Here is a good place to start:

Here is a link that might be useful: Keeping the Golden Oak

Thank you!

I'm no help, but I wanted to let you know you're not alone. Our cabinets are an upgraded hickory, though, and the granite is black with shades of green. The cooler green undertones and the warm hickory don't go at ALL to me, but I can't justify knocking out $4k worth of granite (I'm guessing) because it's just annoying. However, we're adding a peninsula, so I'm trying to figure out what I can do to take the eye away from the green-to-me granite and still look cohesive.

So, I feel your pain.