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Posted by qdognj (My Page) on Thu, Jan 8, 09 at 19:06
| Just watched a segment on NBC Nightly News with Brian Williams..It was about how Michelle Obama is "an everyday" woman,as her clothing is for the masses,not the "rich"..It then showed her on Leno and was wearing an outfit that she proudly said was from J Crew and only cost 400 bucks!!! Yep,for the masses alright,lol...Then she was shown on the View with another outfit and was proud to say it was affordable ,from BlackMarket/White House? and was only several hundred,!!!!
I know many professional women,who have a few of those "affordable" priced outfits,but not a new one for everyday, and i know these are not priced for the "masses",unless you can find them at Walmart |
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| Well come on, do you actually expect her to shop at W-M? Not reasonable, and she's still way ahead (at $400) of most of the previous F. ladies, plus she probably likes to get her stuff altered a bit - very tall, and a bit of j... in the trunk. I think she's terrific! |
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| not questiong anything about her!!!! it's the media i have a problem with...400 bucks for an outfit for the "everyday woman"....the liberal media strikes again... |
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| I'm not sure that $400 is too much for a professional outfit. In her case, she may be buying a new one everyday. I don't know. She's on public display unlike the rest of us. In the case of professional women that need professional clothes for work, I would expect a $400 outfit isn't all that uncommon. I haven't worked for a few years, but I know I was paying around $100 about 15 years ago for nice women's business suits/dresses that I could wear on interviews or to work. Of course, I only owned a couple. They had to hold up for several wearings. I bought mine at places like JCPenneys. I don't think it would be unreasonable to go someplace a little nicer or trendy and pay $400 in todays dollars. |
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Are you kidding? What kind of professional women wear "new one everyday"? In today's market, $400 for a professional outfit really is not bad at all. Her clothes indeed are very general public. I believe most women can afford these outfits, especially if they carefully plan and don't blow money on cheap junks. She looked awesome in that J Crew outfit. I will not be too surprised if she shops at W-Mart. She seems is the type of woman with enough confidence and substance who does not use material things to define herself. I am so glad we have a highly educated, intelligent and well balanced first lady. |
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ok, a better way to put it,is how many women here wear $400 outfits each day to work?..You are missing my point,i think she is great, but a 400 dollar ensemble(not including shoes) is NOT everyday wear for 80% of working women...The liberal media is doing exactly what it usually does...How many times did we hear about Barbara Bush and her "matronly" wear? and furthermore, who cares what ANY of them wear? Does it really matter if they dress themselves with the curtains from Lincoln's bedroom or if she is wearing a pair of Siamese Stilettos from Christian Louboutin |
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| i don't care if her clothing is 400 bucks or 4000 dollars,the point is WHY must the media tell us?..Is it to make the Obama's appear to be like everyday American's? I can assure you, they are not...They just don't have "boatloads" of cash...They have only "carloads" ;) |
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| Two bits found at Finding Dulcinea See the site for citations: "A $148 White House/Black Market dress Obama wore on "The View" sold out at some locations, as reported by The Wall Street Journal and others." --If it sold out, I guess a LOT of American professional women were wearing $148 dresses to work that week. "Nancy Reagan was First Lady during a recession, and her penchant for designer clothes, given to her by influential names looking for more exposure, did not sit well with many Americans. According to PBS, the public "balked" at Mrs. Reagan’s fashion choices. "The Reagans were accused of not caring that America was having trouble making ends meet," PBS notes, "while they lived and entertained lavishly, surrounded by well-heeled friends." But the First Lady gained credibility with voters by spearheading a drug awareness program, and she had more than just a sartorial influence in the Reagan Administration." --Believe me, as someone who shares her first name, abhorred her politics and her use of an astrologer in the White House, and who had to hear "Nancy Regan Red" any time I wore the bloody color, I KNOW how much we heard about what she wore. Who talks about First Lady Fashion? The Washington Times Ann Coulter, anyone? My gosh, the Washington Times is dishing on fashion AND smirking over Sam Shepherd’s arrest. Here And the Wall Street Journal has a blog devoted to "The latest fashion news, images, and analysis from around the world." QDog, your clichés are showing! |
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| I also think some of you are forgetting that apart from being first lady, she is herself a high powered lawyer and it's unlikely that, except for younger days, possibly 'just' working in the office on weekdays, $400 is not a lot to spend at all for a good suit that you expect to get some wear out of (and she strikes me as the type to care about that- though she won't be able to do that much anymore!). |
