I have searched and tried many things and still not able to reset it, everytime my neighbor comes home, our garage door opens.

How do I reset this?

I followed: http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/repair/msg0211522623263.html

per instruction I pressed and held the learn button for a full 2 minutes, the light doesnt go out as it is supposed to.

how long do I need to press?

Is this the wrong way to reset this thing?

the gdo is 41a3625 sears.

Thanks in advance for your responses :)