Return to the Entertaining Forum | Post a Follow-Up

Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

Posted by bbgirl66 (My Page) on
Wed, Dec 8, 04 at 9:28

Since moving to New England from Chicago I have been invited to 3 holiday open houses. I had never been to one in Chicago nor heard of one so not sure if it's a New England thing or just coincidence. One of my invites has an RSVP while the others do not. One is on a Sunday afternoon and hosted by three families, however, only taking place at the home of the person I do know. I do not know the other two families. The others are Saturday evening open houses and do not require RSVP.

So do I bring food? Flowers? Gifts for the kids? For the one with three hosting parties do I bring hostess gifts for all three? Hostess gift ideas for someone I don't know very well?

TIA for your help!

Follow-Up Postings:

RE: Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

A hostess gift is always nice but not open house means come and go as you wish.....but don't stay for the whole time on the invitation.
The fact that there are 3 couples on one invitation indicates that it will be a BIG party...perhaps trying to fulfill all obligations at once.
It is always obligatory to respond to any invitation....RSVP or not....just good manners!
I would take a small gift to the people I knew....but not to the one with 3 people hosting....and remember to write a nice note to the 3 hosts.
Linda C

RE: Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

An open house is the kind of a party people usually have if they're inviting a lot of people -- too many to fit in the house all at once. The idea is for folks to come and go to sort of spread out the guest list over several hours, thus avoiding overcrowding and giving the host/hostess more opportunity to visit with more of their guests.

I would agree with everything Linda said. As for bringing food, I'd probably ask the hostess what I could bring. I just do this as sort of standard procedure to any party I'm invited to anyway. That way, if the party is being catered and the hostess has everything set just so, she can say don't bring anything.

On the other hand, you won't show up with no food to a party where everyone else brings something. I've had that happen to me -- everyone else knew to bring something since it was an annual party they had attended before, we weren't asked to and didn't know since it was our first time!

RE: Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

Wine or a seasonal flowering plant is nice when you're not sure about the food. I like to take bulbs like paperwhite narcissus or amaryllis just ready to flower. They're inexpensive enough, easy to dress up, you don't have to do any cooking and no one has to eat them!!

RE: Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

And the flowering bulbs....they bloom and die and you can throw them away!!
I like to give "disposables" wine, flowers, very nice paper napkins, candy, nuts etc.
Linda C

 o Post a Follow-Up

Please Note: Only registered members are able to post messages to this forum.

    If you are a member, please log in.

    If you aren't yet a member, join now!

Return to the Entertaining Forum

Information about Posting

  • You must be logged in to post a message. Once you are logged in, a posting window will appear at the bottom of the messages. If you are not a member, please register for an account.
  • Please review our Rules of Play before posting.
  • Posting is a two-step process. Once you have composed your message, you will be taken to the preview page. You will then have a chance to review your post, make changes and upload photos.
  • After posting your message, you may need to refresh the forum page in order to see it.
  • Before posting copyrighted material, please read about Copyright and Fair Use.
  • We have a strict no-advertising policy!
  • If you would like to practice posting or uploading photos, please visit our Test forum.
  • If you need assistance, please Contact Us and we will be happy to help.

Learn more about in-text links on this page here