Anymac -- with all due respect, I like painted brick homes and I also like the whitewash/antiqued look (mainly on older homes that need a facelift). Your home appears relatively new (and beautiful) and the brick seems pristine. If the Trim/Pillars are bothering you -- why change 95% of the house? Just saying. I'd keep the brick natural (it shows off the keystones over each window) and I would just mute the brightness of the trim if that is what is bothering you. Just an alternative thought for you to consider. I agree with this. If you paint the brick( a huge mistake IMO) there is no going back .Plus you have lost countless $$ in re sale value.

I vote 3. Beds in corners are hard to make. You should be able to walk comfortably around it. Most people will want a queen size bed. If planning an air b&b you really need a few things. 2 night tables with lamps. A desk can double as a bedside table. I hate places with only one since both my husband and I wear glasses it's nice to have a place to put them without asking a spouse to put them on a table for you. Supply a handy place to put a suitcase and a chair or bench. Travelers will live out of their suitcase. Giving them space in a closet and small drawer space though. A dresser just takes up room. This my guest room.

I use a lazy susan from Rubber Maid purchased back in the Pleistocene era that I keep in a cabinet away from the stove. Certain things are kept in the refrigerator. Everything is dated when purchased, and every 2 years I go through it all and through out what is old, unless I taste it and it tastes good. I do love to save those little bottles. They are great for making your own spice blends, sorting buttons of different colors, screws of different sizes, making your own spice blends. My mother used to keep her spare buttons in beautiful cake tins. Remember when people gave you gifts of cake in beautiful colored aluminum cake tins or beautiful boxes that looked like hat boxes? Well, they were our repository for buttons. It made it a treat to hunt down that special button for mom. Too bad those days are gone! The tiny jars from jam samples are good for storing those tiny quantities of saffron that might come in a cellophane packet. Or craft supplies. Who said recycling is a new thing?

Neither to tell you the truth. Thought you might find the link below helpful https://www.ballarddesigns.com/howtodecorate/2019/03/choose-right-lamp-shade/ My daughter in law has similar lamps in their bedroom and it’s been hard to find the right shades at a decent price. She’s still trying to find the perfect ones.