been done for 11 months now. And yet I come here EVERY day, multiple times. TKO?? Yep!!


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...You're scouring through GW when your kitchen was finished almost a year ago.


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When you friend asks for help picking out a cabinet company and you send her an email that's 3 pages long with the pros and cons of every cabinet company, the different styles of cabinets, stain, paint, etc...............


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...when you automatically mentally convert ' to " in post titles.


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When you loose track of the plot in a TV show as soon as the action starts taking place in the kitchen and you start micro-analyzing the layout!


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I thought it was Total Kitchen Oholic, lol.
Lisa


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Too funny. But all true!


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I'm worse than I thought. There was an article in yesterday's paper with a feature on a local athlete, with a picture of the kitchen in his high-end new development. I spent a good ten minutes going back and forth between the picture and the text of the article, musing "landing space on only one side of the fridge...oh boy, hood same size as range, that's a mistake....there's a barrier island if I've ever seen one, doesn't even have a prep sink..."


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When you've finished your kitchen 14 months ago but still come here to ooohh and aaaahh over other posters' kitchens.

When your father-in-law banishes you to the family room while his consultant comes by for an estimate of his kitchen reno. Because he knows once you get on the topic of kitchens, there's no stopping you and your suggestions. But it's his kitchen. And he likes his microwave OTR.


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Definitely obsessed here and my remodel is 6-7 months away! It's hard sometimes when there's no one else to talk to about all my plans (or they obviously think my ideas are terrible--perhaps a topic for another discussion?), but I know I can always come here for a little comfort... :-)


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Sorry, this one is shameful, but true:

. . . when you're looking at a half-page photograph in the NY Times of a Palestinian woman standing in a pile of bombed-out rubble holding a long piece of burned, scoured metal under her arm and you think to yourself, "Huh, that would make a beautiful countertop."

As I said, shameful (but true).


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here's a new one for me... standing in a half torn down kitchen imagining yourself cooking so you can see how it "feels".


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...when you're still on this site every day, even though you finished your kitchen 2 years ago! (me. love it.)


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...you really should be getting ready to go out for dinner for your husbands birthday, but you can't stop reading GW so you figure, "Meh, this outfit is fine, I really don't need to do my hair, just one more thread..."


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

...you tell your non-TKO friends about your tile installation and they say they thought that was finished, and you say, "No, that was the other tile."


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Lisa_a, that's perfect. laughing Your model beat my model, hands down!


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2001 -- Chapter 1: Decided to tear down our 75 year old house and build. I hung out on GW for a year prior, the year of building, and a year after. We'll never do this again, we said, we're done! Finally weaned myself away. . . until . . .

2005 -- Chapter 2: We decided to move out of state, build again. I moved back to GW full time, I think. Not just kitchens, but maybe more here than any other board. We've been in since June, and I'm still here a couple times a day.

My question: How would anyone build or remodel without GW??

TKO, TGWO . . . that's us.


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This message board has saved me enough money that I'm able to DO the remodel! The second guessing goes on and on but I know there is someone here who KNOWS and all I have to do is post. The finished kitchens blog is wonderful. All the pictures and links in posts are wonderful. I've even read posts that I didn't know were important only to find out they were the most worthwhile of the evening. And like all of you, I read the last one at 11PM and the first one at 4:45AM. I used to be late to work because I was watching baby kittens. Now I fly out the door because I was reading "one more" thread here.


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How about when you look at the kitchens in every tv show that shows a kitchen and every commercial? AND, then go online to see if you can find out anything about THE KITCHEN, not the show or product!


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When you think you know what you want to do in your Kitchen Remodel, find GW, and nine months later, changed the entire way of thinking, still not determined layout, and husband wondering if you've lost your mind!

Spend nine hours a day reading threads on the Kitchen Forum. Seriously.....


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When you're relieved to know that your GW friends are still checking in on the forum even after a year, so that when you finally finish your kitchen, someone will truly appreciate it and share in your excitement!


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...your DH is out of town on business and when you speak daily, a standard q he asks is "what's new on GW?" (yep, I hooked him in)

...you check GW on your BB and in moments of extreme urgency (Judydel's stools!), you post a reply on your BB (while driving to a function...)

...You trust the opinions of GW'ers way more than poeple you have known and loved all your life

...Your kitchen is WAY done but you still get great tips for ways to spend even more money! :-) (looking into having a wood cutting board made for my sink a la circuspeanut)

...you get expert baking tips from trailrunner on gorgeous pizza (check out that thread, all - yummy!)

