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Posted by tenderchichi (My Page) on Mon, Jun 23, 08 at 1:15
"Wake Me Up When September Ends"
Green Day
Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends
like my fathers come to pass
seven years has gone so fast
wake me up when september ends
here comes the rain again
falling from the stars
drenched in my pain again
becoming who we are
as my memory rests
but never forgets what I lost
wake me up when september ends
summer has come and passed
the innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends
ring out the bells again
like we did when spring began
wake me up when september ends
here comes the rain again
falling from the stars
drenched in my pain again
becoming who we are
as my memory rests
but never forgets what I lost
wake me up when september ends
Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends
like my father's come to pass
twenty years has gone so fast
wake me up when september ends
wake me up when september ends
wake me up when september ends
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Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uj4qfCNQB6s&feature=related
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| Our loved ones, parents, may not fit the complete description of the Dad in this song but the message is clear. It is a tribute to those who Left us their Love and Values...and memories to Cherish about them. Leader of The Band/ Dan Fogelberg An only child Alone and wild A cabinet makers son His hands were meant For different work And his heart was known To none -- He left his home And went his lone And solitary way And he gave to me A gift I know I never Can repay A quiet man of music Denied a simpler fate He tried to be a soldier once But his music wouldnt wait He earned his love Through discipline A thundering, velvet hand His gentle means of sculpting souls Took me years to understand. The leader of the band is tired And his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through My instrument And his song is in my soul -- My life has been a poor attempt To imitate the man Im just a living legacy To the leader of the band. My brothers lives were Different For they heard another call One went to chicago And the other to st. paul And Im in colorado When Im not in some hotel Living out this life Ive chose And come to know so well. I thank you for the music And your stories of the road I thank you for the freedom When it came my time to go -- I thank you for the kindness And the times when you got tough And, pap, I dont think i Said i love you near enough -- The leader of the band is tired And his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through My instrument And his song is in my soul -- My life has been a poor attempt To imitate the man Im just a living legacy To the leader of the band I am the living legacy To the leader of the band. To listen: |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cy3GHCy49Dw
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| For my Dad and my Childrens' Papa: "Sunday Will Never Be the Same" Spanky & Our Gang I remember Sunday morning I would meet him at the park We'd walk together hand in hand 'Til it was almost dark Now I wake up Sunday morning Walk across the way to find Nobody waiting for me Sunday's just another day Sunday will never be the same I've lost my Sunday-song, He'll not be back again Sunny afternoons that make me Feel so warm inside Have turned as cold and grey as ashes As I feel the embers die No longer can I walk these paths For they have changed I must be on, the sun is gone And I think it's gonna rain Sunday will never be the same I've lost my Sunday-song He'll not be back again I remember children Feeding flocks of pigeons I remember sunshine And you were mine Sunday will never be the same I've lost my Sunday song, He'll not be back again [...fade] |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzu-ujCg0Vk
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"HEARTS CAN DO NO MORE...." Stevens: How Can I Tell You How can I tell you that I love you, I love you But I cant think of right words to say I long to tell you that Im always thinking of you Im always thinking of you, but my words Just blow away, just blow away It always ends up to one thing, honey And I cant think of right words to say Wherever I am girl, Im always walking with you Im always walking with you, but I look and youre not there Whoever Im with, Im always, always talking to you Im always talking to you, and Im sad that You cant hear, sad that you cant hear It always ends up to one thing, honey, When I look and youre not there I need to know you, need to feel my arms around you Feel my arms around you, like a sea around a shore And -- each night and day I pray, in hope That I might find you, in hope that I might Find you, because hearts can do no more It always ends up to one thing honey, still I kneel upon the floor How can I tell you that I love you, I love you But I cant think of right words to say I long to tell you that Im always thinking of you Im always thinking of you.... It always ends up to one thing honey And I cant think of right words to say |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBwUkPYzjKs
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"Tears in Heaven" Eric Clapton Would you know my name If I saw you in heaven Will it be the same If I saw you in heaven I must be strong, and carry on Cause I know I don't belong Here in heaven Would you hold my hand If I saw you in heaven Would you help me stand If I saw you in heaven I'll find my way, through night and day Cause I know I just can't stay Here in heaven Time can bring you down Time can bend your knee Time can break your heart Have you begging please Begging please (instrumental) Beyond the door There's peace I'm sure. And I know there'll be no more... Tears in heaven Would you know my name If I saw you in heaven Will it be the same If I saw you in heaven I must be strong, and carry on Cause I know I don't belong Here in heaven Cause I know I don't belong Here in heaven |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRsJlAJvOSM
