FYI, The My Page email links aren't working very well. You should keep checking back here. You might post that you have free koi in the Atlanta area on other pond message boards. Koi Shack, JB's and American Ponders are three that I know of. Your pond and patio and pool are gorgeous! Koi do breed like rabbits. With 1400 gallons, I would not have over 3 or 4 Koi. They grow like crazy too.

I can be logged in and if I go to update my member page it always ask me to login again. I do not know how anyone else updates their wishlist but I always go to any forum and scroll to the bottom where it says member services page. Then it ask me to login and I see a bunch of links. I hit the one I want then when I am done I hit save then it takes me to another page of links to where I can either view my list or I can return to the forum. This post got me curious so I figured hey I need to update my list anyway so I just tried it and it seemed to work for me. I am with karen if you are still having problems then maybe contacting an admin may be your best route.

The name at the top comes from the TITLE value. I don't use publisher so can't help further, but look in the help for how to set the title. As for search engines, that takes time. None of them will find you right away. Google takes several months. They all look at the text in your site. Description and title are also considered and that is what is shown on the listing for some of them. Key words have been so badly abused that they are largely ignored. The "x" means that either the pictures didn't upload or they are in a different directory than you expect them to be.

I hope no other readers felt I was 'judging' them, or anyone. I don't mention anyone's weight to them (nor do I gossip about it). Should someone tell me she is 'fluffy', 'curvy', etc. I would be silent. I DO wonder if encouraging avoidance of the word 'fat' is helping anyone. Sometimes we talk about things like this around the KT. I'm not attempting to enlighten anyone; just asking if my 'take' resonates with anyone else. Chrysalis -- I haven't said a word about health costs due to obesity. We do have epidemic obesity. I wonder about the causes, and possible 'cures'. I told the story because I thought it might help someone to *consider* if there are psychological reasons contributing to a weight problem. I have questioned, not made judgements. I feel sympathy for the stressed military spouses we see on TV. I wonder if they could get some support and help! I am *asking* if anyone else had wondered the same things. No person in our culture wishes and hopes to be fat. (Well, we've heard of a few, unique individuals!) I know there are non-psychological reasons for some people to be fat. Is there something wrong with asking people to consider if therapy could help them if they are struggling? As for me, personally, I am now a scrawny little old lady, but I was an unhappy adolescent of 150 lbs. and unhappy again as a middle-aged housewife at 140 lbs. I suspect my current ills are genetic inheritance, but also just part of wearing out -- and living in a society where I am tested to discover the ills!