Well -- let's see:

Option 2 has the saber legs -- which work well with the existing table -- BUT the color and heft of the legs does NOT work well with the table .... PLUS saber-styled legs do take up more floor space too ....

Option 3 does have modern clean lines and the legs -- while straight -- do seem to be a closer match to the table color ....

Perhaps consider looking around Overstock and see if there is a chair with a stained leg that come a bit closer to the color of the table ..... ?

I like all of the options you gave for chairs. What about staining the table to match them?

Are you planning on using your existing four chairs and getting new ones for the ends of the table?

I'd keep an eye on CL. You can get some great deals there at a fraction of the cost for new.

I love number two, they have a little flare on the leg which echos the table and the size is just right. They go well with your other chairs too and would also serve well in another room. I'd go with that.

hey there,
Thanks to all for your help. I ended up ordering the nimes putty gray from Overstock. Keeping fingers crossed that they aren't too dainty or cheap. Yayagal, I am having buyers remorse now that you chimed in on the option 2... although I really wasn't sure if you all saw the first 2 options from french country without the embedded photos. I'll let you know how it all turns out.
Thanks again!

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