((((Group hug))))

Eliz


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...this exact subject (title) has been posted at least 10-12 times in the 7+ years I've been here but I still read all the entries anyway :))
Monica
(Class of '02)


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When your husband knows the names of posters - sort of - and asks after them.

'Squeeby' (sweeby), 'Beemer' (bmore), and Buehl (that one, the biker gets right), DH says hi.


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It DOES spread to other rooms.....my (male) co-worker said he wanted to re-do his bathrooms and I delivered a 15 minute lecture on the virtues of the Kohler Class 5 flush system vs. Toto Drake and above. Poor man didn't know what hit him!


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when you discuss it with.... your dog! yep. 'hey, babygirl, where should mama put your doggie bar? at the end of the stove run? under the table? come here sweetie, let mama measure how high you are when you're eating...mama doesn't want you to bump your head when you look up or straighten up from eating.' or

'listen here young lady - i'm gonna hide the trash behind a door. if you scratch the door to get to the trash you'll have to get a job and replace it.
Do you hear me?'

dear me.


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when I want to ask withoutanh what are the virtues of a Kohler Class 5 flush system vs. the Toto and I wonder how I could have been so irresponsible to let this knowledge pass me by.


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When you give it to your DH. We went to a new restaurant a few nights ago, sat down in the booth and DH looked around and said "Those are interesting pendants." 3 months ago, I don't think the man even knew what a pendant light was. Our kitchen has been done for 3 weeks!


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When you are still looking at this site every day. Posting pics and recipes and inst. so others will love their kitchens and use them as much as you use amd love yours. When you still look at Kitchen Mags and wonder if ....NO ! When you have met and dined with LOTS of folks on this forum...and they are friends now. When you offer advice every time anyone even mentions the word remodel...kitchen or otherwise. When you read this thread every time it comes up. LOL. Wow...we all have so much in common...what a great way to start the day. c


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When you go to a party and spend as much time mingling and chatting as you do thinking up reno ideas for their kitchen, their bathrooms, their......in your head. Oh, who am I kidding? You spend way more time thinking up ideas than you do mingling and chatting!


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...when you are reading this post and laughing because there is someone else out there just like you.
...when elizpiz mentions that she checks it on her BB and you think..."why haven't I thought about that" and immediately bookmark GW on your BB. (thanks elizpiz) ;)
...when DH says he is going fishing and instead of complaining about him being gone all day, you instead reply "have fun! You should make a day of it" because you know that just gives you more time to look at GW and more kitchen things.

Demo starts in my kitchen on Tuesday. Saying I'm a little nervous would be an understatment. GW has been a lifesaver for me. Coming into this process I didn't know anything about a kitchen. Now I can actually carry on a conversation for hours (or days) with someone about appliances, sinks, cabinets...you name it. You could say I'm a little addicted...lol.


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...your brand new kitchen is spotless, but the rest of the house has not yet been put "back together" after the reno. Boxes are still piled in the family room, the living room needs to be dusted for the 1,000th time since all of this started, the dining room (that served as our kitchen) is now serving as a catchall for things that I don't want cluttering up the new space, and our old kitchen table is still in the bedroom. My DH used to have his computer on it in the breakfast room, but I won't let him move his operation back into the new kitchen, so he is continuing to work out of our bedroom. We have a room that will become his office, but it is not a kitchen, so it just isn't that interesting.

Meanwhile....I sit here, reading and rereading posts, looking lovingly over my shoulder at my wonderful kitchen, while the rest of the house awaits my attention. I WANT it all to be beautiful, but I'd rather look at pictures of kitchens right now!


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When you go to a cocktail party, and it is sooo dull, and you're looking at your watch, wondering how soon you can leave without offending the hostess, when all of a sudden the (heretofore) boring blowhard who's been bending your ear numbingly says, "I've just started a kitchen reno". Suddenly you are shot through with excitement, and end up staying another 2 hours (DH is doing the "let's go" signal which you ignore), bending the blowhard's ear about EVERYTHING he MUST do in his kitchen reno, AND HE MUST CALL ME WITH ANY QUESTIONS.


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Oh boy can I relate! My assistant mentioned that she was redoing her kitchen and I immediately started asking her not only what kind of cabinets, but if she was getting soft close, full extension, etc. What about counters? Where are you getting that? faucet?
She backed away slowly, then ran! LOL

How about, when you know every brand and model of pulldown faucet on the market!