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| gotta love this...Nowhere did i say anything about HER choices in clothings,but i guess all the women here THINK that..I am complaining about the MEDIA's fascination with HER choices..My DW has weeks full of that type of clothing,the media has YET to ring our bell,lol... |
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| I hear what you are saying qdognj. I think some of it is a regional thing. For media types in NYC -- $400 probably does sound like a deal. For us in the suburbs (midwest), it sound pretty outrageous. |
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| I hear what you're saying, too, but a lot of things are relative - but maybe not so much by region as by what your station in life might be. I wouldn't expect anyone in the public eye or in executive positions to cobble together ensembles from Target or Goodwill - even though I'm not so shallow as to think that would be bad or even "eccentric". And I really don't think, for Michele Obama, $400 is over the top by any stretch of the imagination. And every clothes designer will produce a line of knockoffs so just about anyone will be able to dress like the First Lady, if one is so inclined. And get used to it, clothes are going to be the least of it for the media. I'll bet Barack - maybe even Brian Williams - doesn't buy $100 off the rack suits from the Men's Warehouse! No one finds men having their bespoke tailors outrageous. I worked in DC, we dressed well and though not everything in the closet was at the high end - but if you went classic or tailored, having a selection of blouses, shoes, accessories, etc. and your wardrobe stretched out just fine. |
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| Compared to what Sarah Palin and Cindy McCain spent on their wardrobes...yes, a $150 dress White House/Black Market is pretty impressive. Most of our first ladies have been associated with designer lines; the fact that Michelle Obama is willing to wear fairly inexpensive off the rack clothing is refreshing. |
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| I have no problem with expensive clothing..My sticking point that is getting lost here is the media alluding it is "every woman" wear, and 400 bucks for the "average Jane" is a ton of cash. |
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| I totally agree with your point that it is not every woman wear, $400 for one outfit when many, many women do not spend that kind of money for one season's worth of clothes. Perhaps just their choice of words is what is really off. Her clothing styles are certainly more accessible than those of say Cindy McCain and she certainly appeals to a wider range of women than say Hillary Clinton. It would be more appropriate to mention her warm smile. Any woman could have that should they choose so and it is free. |
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| Maybe they were just referring to "every" woman within a context of her being who she is vs a clerk at Wal-Mart... they live in a certain world of fashion plates and executive tastes and I think they forget we're not all part of it! |
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| If a piece of clothing is available at a retail store for someone walking in off the street, and if it doesn't cost thousands of dollars, I'd say that's "every woman" wear. This is in contrast to the designer, made-to-order clothing most celebrities and highly visible public figures wear in public appearances. A dress from a department store that you'd wear to work seems to cost at least $80-$100 these days (nondiscounted price) -- and that would be a polyester, not finely tailored dress. A suit will be several times that -- and if you're talking a tailored wool suit or separates, much more. Now, I don't spend that kind of money on clothes because I don't need to, so I don't budget for it. I work in a "business casual" environment where I can wear slacks and sweaters every day, and I don't work with the public. But certainly, several hundred dollars for decent tailored suit jacket alone is not unreasonable, and I wouldn't be shocked if I ended up spending that much. And I'm cheap. ;) |
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| I'll bet what she wore on Leno and on The View comes back out of the closet with much less frequency then harriethomeowner would wear it :) Let's face the truth,she is NOT everywoman..They live in a million dollar+ home, have their children in private school, and are free from day to day worries the "everydayPERSON" deals with..And this is prior to his being President...The Democrats have a history of whacking Republicans as the "out of touch Richie Riches" in regards to John Q Public but they enjoy "marinating their ice cubes" in the same drinks the GOP does...For the record, i am an independent ;) |
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| "I'll bet what she wore on Leno and on The View comes back out..." That's a bet you'd win because the reason why is obvious - she will be in the public eye (which sees all nowadays) whereas most of us are not and never will be. In our daily lives we usual folks aren't seen by people who would bother to commit our wardrobes to memory and find a way to use it against us. Million dollar homes and kids in private schools aren't all that rare though and certainly aren't weighted to any particular political party. Maybe there are some people who wish these things WERE rare so they could keep feeling superior and exclusive. Ya think? As a side bar: I'll admit to noticing two other woman who might not fall into the category of Everywoman - before Condi Rice hit her stride, she would appear on the news every night in this nubbly pink suit. Same for some financial analyst named Kristia something - have seen her on Nightly Business Report, McLaughlin Group, Washington Week, etc. etc. between October and now and always wearing the same distinctive dress - saggy mock turtle neck, greenish or brindle brown with a diamond-shaped target like affair in different colors covering the entire upper front. Regardless of having noticed, one's personal sartorial choices are just that - personal. |