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"In My Life" Beatles There are places i'll remember All my life though some have changed Some forever not for better Some have gone and some remain All these places have their moments With lovers and friends i still can recall Some are dead and some are living In my life i've loved them all But of all these friends and lovers There is no one compares with you And these memories lose their meaning When i think of love as something new Though i know i'll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know i'll often stop and think about them In my life i love you more Though i know i'll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know i'll often stop and think about them In my life i love you more In my life i love you more |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQzlIKen2aw
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| The following song was written by Warren Zevon for his family just before he died of lung cancer. What a beautiful gift. KEEP ME IN YOUR HEART Shadows are fallin' and I'm runnin' out of breath Keep me in your heart for a while If I leave you it doesn't mean I love you any less Keep me in your heart for a while When you get up in the mornin' and you see that crazy sun Keep me in your heart for a while There's a train leavin' nightly called "When All is Said and Done" Keep me in your heart for a while Sha-lalala-lala-li-lalala-lo Keep me in your heart for a while Sha-lalala-lala-li-lalala-lo Keep me in your heart for a while Sometimes when you're doin' simple things around the house Maybe you'll think of me and smile You know I'm tied to you like the buttons on your blouse Keep me in your heart for a while Hold me in your thoughts Take me to your dreams Touch me as I fall into view When the winter comes Keep the fires lit And I will be right next to you Engine driver's headed north up to Pleasant Stream Keep me in your heart for a while These wheels keep turnin' but they're runnin' out of steam Keep me in your heart for a while Sha-lalala-lala-li-lalala-lo Keep me in your heart for a while Sha-lalala-lala-li-lalala-lo Keep me in your heart for a while Keep me in your heart for a while |
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| For kms4me "Keep me in your Heart" Thought to add the link below to listen. Very moving tribute. What can we do but to keep them in our hearts. I believe that there is a Heaven and they we will meet again. The best tribute to my Dad's Life is to always try to be the kind of person that I know He would be proud of. Not that I must accomplish great things but that I would do my best to live by the example He set for his children. My Dad was not a "sophisticated" person. He hated no one and was always ready to lend a helping hand with a genuine smile on His never to be forgotten dear face. He is in my my Heart til we meet again. |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7NQjLZvw44&feature=related
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| "I Believe" - Diamond Rio Every now and then soft as breath upon my skin I feel you come back again And it’s like you haven’t been gone a moment from my side, Like the tears were never cried, Like the hands of time were pulling you and me. And with all my heart I’m sure we’re closer than we ever were, I don’t have to hear or see I’ve got all the proof I need. There are more than angels watching over me I believe Oh I believe Now when you die and life goes on, I t doesn’t end here When you’re gone every soul has found a flight It never ends if I’m right. Our love can even reach across eternity. I believe Oh I believe Forever you’re a part of me, Forever in the heart of me, I will hold you even longer if I can. Oh the people, who don’t see the most, See that I believe in ghosts. If that makes me crazy then I am Cuz I believe Oh I believe There are more than angels watching over me. I believe Oh I believe Every now and then soft as breath upon my skin, I feel you come back again And I believe. |
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| For brycesmommy is the link to listen to the bitter sweet song you posted. "And with all my heart I’m sure we’re closer than we ever were, I don’t have to hear or see I’ve got all the proof I need. There are more than angels watching over me...." "They" are like Angels now. I like to think that my dear Daddy and Papa to his grandchildren can visit from time to time and is watching over us. I know He loved all of us in His own special way. Our Hope is in the Blessed moment when we will meet them again. Also, never forget and treasure the Love they left behind. |
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| Hi Brycesmommy...we haven't heard from you in a long time, and I'm hoping that means that your family and your twins are doing great. I think of you so often. |
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| My Dad loved to dance. Remembering many dances we had together. Love You Daddy. "Dance with my Father Again" Luther Vandross Verse 1: Back when I was a child Before life removed all the innocence My father would lift me high And dance with my mother and me and then Spend me around till I fell asleep Then up the stairs he would carry me And I knew for sure I was loved Chorus: If I could get another chance Another walk, another dance with him I'd play a song that would never ever end How I'd love love love to dance with my father again Verse 2: When I and my mother would disagree To get my way I would run from her to him He'd make me laugh just to comfort me(yeah, yeah) Then finally make me do just what my momma said Later that night, when I was asleep He left a dollar under my sheet Never dreamed that he would be gone from me Chorus: If I could steal One final glance One final step One final dance with him I'd play a song that would never ever end Cause I'd love love love to dance with my father again Verse 3: Sometimes I'd listen outside her door I'd hear how my mother cried for him (2x) I'd pray for her even more than me I know I'm praying for much too much But could you send back the only man she loved I know you don't do it usually But dear Lord she' s dying to dance with my father again Every night I fall asleep And this is all I ever dream Link to "Dance with my Father Again" |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-X0JcXnWEw
