I forgot, I'll also have a granite counter "New Caledonia" on my island, and a window sill in the same granite. This is mostly gray, but has a little brown in it.

To me they don't seem to play nice with each other. Just like you said your cabinets are "cold" and hardware "hot" if you will. The picture I think looks fantastic but the brass seems to be brighter and the gray grayer KWIM? Your cabinets seem to have more brown in them. Can you take a picture showing more of cabinet/hardware? Sometimes when you look at something up so close it's hard to get a true feeling, if you will. I think your selections are beautiful and it's all going to turn out nice whatever you decide.

From what I see on my screen, I dont like the color with your cabinet. Maybe its different IRL. Not sure what to suggest if you dont want silver tones or black. Other than color I like the pulls. Good luck!

I don't like the pulls or the color with the oak. Were you planning on mounting your pulls on the door panel instead of the rail?

What have you purchased already? I would take a step back and get some help from the good people here to help you pull everything together. I wouldn't mix formica and granite, and you probably shouldn't use two different countertops if your kitchen is small to medium. The oak has a strong pattern too, which the gray may accentuate. I don't think the counters complement each other as they will both read as solid, so they better be a great color match. So this is shaping up to be a very busy look imo.

I also think they don't go. The cabinets are a pinkish tone and the pulls are a yellow tone. I would go with classic smooth pulls without a pattern with a more modern vibe, since I think the cabinets look more modern.

Counters and cabinets are purchased. Just deciding on the hardware (I only bought 7 cup pulls on ebay for about $25). The travertine silver is a a large pattern with a honed finish (textured and very matte) with quite a lot of white. The picture above shows the entire counter top. This pattern repeats every 12 ft to give you an idea of scale. The granite is a tight speckly pattern with some shimmery spots and is glossy. The granite is also significantly darker

Here is a photo of the cabinet with my floor. I don't have any more photos right now because the kitchen is all apart.

I have similar color cabinets in my laundry / mud room and they have brass hardware and it looks nice, but this room has a more streamlined hardware. I'm thinking the cup and finger pulls have too much visible brass surface area, so make more of a clash. I'll look for a thinner handle and a more rustic brass, with the pitted black spots. This is the look I prefer and it also tones down the gold. Any good hardware sources?

I would put the door pulls on the rail (frame) not the panel. The drawer pulls would go in the center. I would probably put the pulls on the vertical part of the door, while the drawer pulls would be (of course) horizontal.

I do like those pulls, but not for your color cabinets. Since you don't want black or ORB, how about weathered nickel?

AH Turf is were I got mine. They were very helpful and also gave me a bit of a discount (i bought 53 pulls i think!). Went through a few different samples, so it was a process. They were nice and responsive. Definitely call if you have questions.

Agree with others regarding color. Like the finger pulls, but feel with your wood that a clean line rather than design on them would look better. My cup pulls are similar in color to the one posted, a darker weathered gray. Perhaps called weathered pewter. But no design other than they have a simulated screw on each side with the same finish.

Be aware of hardware which appears to have a "finish" on them, rather than solid. The finish will wear off with use if it has not been done well. I'm not sure how one could test the finish for this.

I was a Lowes tonight, and found this in stock pull. It is very solid and is smooth on front and back so would be easy to clean. The color is "antique brass" and has more silver and is not as gold. I really like this color with the cabinets, and I like the size for the drawer because though 3" center to center, it extends either side so appears 5" long. I think this would look better for the drawers, but am not so sure about the doors. Would 5" be too long for a vertical door pull (on rail not on panel)?

Here are the corresponding knobs, but they look too small to me.

I don't really love the brass color with the gray cabinets and counters either. Others are more knowledgeable than I, but the brass seems to be a warm color, best used with browns, beiges and gold tones. Your cabinets and counters are in the cool tones - I think the brushed nickel/weathered pewter colors would work best with them.