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| That's a bet you'd win because the reason why is obvious - she will be in the public eye (which sees all nowadays) whereas most of us are not and never will be. But why should she care if she wore the same thing several times in public? Perhaps THEN,the media could pander to Jane Q Public and it would be legit...My point continues to be the MEDIA,not Michelle's choice of clothing,and if the media continues to portray her as Jane Q Public,that is a joke |
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| qdog, I'm not working anymore so I wasn't sure how working women felt about the media's portrayal of Michelle Obama. So, today I polled DH's female direct reports (4 of 5 are women). First, they all were glad to talk about Michelle. Second, they all do think of her as an American "every day woman". Every one of them said they felt she was a good (they actually said, "great") role model. Each of these women holds a post-graduate degree & makes a $125K+ salary. So, no...they're not WM employees but they also are not millionaires. Two of the four are the primary support for their families. We talked about Michelle's clothes & whether they cared about where she shopped. They do. And, J. Crew seems to be a big winner because they all have purchased something since the election. So, at least these 4 women relate to something in Michelle that's inspiring. None of them saw a problem with the media's reporting of her clothes. One of them said she hopes Michelle gets up a web page after the inauguration with a blog that includes her wardrobe choices. Michelle is a lawyer. As such, she has to dress professionally. But, so do other American women in similar postions. In that respect, she is an American "everyday women". It is not unreasonable to expect that professional women might shop at Nordstrum's. So, here's the suits & separates section from Nordie's website. As you can see, $400 is very reasonable for a 3-piece ensemble (blouse, skirt, & jacket). Compared to Cindy McCain & Sarah Palin's compaign wardrobes...gosh, Michelle seems downright frugal. The media is portraying Michelle as a women today's American woman can aspire towards as opposed to Cindy McCain...an heiress. Goodness, Cindy McCain was voted "Best Dressed" while still in highschool! And then, there's the Sarah Palin saga. What can be said about that? If you want the public to see Sarah as an American "every day woman" you can't put her in $250K worth of designer clothes! Women have some hope of being able to purchase a $400 outfit but NOT a $2,500 cute little red leather jacket!! /tricia |
Here is a link that might be useful: Nordstrum's
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| Tricia, thanks for the polling!!!! That further backs my point..125k is NOT Jane Q Public's typical salary!!!! And shopping at Nordtstrom's(something my family is guilty of) is NOT Jane Q Public's store...More like TJ Maxx,etc... I'll bet the average salary for working women is likley under 70k, and the word is "average",considering the "average" salary from 2005 census is 51k for people with college degrees..at 50k,400 bucks is almost 1% of their gross income for 1 outfit,not a good recipe for financial planning ;) |
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| Ah, but qdog... We both know that if one aspires to higher position it pays to dress like you already had the desired position! That's one of the first things I learned in banking...needed to buy suits! Same as a young man entering the work force just after college graduation. He also needs suits/shirts/ties. Personally, I believe $400 for a pulled together ensemble is a pretty good price. Yep, some are going to have to save for awhile but it's at least attainable within some reasonable length of time. Two quality suits & a half dozen equal quality blouses & you're dressed (well, you need shoes & unmentionables!). I think there will be many young American women looking to Michelle for wardrobe inspiration. Heck, I'm looking forward to seeing her inauguration gown. I hope she doesn't get influenced by the white house staff & end up in designer clothes...would, IMO, be a mistake. /tricia |
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Tricia, you are correct about dressing to impress for your career...However,the media makes it out like every working woman could afford these clothes,and that is simply not true...I'd like to see a quick poll with our fellow posters(women only,lol)to see % of those who shop Nordstrom/J Jill,et al, as opposed to those who shop Jc Penny/Tj Maxx et al.... and like you mentioned shoes and "unmentionables" could really put a hole in your pocket!!! |
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| I would say the media is correct in saying Michelle Obama's clothes ARE for the masses if she wore outfits from J.Crew and Black Market/White House. These aren't exclusive shops catering to the rich. They are regular stores found in many malls and downtowns. I don't hold Walmart as the standard for Everywoman. I know very few professional women who buy work clothes at Walmart but I do know professional women who shop at J.Crew, ITalbots, and Nordstroms as well as Marshalls, T.J. Maxx, and JC Penneys. I also don't think clothes have to be affordable to EVERY SINGLE working woman to be called affordable or for the masses. Certainly Mrs. Obama's clothes are very affordable to professional white-collar women such as she (e.g., a woman in a suit) and vastly more available to the working masses than Mrs.Reagan, Mrs. Kennedy, or even Mrs. Clinton. I don't wear suits to work but when I did (in the late 80s and early 90s), my impression was MEN spent around $300-$500 a suit back and women spent about 1/2 that amount ($150-$250) per outfit. So in 2008, I don't find a $400 outfit totally outrageous. It's on the high side but it's not exclusive and plenty of professional women spend about that amount. P.S. - Mrs. Obama may have also shopped sales :) |