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"Julia"/Beatles written by John Lennon for his Mom. Half of what I say is meaningless But I say it just to reach you, Julia Julia, Julia, oceanchild, calls me So I sing a song of love, Julia Julia, seashell eyes, windy smile, calls me So I sing a song of love, Julia Her hair of floating sky is shimmering, glimmering, In the sun Julia, Julia, morning moon, touch me So I sing a song of love, Julia When I cannot sing my heart I can only speak my mind, Julia Julia, sleeping sand, silent cloud, touch me So I sing a song of love, Julia Hum hum hum...calls me So I sing a song of love for Julia, Julia, Julia To listen: |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fRSnhL0V-o
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| This really isn't a Song of Remembrance -- more a Song of Grief. The very first time I heard it was within an hour after my Mom died. I was driving home from the hospital before dawn. I haven't heard it too often since then,but when I do, the timing of the particular situation is uncanny. Dreaming With A Broken Heart by John Mayer When you're dreaming with a broken heart The waking up is the hardest part You roll outta bed and down on your knees And for the moment you can hardly breathe Wondering was she really here? Is she standing in my room? No she's not, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... When you're dreaming with a broken heart The giving up is the hardest part She takes you in with your crying eyes Then all at once you have to say goodbye Wondering could you stay my love? Will you wake up by my side? No she can't, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... Oooooooooohhhhhhhhh Now do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Would you get them if i did? No you won't, 'cause you're gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... When you're dreaming with a broken heart The waking up is the hardest part |
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| When I found myself in times of trouble Mother Mary comes to me singing words of wisdom. Let it be, let it be, let it be oh let it be there will be an answer , let it be. This song from the beatles always tugs at my heart and makes me cry. God bless us all!!!!! |
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darzie, "Let it Be" is a melody with a lot of truth in it. Sad as it may be, we all have to go thru it. Maybe, it is necessary and will make us all grow in some better way. Maura, at the bottom is the link to "Dreaming with a Broken Heart". Such melancholy sweetness in those words. It is truly hard to reconcile ourselves to the fact that someone we loved is gone from our physical life, never to be seen again. I am just really starting to process that fact. I will not see my Dad again. It is really painful to take that to heart. Til we leave this earth, we will be missing them. "Let it Be"/Beatles When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. And in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front of me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be. Whisper words of wisdom, let it be. And when the broken hearted people living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be. For though they may be parted there is still a chance that they will see, there will be an answer. let it be. Let it be, let it be, ..... And when the night is cloudy, there is still a light, that shines on me, shine until tomorrow, let it be. I wake up to the sound of music, mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. Let it be, let it be, ..... |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4NZZ6tXCuO8
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| Another heartbreaking favorite of mine, by Carly Simon: Like A River Dear mother the struggle is over now And your house is up for sale We divided your railway watches Between the four of us I fought over the pearls With the other girls But it was all a metaphor For what was wrong with us As the room is emptying out Your face so young comes into view And on the back porch is a well-worn step And a pool of light you can walk into I'll wait no more for you like a daughter, That part of our life together is over But I will wait for you, forever Like a river... Can you clear up the mystery of the Sphinx? Do you know any more about God? Are you dancing with Benjamin Franklin On the face of the moon? Have you reconciled with Dad? Does the rain still make you sad? Last night I swear I could feel you Moving through my room And I thought you touched my feet I so wanted it to be true In my theater there is a stage And a footlight you can step into... I'll wait no more for you like a daughter, That part of our life together is over But I will wait for you, forever Like a river... In the river I know I will find the key And your voice will rise like the spray In the moment of knowing The tide will wash away my doubt 'Cause you're already home Making it nice for when I come home Like the way I find my bed turned down Coming in from a late night out. Please keep reminding me Of what in my soul I know is true Come in my boat, there's a seat beside me And two or three stars we can gaze into... I'll wait no more for you like a daughter, That part of our life together is over But I will wait for you forever Like a river... I'll never leave, always just a dream away A star that's always watching Never turn away We'll never leave, always just a thought away A candle always burning Never turn away The moon will hide, the tree will bend I'm right beside you I'll never turn away |