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...when you've [mostly] finished your kitchen so you start collecting pics and ideas for your NEXT kitchen
(in case DH does get one of those out of state jobs he's applying for).

It won't be so bad to move because NEXT time you'll get it PERFECT. ;)


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when you get your chair all ready at the door for trick-or-treaters and then run to get your laptop to scan some threads on GW in between ding-dongs...lord help me!

happy halloween everyone!


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Hahahahaha! Mairin, that's me! *blush*

How about when you are talking about your kitchen you use all the kitchen lingo that we use on GW, like negative/positive/zero reveal, full extension, Blum glides, soft close, pullout trash, bump outs, inset/full overlay/, CFMs, subway tile, Waterlox, air switch, honed, zones--just to name a few--and whomever you are talking to looks at you as if you have three heads.

Not that it's ever happened to me or anything....


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When your DH says, "Gee, how unusual. I come home and there you are on the computer!" And it's not because you're looking up old friends, or having some kind of illicit affair online, or shopping on Ebay; it's because once again, you're checking in on GW to see if anyone else is having your own "issues" with whatever is the problem or concern of the day.
And you feel you know certain posters just because of their generous spirit, and you wish you knew all of them personally. And you've told your GC about this, and your local lighting shop owner, and several friends who are about to tackle their own kitchens.
And you can't imagine having done this without all of them.


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I'm new here - only about a week or two. And already, I check back several times a day. Went to the appliance store to finalize appliances this morning and told saleslady about GW after she said she was painting her cabs. (She wrote down the addy, so I suspect she'll be hooked soon, too...)

And whoever mentioned the generous spirit of the GWers was spot on...kinda makes you feel good about humanity. (Hokey, but true)


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When you stay up until 1 am when you usually hit the hay around 10 pm,
...then the next day kick your kids off the computer several times "to check for an important e-mail" when in fact you are checking GW....
....then take your kids out trick-or-treating, get them to bed ASAP, then hop on the computer "just to check" again and are STILL HERE 3 HOURS LATER...!!!!


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When you mention GW to one of the people responsible for your remodel (architects, designers, contractors, subcontractors) because you think it's just the best place to get information and as the remodel unfolds and you have increasingly bad opinions of their work you wish you had never mentioned it to them! (Sorroy paruzi! It's personal experience.)


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When you simply haven't had the time to brush your teeth until you hear the garage door open! (on those 'jammies all day' days)

When you worry about the circulation in your legs from extended time on the chair in front of your computer. Are they numb yet? Swollen?


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Mairin, I promised myself I would file the Rebates from Staples in between the trick-or-treaters and clean but instead I keep checking posts as I also do laundry. So I totally understand you when you say. "when you get your chair all ready at the door for trick-or-treaters and then run to get your laptop to scan some threads on GW in between ding-dongs...lord help me!"

I found the kitchen forum when I was looking for a refrigerator. I love my stainless steel French Door refrigerator I bought at the end of 2006 but now that I just bought a stainless steel dishwasher, I wish I bought all my appliances at the same time and I wish I went with a counter depth refrigerator like others suggested. But this site and the appliance site has been wonderful in having me rely more on your opinions and no longer ask my friends or neighbors that are not TKO. :)

But I can also relate to looking for a dishwasher and hearing a couple confused and going over to them to teach them.

I love GW and the members are all so caring and there for one another.


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When it's 1:55 am (really 2:55 am before the clocks changed tonight) and I can't sleep, and instead of reading the paper or paying bills, I'm on GW.

When two nights last week of not sleeping either had me rearranging kitchen cupboards and sitting in my kitchen at 3:00 am, just looking, just admiring, just being satisfied.

When, as someone else posted, the rest of my house is a
D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R, but you could eat off the kitchen floor. I'm in my basement (where our temporary kitchen was) now looking around at piles of stuff, clothes in piles, coathangers on the floor, breadbox in a corner, old dishes stacked, who knows what on my ironing board, but I close my eyes to that, get on to see who's posting, who's got something wonderful and generous to say in support of someone else and then I go and look again at my kitchen where it's nice and clean.

Thanks for this thread - it's done me a world of good! I finished my kitchen in mid-September, and I've felt like I should be off this forum already. I was feeling like I shouldn't be here any longer - time to leave the nest. But I couldn't leave - I'm drawn back every day (ok - many times a day if I'm being truthful) Now I know I can stay as long as I want!!! Yippeeeeee

Well, it's 2:11 a.m. now, maybe I'll try to get to sleep now, right after I check just one more thread..........(as if!)