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| ok, i'll put this forth,are professional women(to which my wife is a member) the group the media is referring to when it says affocable for "the everywoman"..I don't consider it that way,but perhaps i'm just a male out of touch,lol... |
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| I'm guessing that qdogni is a man, thus explaining the "My DW has weeks full of that type of clothing." If your DW has weeks full of that type of clothing, what is the problem? Is the complaint that the media isn't ringing your doorbell? You're complaining about the media's view of the cost of Michelle's clothing but if she dressed like a bag lady we'd complain about that too, how she is an embarrassment, why doesn't she have someone coaching her on her clothing, etc. I can't tell where you live, qdogni, but I live in a major metropolitan area and work for a Fortune 500 company. Women do dress that way. Women do spend that much on business attire. And no, I don't shop at Nordstrom. I have my clothing professionally tailored :>) |
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| sephia, you are completely missing my point..I don't care if she wears Fendi/Gucci or Lee rider jeans...My point is the media is playing it up like she's the role model for "everywoman" and everywoman,in my opinion is NOT her. And i can assure,1st hand, professional women do indeed wear high-end clothing,but is a woman who works in that type of position the typical "everyday" woman? I seriously doubt that... |
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Many of my 'everyday woman' friends are attorneys, doctors, CPAs, bank VPs... and they DO wear $400 suits on a routine basis. And, :::gasp:::, some outfits cost even more! Personally, I don't care at all... and wouldn't even know about this --- except for the fact that the OP brought it up and keeps belaboring the issue.... |
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| LUANN,in the nederlands of Pa, i am complaining about the MEDIA...but the replies are saying the clothing from J Jill,Nordstrom are for the masses,"everywoman", and this is simply not true..sheez,ya think this thread was about the granite counter tops or "oversized homes"... |
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| I think the media just used a bad choice of words. There is no every woman. MO represents success on career and family levels. Regardless of political affiliations, that's something I admire and would try to achieve. If achieving success in whatever area is a goal every woman has, then MO does represent every woman. |
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| Out of curiosity, qdognj, what would be your definition (or vision) of "everywoman"? And the obvious corollary, how much do you think she spends on a work outfit? |
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| Listen,my DW spends $$$ on clothing like nobody's business,probably has a job that less then 1% of women have,BUT,it is NOT about money..It is the media perception of her being "everywomans" fashionista.. My definition is simple,everywoman is the average of all women in the workplace,not women who are CEO's,CFO's,or in senior management positions... The "average" woman is not spending thousands of dollars on wardrobe.. amazing how i am getting grief over a comment about the media!!!!!!!! |
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| I consider myself a pretty average career woman (I make about $55k a year) and I would say that I agree with the media's statement that she's an "everyday woman". True, not everyone can afford a $400 outfit, but many can also afford more. I shop at JCrew, Talbots, etc., but also JCPenney and Marshall's. My closet certainly isn't full of $400 outfits, but I have spent that much on occasion. $150 for a dress isn't out of line for me at all. Just means I may not buy anything again for a while. I find MO's style very approachable - much more so than other candidates' or presidents' wives in recent memory. I would (and could) wear some of the outfits I've seen MO in, which I couldn't say for another first lady I can think of. Now, is that what the media should be focusing on? Of course not, but it's something that has always been an item for discussion for the wives of candidates. In MO's case, I think she's contributed much more than fashion sense to Obama's campaign - she's quite vocal about her opinions. The media could find much more to talk about than whether the dress she wore on election night was flattering or not (which, by the way, I loved). |
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| I would not pay that kind of price for any clothes, but that is not one of my priorities i am happy wearing my $20. jeans. Grrr...will be glad when my arm heals so i can get back in mine. have you ever tried to zip up jeans with one hand? in my opinion a $400. outfit is nothing compared to what celebs pay. she will be crucified no matter what she does or what she wears, right or wrong. |