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Here is a link that might be useful: Like a River
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maura63, That sure can bring a tear to the eye. Tissues needed. It asks all the right questions. Expresses all our Hopes while we wait. "Like a River..." Life runs its course. And, the part about reconciling. People often times can 'screw up. They have regrets. I think that the wise realize that most of the things they were hung up about during their lives didn't really matter as much as they thought. They made a big deal over small stuff. Unfortunately, even if you come to that realization with time on your side, you can't control other people. Pride stands in the way. Sometimes, you just have to let them go and maybe they will realize too before it is too late and they go home. The lyrics in "Like a River"/Carly Simons speak to those issues. |
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| This song was written by the lead singer (David Gates?) of the band 'Bread'. Though many think it's a love song, he wrote it upon the death of his father. My father died five years ago, and I find this song going through my head whenever I think of him. EVERYTHING I OWN You sheltered me from harm. Kept me warm, kept me warm You gave my life to me Set me free, set me free The finest years I ever knew Were all the years I had with you I would give anything I own, Give up me life, my heart, my home. I would give everything I own, Just to have you back again. You taught me how to love, What its of, what its of. You never said too much, But still you showed the way, And I knew from watching you. Nobody else could ever know The part of me that can't let go. I would give anything I own, Give up me life, my heart, my home. I would give everything I own Just to have you back again. Is there someone you know, Youre loving them so, But taking them all for granted. You may lose them one day, Someone takes them away, And they dont hear the words you long to say I would give anything I own, Give up me life, my heart, my home. I would give everything I own Just to have you back again Just to touch you once again. |
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| Warren lived across Rittenhouse Square from my grandmother's apartment, back before she had her stroke and sometimes, you could hear him playing... he and dad were the two most influential piano players in my life, and I lost them about a year apart, so that song's gonna ache forever, I think... this is the one I sang for Poppa. Nettie When you walk through a storm Keep your chin up high And don't be afraid of the dark. At he end of the storm Is a golden sky And the sweet silver song of a lark. Walk on through the wind, Walk on through the rain, Tho' your dreams be tossed and blown.Walk on, walk on With hope in your heart And you'll never walk alone, You'll never walk alone. |
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| For our Mothers, Daughters, Lovers and Good Friends. We miss you ... RUBY TUESDAY (Jagger/Richards) She would never say where she came from Yesterday don't matter if it's gone While the sun is bright Or in the darkest night No one knows She comes and goes Goodbye, Ruby Tuesday Who could hang a name on you? When you change with every new day Still I'm gonna miss you... Don't question why she needs to be so free She'll tell you it's the only way to be She just can't be chained To a life where nothing's gained And nothing's lost At such a cost There's no time to lose, I heard her say Catch your dreams before they slip away Dying all the time Lose your dreams And you will lose your mind. Ain't life unkind? Goodbye, Ruby Tuesday Who could hang a name on you? When you change with every new day Still I'm gonna miss you... As performed by Melanie~ |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tognmHSh_Qg&feature=related
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| "Never Gone"`Backstreet Boys I really miss you, there's something I gotta say The things we did, the things we said Keep comin' back to me and make me smile again You showed me how to face the truth Everything that's good in me I owe to you Though the distance that's between us Now may seem to be too far It will never separate us Deep inside, I know you are Chorus: Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are Always close, everyday Every step along the way Even though for now we've got to say goodbye I know you would be forever in my life (yeah!) Never gone No, no, no, no I walk along these empty streets There is not a second you're not here with me The love you gave, the grace you've shown Will always give me strength and be my cornerstone (Somehow) somehow you found a way To see the best I have in me As long as time goes on I swear to you that you will be Chorus: Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are Always close (always close), everyday (everyday yeah) Every step along the way Even though for now we've got to say goodbye I know you would be forever in my life (in my life, yeah) Never gone (gone from me) If there's one thing I believe (I believe) I will see you somewhere down the road again (I will see you somewhere, somewhere, somewhere, somewhere) (Never gone) Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are Always close (always close, always close), everyday (everyday, everyday) Every step along the way Even though for now we've got to say goodbye (yeah, yeah) I know you would be forever in my life Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are (in my heart is where you are) Always close (always close), everyday (everyday) Every step along the way Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0ACLO4Cck0
