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I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

Posted by Bashawin (My Page) on
Fri, Nov 18, 05 at 16:42

We would have been married for 19 years on the 27th of December. He had been working on the floor in the house, but went out for while with friends. There he had a massive heart attack. He was 48 years old. They were not able to revive him. We have no children. We were very close becuse we did almost everything together.
Most of the time I think that I am ok. But the smallest thing will make me lose it. Today I decided to go to wally world (walmart). I was able to supress the tears while in the store. But once I was in my car the flood gates opened. I went to my father-in-law's house. He is getting on much better than me. Or he's not showing it. I came home and cried so hard and loud that I was releaved that everyone was at work.
I had the plan to go back to work on monday. I don't know now.
Thanks for letting me go on, & on, & on....


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

I'm so sorry for this terrible, sudden loss. Your husband was so young. You must allow yourself time to grieve and cry all you want. It's just a process that cannot be hurried, unfortunately. I know everything you do for the first time without him in your life is difficult. Please do post here and go on & on & on all you want. Everyone here cares.

Stay in touch. I send you a cyber-hug!


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

I'm so sorry for your loss. I do know that crying is good and also talking. I also believe the small things are sometimes the hardest, they're what made your husband special in your life. Keep in touch on this site. We're here for you.


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

I am sorry for your loss. (((Bashawin)))


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

sorry for your loss. come here and go on and on, we're here for you!! DianePA


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

Bless your heart. I am so sorry for your loss ((( hugs)))


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

Your post breaks my heart. I wish I could take the pain away for you, but only time can do that. Take care.


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RE: I Lost my husband on Nov 6th

Bashawin,

my very deepest condolences to you and those close to you. Stay strong and take care.


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