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| amazing how i am getting grief over a comment about the media!!!!!!!! I think you may be over-reacting a bit :) You threw out a thought (the media misspoke when characterizing Mrs. Obama as everywoman based on her clothing choice) and you found that many women on this forum disagreed with you. INow, is that what the media should be focusing on? Of course not, but it's something that has always been an item for discussion for the wives of candidates. Maybe not but it is often informative and fun to read! Check out Robin Givhan of the Washington Post. She writes a column on the fashion choices of many politicians - I remember the column on Cheney's choice of a parka over a suit at a state funeral (I think it was a state funeral - lots of other heads of state were present). She also dissected the image the Republican and Democrat presidential and vice-presidential candidates presented via their clothes (rather than say, their words). |
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| I think the media referred to MO as an "every woman" because she could be spending a lot more on her wardrobe than she is. While a $400 outfit might be out of reach for many women, MO could reasonably afford more expensive attire. Perhaps the media's point is that she is more like an "every woman" because she's NOT going overboard with her clothing. Compared to other women in the public spotlight, $400 really isn't extravagent. |
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| I wanna hear how much Brian Williams pays for his suits, shirts, ties and cufflinks. Shall we guess? I'm going for $5K per suit. (Probably low.) |
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| ah... but no one likes dissecting men and their wardrobes! |
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| I wanna hear how much Brian Williams pays for his suits, shirts, ties and cufflinks. Shall we guess? I'm going for $5K per suit. (Probably low.) Wow - that would make Barack Obama an "affordable everyman" in comparison. His Hart Schaffner Marx suits are a mere $1500, although according to the Sun-times, he buys them 5 at a time. There is plenty of press concerning the men and their wardrobe, but it must not draw as much interest. Wasn't there some to-do about McCain's choice of shoes? Heck, I remember reading about the Pope's $600 handmade shoes. |
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| triciae-"Heck, I'm looking forward to seeing her inauguration gown. I hope she doesn't get influenced by the white house staff & end up in designer clothes...would, IMO, be a mistake." Regardless of whether it is designer or not, it would be nice if she wears something made in the U.S.A.. |
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| Michelle Obama was raised in a bungalow on the South side of Chicago, in a neighborhood which was probably good when she was a kid but may have gone bad. She has "made herself" through education and was pulling down a big salary on her own before the political life sucked her in. To shop at J Crew and B/W is definitely on the frugal end for someone of her age and position - maybe that mortgage and those tuitions required a budget. You can get a nice JH Collectibles or Ann Klein suit at Nordstroms, for about $500 new, so she had other options. I would guess she just liked the feeling of "younger crowd" dedicated clothing stores that turn their fashions over a lot. I get almost all my stuff at FiFi's Fine Resale, where, the staff tells me, nearly 25% of it has the tags still on it. Like $300 Carlysle wool slacks for $8. I like to let some other woman take the depreciation hit. Also, I have to gloat, I got a $98 pair of Chico's jeans at the outlet for $9.50. |
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| Oh... I work the Chico's sales to my advantage too! When visiting my daughter last month, I got $198 worth of things for $42 and change. That included WA state tax, too! |
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| I am a financial advisor in a credit union and if I did not get my suits on sale, they would cost $400 or more. But being a financial advisor I never pay full price! I wish I could wear jeans to work. |
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| For pete's sake leave her alone. In her position if she dressed for less there would be more squawking than this. JCrew is more than I can afford for everyday but I expect our First Lady to dress well and Jcrew is not exactly the high road as Washington goes. I like her just the way she is. Let's not waste on time on her closet folks. |
Michelle Obama shines in Isabel Toledo
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| The whole family looks nice. Including the kids. The designer worked for Anne Klein until she was let go from that position in 2007. Glad she's having the last laugh. "First lady Michelle Obama wore a sparkling yellow-gold sheath dress with matching coat by Cuban-born American designer Isabel Toledo. She paired the embellished ensemble with green gloves from J. Crew and green shoes." Links that might be useful: Michelle Obama shines in Isabel Toledo www.startribune.com/lifestyle/style/37874579.html Isabel Toledo en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isabel_Toledo |
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| Oooh pain...that Inauguration ball gown. Ok Ok it's not supposed to be all about the clothes. But, we do cover ourselves with cloth. There has been fashion about as long as there has been clothing. If you are in the public eye it pays to dress WELL so that no one can say anything about what you wore except "good choice". Of course the problem is the definition of "well". So, I was immediately struck by the thought that the right shoulder strap on that gown was the exact size, shape, and location of a fuzzy guitar strap protector. On TV the color was truly indeterminate, at first I thought she was wearing white! And then were there little fluffy cut out flowers on it, or something? And very shapeless. |