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6Zfx5qra_g When I get where I'm going on the far side of the sky. The first thing that I'm gonna do Is spread my wings and fly. I'm gonna land beside a lion, and run my fingers through his mane. Or I might find out what it's like To ride a drop of rain (Chorus:) Yeah when I get where I'm going, there'll be only happy tears. I will shed the sins and struggles, I have carried all these years. And I'll leave my heart wide open, I will love and have no fear. Yeah when I get where I'm going, Don't cry for me down here. I'm gonna walk with my grandaddy, and he'll match me step for step, and I'll tell him how I missed him, every minute since he left. Then I'll hug his neck. (Chorus) So much pain and so much darkness, in this world we stumble through. All these questions, I can't answer, so much work to do. But when I get where I'm going, and I see my Maker's face. I'll stand forever in the light, of His amazing grace. Yeah when I get where I'm going, Yeah when I get where I'm going, there'll be only happy tears. Hallelujah! I will love and have no fear. When I get where I'm going. Yeah when I get where I'm going. |
Here is a link that might be useful: When I Get Were I'm Going
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| Missing our Dads at Christmas. We will be missing our Daddy/Pappa this first Christmas without him. He was the Star on the top of our Tree and the Joy of all our Holidays. He made the Holidays so festive and enjoyed the Merrymaking. We will be missing Him. I know that he has gone Home and is in Heaven. Til me meet again Daddy! "I'll Be Home for Christmas"` Bing Crosby I'll be home for Christmas You can plan on me Please have snow and mistletoe And presents on the tree Christmas Eve will find me Where the lovelight gleams I'll be home for Christmas If only in my dreams I'll be home for Christmas You can plan on me Please have snow and mistletoe And presents on the tree Christmas Eve will find me Where the lovelight gleams I'll be home for Christmas If only in my dreams.... To listen: |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnOL3z9NNLQ
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| I Will Remember You Lyrics by Sarah McLachlan I will remember you Will you remember me? Don’t let your life pass you by Weep not for the memories Remember the good times that we had? I let them slip away from us when things got bad How clearly I first saw you smilin’ in the sun Wanna feel your warmth upon me, I wanna be the one I will remember you Will you remember me? Don’t let your life pass you by Weep not for the memories I’m so tired but I can’t sleep Standin’ on the edge of something much too deep It’s funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word We are screaming inside, but we can’t be heard But I will remember you Will you remember me? Don’t let your life pass you by Weep not for the memories I’m so afraid to love you, but more afraid to loose Clinging to a past that doesn’t let me choose Once there was a darkness, deep and endless night You gave me everything you had, oh you gave me light And I will remember you Will you remember me? Don’t let your life pass you by Weep not for the memories And I will remember you Will you remember me? Don’t let your life pass you by Weep not for the memories Weep not for the memories |
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| Never heard this. McLachlan has such a wonderful voice. I was struck by her song "Angel". "Will You Remember Me" is also quite amazing. Am posting a link to listen to it. Sweet sadness.... |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSz16ngdsG0
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| "I'll Be Seeing You"~Fain/Kahal My Dad is probably singing this song in Heaven and remembering how popular it was during the time He dated my Mom. I'll be seeing you In all the old familiar places That this heart of mine embraces All day through. In that small cafe; The park across the way; The children's carousel; The chestnut trees; The wishin' well. I'll be seeing you In every lovely summer's day; In every thing that's light and gay. I'll always think of you that way. I'll find you In the morning sun And when the night is new. I'll be looking at the moon, But I'll be seeing you. I'll be seeing you In every lovely summer's day; In every thing that's light and gay. I'll always think of you that way. I'll find you In the morning sun And when the night is new. I'll be looking at the moon, But I'll be seeing you. To Listen: |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_ewY_mYqt0&feature=related
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| "Edge of 17"/Nicks Stevie inspired to write this song after the death of her Uncle Johnathan and John Lennon. Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Whoo... whoo... whoo... Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo And the days go by... Like a strand in the wind... In the web that is my own... I begin again Said to my friend, baby... Nothin' else mattered He was no more... than a baby then Well he... seemed broken hearted... Something within him But the moment... that I first laid... Eyes... on... him... all alone... On the edge of... seventeen Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... ooo baby... ooo... said ooo... Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo I went today... maybe I will go again... Tomorrow And the music there it was hauntingly... Familiar And I see you doing... What I try to do for me With the words from a poet... And the voice from a choir And a melody... nothing else mattered Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... ooo baby... ooo... said ooo Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo The clouds... never expect it... When it rains But the sea changes colours... But the sea... Does not change And so... with the slow... graceful flow... Of age I went forth... with an age old... Desire... to please On the edge of... seventeen Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo Well then suddenly... There was no one... left standing In the hall... yeah yeah... In a flood of tears That no one really ever heard fall at all Oh I went searchin' for an answer... Up the stairs... and down the hall Not to find an answer... Just to hear the call Of a nightbird... singing... Come away... come away... Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song Sounds like she's singing... Ooo... baby ooo... said ooo Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo... baby ooo... said ooo Well I hear you in the morning... And I hear you... At nightfall... Sometime to be near you... Is to be unable... to hear you... My love... I'm a few years older than you... Just like the white winged dove... Sings a song... Sounds like she's singing... Ooo baby... ooo... said ooo |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aaochA4mmAw&feature=related
RE: Songs of Remembrance and Grief
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| My father has not passed but has dementia, he has changed so much. In my own way I am grieving. He is in a nursing home and it is very hard to see him having to go through this. My song is : Daddy's Hands I remember Daddy´s hands, folded silently in prayer. And reaching out to hold me, when I had a nightmare. You could read quite a story, in the callouses and lines. Years of work and worry had left their mark behind. I remember Daddy´s hands, how they held my Mama tight, And patted my back, for something done right. There are things that I´ve forgotten, that I loved about the man, But I´ll always remember the love in Daddy´s hands. Daddy's hands were soft and kind when I was cryin´. Daddy´s hands, were hard as steel when I´d done wrong. Daddy´s hands, weren´t always gentle But I´ve come to understand. There was always love in Daddy´s hands. I remember Daddy´s hands, working 'til they bled. Sacrificed unselfishly, just to keep us all fed. If I could do things over, I´d live my life again. And never take for granted the love in Daddy´s hands. Daddy's hands were soft and kind when I was cryin´. Daddy´s hands, were hard as steel when I´d done wrong. Daddy´s hands, weren´t always gentle But I´ve come to understand. There was always love in Daddy´s hands. Daddy's hands were soft and kind when I was cryin´. Daddy´s hands, were hard as steel when I´d done wrong. Daddy´s hands, weren´t always gentle But I´ve come to understand. There was always love ..... In Daddy´s hands. Then another one that I will think of when he passes a song by George Jones, See he love's my mom to this day, they divorced in 1968. He said I'll love you 'til I die She told him you'll forget in time As the years went slowly by She still preyed upon his mind He kept her picture on his wall Went half crazy now and then He still loved her through it all Hoping she'd come back again Kept some letters by his bed Dated 1962 He had underlined in red Every single I love you I went to see him just today Oh but I didn't see no tears All dressed up to go away First time I'd seen him smile in years (Chorus) He stopped loving her today They placed a wreath upon his door And soon they'll carry him away He stopped loving her today (Spoken) You know she came to see him one last time Oh and we all wondered if she would And it kept running through my mind This time he's over her for good http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ua3YzTLGDW4 |
Here is a link that might be useful: song daddy's hands - google video
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| mikeandbarb - that is so tough to see. Especially, when our parents were once so capable. Also, we want to still be able to communicate with them in a viable way. Very sad thing to have to go thru. Added the link below to: He Stopped Loving Her Today/Jones. |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz2aNifcy20
RE: Songs of Remembrance and Grief
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| I lost a good friend today. He was 49 years old. It was totally unexpected :( One Sweet Day by Boyz II Men with Mariah Carey Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say And now it's too late to hold you 'cause you've flown away So far away Never had I imagined Living without your smile Feeling and knowing you hear me It keeps me alive Alive Refrain: And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day Eventually we'll sing in heaven Darling I never showed you Assumed you'd always be there And I took your presence for granted But I always cared And I miss the love we shared And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day Eventually we'll sing in heaven Although the sun will never shine the same I'll always look to a brighter day Lord I know when I lay me down to sleep You will always listen as I pray And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day Eventually we'll sing in heaven Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say |
RE: Songs of Remembrance and Grief
