Maybe take a look at Benj. Moore White Marble. I'm a big believer in painting huge swatches on foam board so you can test the options out in your lighting at all times of day.

The only way to know how color will look in your space with your surrounding colors is to get a sample of the paint and paint a very large swath.

When choosing cab colors, BM White Dove looked dingy and sickly greenish-yellow for me. I ended up using Simply White which is a much truer white. I ran across my painted WD board the other day and brought it into the house to see the difference with my cabs and doors. They looked horrid together. Your lighting and other surrounding features may be different than mine though. Try it for yourself and find out. Good luck!

Try Benjamin Moore Oxford White.

Thanks for the ideas. I will definitely get some sample paints and put them on a board to compare the color next to the cabinets once those go in. We are only doing a one tone paint so I need to go with a nice white to compliment our cabinets. We are also doing a tongue and groove ceiling that will be the same white as the walls and trim. Who knew whites could be so complicated ;)

@Tibbrix my husband suggested the Oxford white. He really likes that one. Has any one used the oxford white in combination with white dove?