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| Don't forget about her feet allegedly hurting..But what do you expect when you walk Pennsylvannia Ave in her Jimmy Choo's!!!!!!!!! Even i know you're not suppposed to walk in Jimmy Choos,just supposed to stand there and look great in them,lol... |
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| Stop already, with the negative commentary about what Michelle Obama wore. No matter what she wore there would be people slinging negative comments about it. Everyone has a different sense of fashion and what may look awful to you might look wonderful to someone else. Everyone's definition of "well" might be different. It's called a difference of opinion and diversity - everyone is entitled to it. Didn't your mother ever teach you - "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all?" |
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| Boy I wish M. Obama's clothes were all I had to complain about. Someone needs to get a life. |
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| sephia-"Didn't your mother ever teach you - "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all?"" Sephia, doesn't it make you feel lucky that we have not one but TWO fashion experts in this thread who are willing to go to so much trouble to show us what a fashion doofus our new first lady is?! rileysmom17-"Oooh pain...that Inauguration ball gown. If you are in the public eye it pays to dress WELL so that no one can say anything about what you wore except "good choice". Of course the problem is the definition of "well"." Speaking of definitions ("well"), have you checked out the definition of "snob" lately? I'm sure it doesn't describe anyone you know... Definition of snob- "A snob is someone who adopts the worldview of snobbery �" that some people are inherently inferior to him or her for any one of a variety of reasons, including real or supposed intellect, wealth, education, ancestry, etc. Often, the form of snobbery reflects the offending individual's socio-economic background. For example, a common snobbery of the affluent is the affectation that wealth is either the cause or result of superiority, or both, as in the case of privileged children. However, a form of snobbery can be adopted by someone not a part of that group; a pseudo-intellectual is a type of snob. Such a snob imitates the manners, adopts the worldview, and affects the lifestyle of a social class of people to which he or she aspires, but does not yet belong, and to which he or she may never belong. A snob is perceived by those being imitated as an arriviste, perhaps nouveau riche or parvenu, and the elite group closes ranks to exclude such outsiders, often by developing elaborate social codes, symbolic status and recognizable marks of language. The snobs, in response, refine their behavior model." |
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| dreamgarden - exactly. I would be ashamed to have a friend who spewed such snobby, negative commentary on someone else's choice of clothing, no matter who the person might be. Fortunately I don't have any friends who fall into the snobby category. |
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| Sephia, I absolutely agree with you. I think people think they can be brutally "honest" on the internet, throwing common courtesy out the window (monitor?). No matter what Michelle Obama wears, she is still a beautiful intelligent and accomplished woman. I felt she looked great on Inauguration Day and at the Inaugural prayer service on Wednesday. Regardless of what she's wearing, she always seems to look happy and confident and poised. |
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| Re-reading the posts here,i can't find more then 1 post that could be misconstrued as "snobby"..The original post i wrote dealt with the media hailing Michelle OBama,fashionista, as the answer for the masses,the so-called every-woman...I said she is not so, and still believe she isn't..I knw of few women who spend the $$$ she does for clothing,not less then 3 who actually own Jimmy Choo shoes.. I never criticized her as a professional,educated,mother of 2 children... |
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| I think, qdogni, that your comments could be construed as snobby. Whether you think so or not, a few of us do think so. "Don't forget about her feet allegedly hurting..But what do you expect when you walk Pennsylvannia Ave in her Jimmy Choo's!!!!!!!!! Even i know you're not suppposed to walk in Jimmy Choos,just supposed to stand there and look great in them,lol" |
RE: Michelle Obama.. affordable Fashionista?
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| She walked down Pennsylvania Ave. for 7 minutes. Not exactly a hike. |
RE: Michelle Obama.. affordable Fashionista?
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| sephia, i can assure you my comments are not snobby..Michelle is not the epitomy of the woman who dresses for work everyday,and the comment about Jimmy Choos was printed in the media..Michelle was very uncomfortable in them....AND i don't care if her clothes are made of the finest silk,handwoven in the Far East..Its NOT what she has/wears. or the cost..IT IS the liberal media portraying her as a middle class woman, and she isn't |
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| I think she dresses well. Her style reminds me of Jackie Kennedy when she was first lady. |
RE: Michelle Obama.. affordable Fashionista?