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| This is a beautiful song. Josh Groban's voice brings tears to my eyes. To Where You Are - Josh Groban Who can say for certain Maybe you're still here I feel you all around me Your memory's so clear Deep in the stillness I can hear you speak You're still an inspiration Can it be..? That you are mine Forever love And you are watching over me from up above Fly me up to where you are beyond the distant star I wish upon tonight to see you smile If only for awhile to know you're there A breath away's not far to where you are Are you gently sleeping Here inside my dream And isn't faith believing All power can't be seen As my heart holds you Just one beat away I cherish all you gave me everyday 'Cause you are mine Forever love Watching me from up above And I believe That angels breathe And that love will live on and never leave Fly me up to where you are beyond the distant star I wish upon tonight to see you smile If only for awhile to know you're there A breath away's not far to where you are I know you're there A breath away's not far To where you are |
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| My friend was in a tragic ATV accident. He was 15. Most incredible person I had ever met. I Miss You a Little/ John Michael Montgomery Sometimes a song can touch a nerve That takes me back to you When I pick up my old guitar And I play your favorite tune Every now and then, some little thing I've buried comes bubblin' up And once in a while, you feel close enough to touch I miss you a little since you've been gone A few little memories keep hangin' on I miss you a little, I guess you could say A little too much, a little too often A little more every day When I go by our old house I pretend that you're still there Waitin' for me on the porch But there's just an empty chair Wish I could see you just one more time Before I drive away So I could stop and go inside, and say I miss you a little since you've been gone A few little memories keep hangin' on I miss you a little, I guess you could say A little too much, a little too often A little more every day A little too much, a little too often A little more every day |
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| On October 20th, my cousin, whom I love dearly passed away last year with cancer and it has cut me to the bone. I will l always remember her and love her. She will always be a part of me! Remember, I will still be here As long as you hold me, in your memory Remember, when your dreams have ended Time can be transcended Just remember me I am the one star that keeps burning, so brightly, It is the last light, to fade into the rising sun I'm with you Whenever you tell, my story For I am all I've done Remember, I will still be here As long as you hold me, in your memory Remember me I am the one voice in the cold wind, that whispers And if you listen, you'll hear me call across the sky As long as I still can reach out, and touch you Then I will never die Remember, I'll never leave you If you will only Remember me Remember me... Remember, I will still be here As long as you hold me In your memory Remember, when your dreams have ended Time can be transcended I live forever Remember me Remember me Remember... me... |
RE: Songs of Remembrance and Grief
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| 'Goodbye My Lover' by James Blunt (How loved you were and are. We will all meet again in the light...) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tOQsswD4Tc&feature=related Did I disappoint you or let you down? Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown? 'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun, Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won. So I took what's mine by eternal right. Took your soul out into the night. It may be over but it won't stop there, I am here for you if you'd only care. You touched my heart you touched my soul. You changed my life and all my goals. And love is blind and that I knew when, My heart was blinded by you. I've kissed your lips and held your hand. Shared your dreams and shared your bed. I know you well, I know your smell. I've been addicted to you. [x2] Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I am a dreamer and when I wake, You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take. And as you move on, remember me, Remember us and all we used to be I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile. I've watched you sleeping for a while. I'd be the father of your child. I'd spend a lifetime with you. I know your fears and you know mine. We've had our doubts but now we're fine, And I love you, I swear that's true. I cannot live without you. [x2] Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. And I still hold your hand in mine. In mine when I'm asleep. And I will bare my soul in time, When I'm kneeling at your feet. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow. I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow. I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow. I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow. |
RE: Songs of Remembrance and Grief
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As Tears Go By Jaegger/Richards It is the evening of the Day I sit and watch the children play Smiling faces I can see but not for me I sit and watch as tears go by My riches can't buy everything I want to hear the children sign All I hear is the sound of rain falling on the ground I sit and watch as tears go by It is the evening of the day I sit and watch the children play Doing things I used to do They think are new I sit and watch as tears go by. |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhPPJ5dolxU
