Posting a photo would not actually be much help, because you lose a lot in tbe translation from real life to photo to monitor. You must sample them, in big swatches, in several kinds of light.

Whites are the hardest colors to pick. I looked only at whites from Farrow and Ball (they have a great website, btw) and only about 8 of them, and still got stymied.

Here are some "whites" i liked in my space. Farrow and Ball Wimborne, Lime White, and Slipper Satin. Benjamin Moore Halo, Ancient Ivory and Cotton Balls.

Hope that helps!

Seriously, I'm having this conversation with my DH right now. Every couple of days, I have a new "favorite" white. I think my problem is I'm afraid to commit. I never stress over the wall color. It's sooo easy to change. Cabinet color is harder to change.
Here's a couple I've sampled:

Benjamin Moore (BM) White Dove OC-17 - a bright, grey white. Light Reflective Value (LRV) 90 Cool undertone

BM Cloud White OC-130 LRV 87.1 - not as bright as White Dove LRV 87.1

BM Feather Down OC-7 LRV 73.8 - a moodier gray off white, Cool undertone.

Below is a link another gardenwebber shared with me. BuyAuraPaint. It has the LRV and some of the color undertone info. Sherwin Williams also has the LRV on the back of their cards too if you want to compare.

Here's Pottery Barn's version of how to pick white:
http://www.potterybarn.com/pages/getting-white-right.html

BTW, my color of the week is Ancient Ivory ; )

Here is a link that might be useful: BM paint

Im having the same problem. I've already chosen my backsplash tile.. stock 16cent tiles from Menards in Bone. They're actually quite pretty and I love the white. I dont want to match exactly, and can easily tell which whites do and do not coordinate. My problem is deciding how light or dark my white should be. Should i got more beige?? What about my wall color? ugh!!!