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| i think $400 for a once in a lifetime moment to be viewed by millions is just the amount an average woman would expect to spend on an outfit. i think a rich woman would expect/want to spend many thousands. whether one could afford it is another question. my 25 year old niece has a pair of $500 manolo blahniks and she is definately an everyday girl. sil was pretty upset but niece calls them her dorothy shoes- they make her dream big. most women I know shop at a variety of price points. kids at school are wearing $100 sweatshirts from abercrombie and fitch and $160 uggs. In fact now that I think about it I can say that there are middle school kids in public school wearing $400 outfits. now that blows my mind! |
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| I just wanted to say that per the numbers in my MS Money, I've spent $3,936.88 on clothes ... over the past twelve years. $400 on a single outfit? That's an average of $328.07 ... PER YEAR! But, I'm a male, and definitely not a "fashionista." Whew! |
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| Most of the fashion spreads in the magazines I see (Glamor, Cosmopolitan) aimed at the younger set have prices I would never DREAM of spending, although I am older and probably more financially stable than the normal readers of those mags. Compared to them, Michelle Obama shops on a budget! |
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| sephia-"dreamgarden - exactly. I would be ashamed to have a friend who spewed such snobby, negative commentary on someone else's choice of clothing, no matter who the person might be. Fortunately I don't have any friends who fall into the snobby category. I don't have any friends like that either. Seems that money can buy pretty much anything BUT class, hmm?! I'm looking forward to the breath of "fresh air" Michelle Obama will be bringing to D.C.. I'm sure her staff will make sure she is presentable enough for whatever functions she will be attending so she can focus on REAL issues, instead of worrying about what people think of her wardrobe..... |
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| too many people here buy the liberal media's BS..dreamgarden in particular...Michelle Obama is no closer to mainstream America then any other politician's spouse,but if you want to drink the kool-aid,feel free..My guess is the same posters also believe Tim Geithner is a good choice for Treasury Sec,lol...Now repeat after me All the liberal ladies, all the liberal ladies All the liberal ladies, all the liberal ladies All the liberal ladies, all the liberal ladies All the liberal Ladies Now put your hands up Up in the club,we just broke up...lol |
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| qdognj - frankly I'm really fascinated by why you care so much about Michelle Obama's choice of clothing or why the media is focused on it (your words). Who cares what the media thinks or reports on? Since when is the meadia always right? The media is only right if YOU believe it. Big deal what Michelle Obama wears? Aren't there more important things in life than to continue to harp on this same subject? Really, tell us why you care so much? Aren't you at all interested in what she might do for the country? Isn't that more important than her attire or what the media says about it? I think her choice of attire is small potatoes compared to everything else going on in the country/world. |
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| What SHE is going to do for the country? Sephia,i hope you misspoke here, because it is what her husband is going to do,not her...And that is why i find the media's fascination with her being "mainstream"so unimportant,pushing aside the fact she is NOT mainstream..You are harping on the mistaken belief i care about what she wears,but i don't...sheez,READ the posts and follow-ups... |
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| from q: "...For the record, i am an independent ;)" Yeah, right... Free press, by definition, must be liberal; how can strictly conservative press be more free or accurate? YOU must decide if what you read is correct. That what an Independent (thinker) does. I also don't know any independents who rant "liberal" either - just crestfallen Neocons... As for MO, what Sephia said. She could blow a bunch on foo foo duds, but she is more CONSERVATIVE with her pocketbook. That is one thing she can do for our contry - teach us how to be more CONSERVATIVE... |
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| absolutely independent,though if i had to place myself in the "political spectrum" it would be "centrist"... And she can TEACH you how to be more conservative? You can't possibly be serious..I can't imagine anyone who is not frugal/conservative waking up and saying" Michelle Obama is my kind of gal,she is SOOOO conservative,that today,i am going to follow her example" |
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| qdog-"You are harping on the mistaken belief i care about what she wears,but i don't...sheez,READ the posts and follow-ups..." You DON'T care what Michelle Obama wears? Could have fooled me... I guess that explains why you started a post about her that focused on everything BUT her wardrobe? ;) |
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| dreamer, let me spell it out for you, as you apparently read what you want to..follow carefully now IT IS the M-E-D-I-A portrayal of her as the "average Amercian woman" which the post is about,but perhaps you don't understand that...please try and read content of posts,not words which fits your agenda... |