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| Great song choices. I played He Stopped Loving Her Today at my son's funeral. It was the first thing he said/sang when he started talking again at age 3. He has always loved George Jones. Leader of the Band is one of my favorite songs of all time. A song that my son loved was by one of his favorite bands Due West...So Long My Friend. He wanted it played at my sister's memorial but they couldn't do it live because they were touring. We played that song at his funeral as well, at the request of the lead singer of the band. It was written by Brad Hull of Due West. So Long My Friend - Brad Hull (B. Hull) Copyright 2006 Even though I don't want to accept it There comes a time when everyone moves on I know you can't stay here forever And still I never thought this day would come So long my friend I'll see you again But until then So long my friend You know that you kept so many waiting For you to make it to the other side They welcome you with arms wide open While I can't find the words to say goodbye These words I wish that I could tell you Are going to take some getting used to. I Wish You Were Here - Chelsea Musick (C. Musick, N. Peaytt, A. Hacket) Copyright 2007 I took your picture off the wall And put it by the bed Helps on those sleepless nights When I could use a friend When I look in the mirror I see your face But it's so hard to be mad When there's no one here to blame And I never thought I'd have to let you go Never thought I'd say goodbye I never thought I'd see The day my daddy cried I guess I better go Just wanted to say hello And I miss you more with every tear Signed, "I wish you were here" I know that you love me I still feel it in my heart Sometimes it's like you're here But we're so far apart I have so many questions I just want to understand If God can take you from us Why can't he bring you back You were the one who helped me through the day The one who wiped my tears away Now what am I supposed to do No one talked to me like you |
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| Love this song by Mercy Me -- "Finally Home" I'm gonna wrap my arms around my Daddy's neck And tell him that I've missed him And tell him all about the person I became And hope that it pleased him There's so much I want to say There's so much I want you to know [chorus] When I finally make it home When I finally make it home Then I'll gaze upon the throne of the King Frozen in my steps And all the questions that I swore I would ask Words just won't come yet So amazed at what I've seen so much more Than this old mind can hold [chorus] When I finally make it home When I finally make it home And the sweetest sound these ears have yet to hear The voices of the angels When I finally make it home When I finally make it home |
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| For my Amazing and Talented Brother. It suits You to a "T" No Tears/Blunt Don't I know it? Nobody has to say I've been lucky. Guess I was born that way I thank my father, his absence has made me strong And I love my mother but she had troubles with God No tears for the life that you've led You had angels in your head Did you hear them singing in the end All the things that you've seen All the things that could have been Well I've been everything I want to be So, no tears, no tears for me Yeah, I've bathed in sunshine but cherished the fading light And I heard my heartbeat faulter on a winter's night I loved a woman but she didn't hear my prayers So Long, oh Lord, I'm yours No tears for the life that you've led You had angels in your head Did you hear them singing in the end All the things that you've seen All the things that could have been Well I've been everything I want to be So, no tears, no tears for me Cause someone somewhere's going home tonight Try to understand their sacrifice So save your tears for those left behind For the life that you've led You had angels in your head Did you hear them singing in the end All the things that you've seen All the things that could have been Well I've been EVERYTHING I want to be So, NO tears, NO tears for me. Love you, Sis |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvkT50AHcnk&feature=related
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| "Carry you Home"/James Blunt Trouble is her only friend and he's back again. Makes her body older than it really is. She says it's high time she went away, No one's got much to say in this town. Trouble is the only way is down. Down, down. As strong as you were, tender you go. I'm watching you breathing for the last time. A song for your heart, but when it is quiet, I know what it means and I'll carry you home. I'll carry you home. If she had wings she would fly away, And another day God will give her some. Trouble is the only way is down. Down, down. As strong as you were, tender you go. I'm watching you breathing for the last time. A song for your heart, but when it is quiet, I know what it means and I'll carry you home. I'll carry you home. And they were all born pretty in New York City tonight, And someone's little girl was taken from the world tonight, Under the Stars and Stripes. As strong as you were, tender you go. I'm watching you breathing for the last time. A song for your heart, but when it is quiet, I know what it means and I'll carry you home. I'll carry you home. As strong as you were A song for your Heart I know what it Means I'll carry you Home |
Here is a link that might be useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UB-ymwBUtvs
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| See you on the other side- Ozzy Osbourne Voices, A thousand thousand voices Whispering, the time has passed for choices Golden days are passing over, Yeah I can't seem to see you baby Although my eyes are open wide But I know I'll see you once more When I see you, I'll see you on the other side Yes I'll see you, I'll see you on the other side Leaving, I hate to see you cry Grieving, I hate to say goodbye Dust and ash forever Though I know we must be parted As sure as stars are in the sky I'm gonna see when it comes to glory And I'll see you, I'll see you on the other side Yes I'll see you, I'll see you on the other side Never thought I'd feel like this Strange to be alone Yeah But we'll be together Carved in stone, carved in stone, carved in stone Hold me, hold me tight I'm falling Far away, distant voices calling I'm so cold I need you darling Yeah I was down but now I'm flying Straight across the great divide I know you're crying But I'll stop you crying |
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