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When your husband refers to GW as your "kitchen porn" :-)


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.....your husband falls in love all over again when you say "I already knew we needed one, I bought it a year ago and here is the extended flange"


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...you and your husband spend a romantic Sunday in the garage "impregnating" stone tiles for your backsplash with Miracle 511 sealant. Who thinks of these names?


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Hi Mr. Celtic! ;-)


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Whenever I watch anything on TV, I find myself checking out the kitchens. Desperate housewives have pretty nice kitchens! Two and a Half Men have a really ugly kitchen.


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ccoombs1, I also check out the kitchens to see what the style of the kitchen cabinets are and what wood species and stain they used, as well as what type of floor and what the appliances look like and if the refrigerator is counter depth. Sometimes I have to rewind now that I got a DVR so I can enjoy the plot!

I also love the houses and kitchens in Desperate Housewives and can't wait to look again tonight.


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My DH bookmarked the site as "Mom's Cult" - my reno has been complete for almost a year, but I still check out the forum daily


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when you're too shy (and inexperienced) to be much help, so you hardly ever post or reply, just read and learn, read and learn for months, until you may be nearing TKO. But by now you've read and learned enough to just be sad about a train wreck in progress on a current pair of threads... so much generous advice, so little listening; AND you are filled with pride at the courage of another GW'er (n..v..m..) who has the courage to speak up about what may be going on.


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My colleague had a family emergency and I am taking her lectures over at the last minute. Told my family they were on their own for dinner, etc while I get ready to do the lecture -- personalize it a bit. Til my DD walked over to the computer, and said "Gee, Mom, didn't know that high risk pregnancy lectures could be researched on GARDENWEB . . ."


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rjr220, LOL!! That sounds like me "paying the bills online."

Eliz


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When you have excel charts for everything you have purchased for your kitchen, with columns for price, advantages, disadvantages, pictures, thoughts, places to buy, etc.

And very unfortunately, you are unable to purchase anything without making yet another excel chart. This results in no pendants above your island for a long time because the excel chart is not done and therefore you have not weighed every possible option.


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...you're kinda sorta thinking it might be nice to hit some slab yards this weekend...just to see what's there.

(yes, markland, kitchen was finished in September and my "temporary" kitchen has also become a dumping ground...the rest of the house, so-so...but the kitchen is SPOTLESS, lol!)


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. . when you are desolate that the beautiful new granite counter top on your peninsula has to be replaced due to a bad seam and the fabricator calls you with a date for the new template.

You wake up in the middle of the night and think: Wait a minute, while the counter is off and they are remaking the top, I can make some changes! I can make the peninsula longer/wider and make the drawers at the end of the peninsula wider. And I can add another cabinet on the other side of the peninsula facing the family room.

I have to call the granite yard in the morning to see how wide the new slab is . . . . I have to call the KD and see how much it would cost for the extra cabinets + demo and installation. . . .

Let's see, we can't waste this opportinity. What else can we do?

Am I nuts or just TKO? DH votes for nuts.


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When you're in one of the big box stores, and you overhear someone talking to a significant other about what faucet/tile/sink/toilet or whatever to buy... and you slide up to them like someone with watches hidden in their trench coat lining on a nyc street corner and go "pssstt... i couldn't help but overhearing.. have you ever been to a website called gardenweb?"..

I have honestly done that.


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When your close friends mention starting to plan the kitchen remodel in 3-5 years, you explain what TKO means and start re-telling this thread...


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Actually, being TKO has been a wonderful thing for me. My son was diagnosed with leukemia this summer and work sucks, so I've had a lot of not so great things going in my life past few months. Then my younger son put his foot through the wood laminate floor a few weeks ago and...... ta-da! I'm off on a kitchen renovation adventure as they rip out my floors and cabinets. Everyone on this site is fabulous and as I sit here in the hospital for chemo, my kids tease me about being TKO on my laptop and worse than they are with video games (it may be true). But it is good for me. Dreaming about granite and paint and plate racks and appliances is the best medicine for worry. Thank you all for your advice and suggestions.

JG


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Texas -- it is a relaxing distraction. But goodness, having a child go thru numerous medical visits, hospitalizations . . . , works sucks AND a renovation? You need alot of good thoughts going your way. You have mine, and many others, I'm sure.


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

texassjg,

In case it works, I am issuing you my very best wishes for you and your son. Been there, done that twice(first husband and father) with other forms of cancer.

Hang in there, sweetie.


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RE: You know you're TKO when...

Thank you everyone :) I am feeling your good thoughts.


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