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| Sheesh...More chatter about Michelle's attire can be found Here...WHAT is she wearing....????? at Hot Topics. (?) Seems there are some who liked it and others who disliked it and tore her choice of attire to shreds for different reasons. |
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| qdognj - "Sephia,i hope you misspoke here, because it is what her husband is going to do, not her." No, I didn't misspeak. I'm not going to do your homework for you. Just do a Google search on First Ladies and you can find for yourself the contributions that First Ladies make. Of course the "husbands" make the decisions for the country (duh!), but First Ladies have a conservative role that they play. For example - do a Google search on Lady Bird Johnson and check out all that she did for the environment. You should do some research yourself before spouting off inaccurate statements. |
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| "dreamer, let me spell it out for you" qdog-Let me to spell it out for YOU dear!!! It wasn't the M-E-D-I-A that posted the thread, it was YOU. It WAS about CLOTHING, not Michelle Obama's other attributes. lol. |
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Just watched a segment on NBC Nightly News with Brian Williams..It was about how Michelle Obama is "an everyday" woman,as her clothing is for the masses,not the "rich"..It then showed her on Leno and was wearing an outfit that she proudly said was from J Crew and only cost 400 bucks!!! Yep,for the masses alright,lol...Then she was shown on the View with another outfit and was proud to say it was affordable ,from BlackMarket/White House? and was only several hundred,!!!! I know many professional women,who have a few of those "affordable" priced outfits,but not a new one for everyday, and i know these are not priced for the "masses",unless you can find them at Walmart oh, brother,Dreamgarden,the GIST of the post is the clothes are NOT mainstream for MOST American women,but the MEDIA portrays it such...I'll bet the average "mainstream"female employee can't afford the wardrobe Michelle has,not even close..But the mainstream media is so liberal,that it does so to foward its agenda,whether thats good or bad is your choice :) |
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| Q, what is your beef?? So MO's PR people did an excellent job of portraying MO as "mainstream" and accessible to many women. No, maybe not everyone - or relatively few - can afford to spend $400 on an outfit but that's not the point. The point of the PR is that 1) her clothes are accessible - this is probably the more important point than their cost - she buys clothes in stores ordinary, non-wealthy people can shop and easily find something to buy and 2) her clothes are relatively affordable - I would say none of the women reading this gasped at the cost, like I did when prices were quoted for Mrs. Reagan's Galano outfits or Mrs. Cain's outfits or even Mrs Palin's Valentino jacket (anything having a comma in the price). It isn't surprising that MO's people are sketching a woman who is more like "everywoman" than not. I would say, Laura Bush's people did the same very successfully. They played up Mrs. Bush's profession as a librarian even though relatively few women have their MLS required to be a librarian. But the profession is not high-powered and it is very visible so that made Mrs. Bush, the wife of a multi-millionaire, more "mainstream". All this is probably in response to the missteps of previous first ladies. Mrs. Clinton and Mrs. Reagan come immediately to mind. Mrs. Clinton, a Yale law school graduate, came across as an arrogant wannabe co-president who practically sneered at SAHMs (I'm thinking about the unfortunate cookie remark) while Mrs. Reagan seemed aloof and detached from most people. I think Mrs Reagan was going for a more regal image but this fell flat when she kept wearing very expensive clothes during a deep recession - consulting with an astrologer didn't help either. Mrs. Obama has much in common with both Mrs. Clinton and Mrs. Reagan, so she took steps to avoid their mis-steps. While Mrs. Obama is, like Mrs. Clinton, an Ivy-League trained lawyer who has her own career, she comes across much more like a stylish working (albeit very successful) mother. So, instead of ranting about the "liberal media" (didn't see these words in your original post), you should be congratulating the Obama team for successfully constructing Mrs. Obama's public image. Disclaimer: I have never spent $400 on an outfit at one time. BUT, I may have spent on separate occasions $150 on a dress, $100 on a pair of shoes, and $50 on jewelry and other accessories. Throw in a jacket ($75-$100)and voila, I have a $400 outfit. |
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| no beef, and i think you made a great point in your post,but "constructing Mrs Obama's image" is why i dislike the media... |
RE: Michelle Obama.. affordable Fashionista?
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| I am more concerned about the use of publicists rather than the media. The media can only report or comment on what they know and more and more they are being manipulated as much as the general public. It happens to both sides - liberal and conservative. Sometimes you need to read the foreign media to figure what's going on in the US. |
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| Correct about both sides-liberal and conservative,but i question whether they are being manipulated or are manipulating the publicists,lol |
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