Melissa gave a GREAT list above. I would start with that.

I do like Chico's. I would take Melissa's list, get your basics, then Chico's is a great place to add a funky blazer, sweater, accessories, etc. Stylish clothes that are not boring.

I love black also. I can't even think how many pairs of black pants/capris/shorts/skirts I have. Black is always fashionable. You don't have to "look like death" or be washed out by black. There's no reason you have to wear black up near your face. My favorite colors are bright colors (I wear a ton of pink and turquoise shades, for instance) and mix those with black separates (along with others).

I do not wear much navy because for some reason I think of it as "old lady-ish" even though it would be a good neutral. I actually recently bought a pair of slim legged (not skinny!) ankle pants. I think I will get a good bit of wear out of them this spring/summer.

I work on a college campus so clothing is business casual and you see a little bit of everything around her. I, personally, would never wear a "blazer" or matched suit. Well I take that back. I do actually have a dressy kind of pants suit that is black. It is not your normal blazer style though. I like funky jackets in bright solids or prints, or even denim. Scarves are great and will help stretch your wardrobe. Same with necklaces.

I love cardigans but I don't do a matched twin set. There are all kinds of cardigans out there now - not just the classic version. Lands End has some great floral and print ones out for spring. Steinmart had several floral and solid cardigans earlier this week.

A couple of outfits I have bought pieces for recently that may help you:

-slim black ankle pants with a light-weight shirt styled tunic (3/4 sleeves) - accessorized with a black/white striped infinity scarf

-A similar look with the above mentioned navy ankle pants - a white linen tunic. I found a great scarf this week at Steinmart - gauzy fabric with teal/aqua/kind of a gold shade/navy and touches of white.

-Khaki, white or black cropped pants (still a straight leg but a bit fuller than the slim pants) worn with a floral cardigan. Depending on the weather, I wear a fitted shirt with the tails out or if it's warmer, a tank under the cardigan. Add a great necklace.

Hope this helps!

tina

Perhaps the Vivienne Files was the link you were thinking of...she lays out a nice basic wardrobe and shows how you can add just a few pieces and get scads of outfits out of it. It's all very practical. A lot of her wardrobes are also for travel so you can find the minimum pieces for the maximum looks. I'm linking to one post that was specific to using wardrobe basics, but there are lots of great ideas if you scroll through the entire blog.

Here is a link that might be useful: Vivienne Files

Here's another post where she's demonstrating a business wardrobe for 2 weeks of travel...a little old on styles, but the pieces and parts still work. You could always replace a skirt with a pair of pants if you don't want to do skirts....

Here is a link that might be useful: Business wardrobe

Re high waisted pants, if you look at trousers instead of the more casual pants/khakis/jeans, you may find that they sit higher on the waist and may be more comfortable.

For shopping, if you are anywhere near outlets, you might want to go as you can find very good bargains in decent stores where the color ways tend to run through the store so you can do the mix and match thing like at Ann Taylor or Calvin Klein. I also find a lot of stuff at Macy's and do well when they have their sales and coupons.

You have not idea how much you guys are helping me! I just went to my closet, through out some things. Sorted into groups. I made a list from this thread and then checked the closet. Made a shopping list from there. Plan to go out shopping tonight.

Shoes will be an issue. Right now I do have a pair of black and brown that are hardly worn and black boots I can wear for a while.

The weather is an issue. While its spring it is still very cold here and tonight we are getting snow. Once the warm weather does come I will need to adjust the wardrobe again. Changing slacks to capris/cropped maybe? Shoes will then be a real issue. I've been wearing flipflops in the summer for years now, even to church and in the office. I wear an 11 narrow so finding shoes is problem.

Annie that is exactly what I was thinking of. I remember reading it briefly and thinking I need to read this again and take notes. Thank you for finding it for me.

I work in a business casual environment --one where it depends where you work how much it leans towards business or casual. My boss wears a tie/jacket and his boss (the CEO) wears jeans.

I wear pants always.. either trouser jeans or dress pants-- and I pair them with cardigans and jackets.

I like how talbots pants fit me so I don't stray from them very often. It's easy shopping. Black, navy and tan.. full length and ankle length. I love linen but I dont wear it in the office because it looks terrible as soon as I get out of the car.

Love twin sets and they can also be dressed up and down with jewelry, scarves and belts. It's a conservative look but it always looks neat and put together.. and like I said, you can have fun with the accoutrements. They also wash and wear with little worry or hassle.

Love cardigans but I am more likely to wear a jacket in this role. They are comfortable and easy to take on and off when in meetings that are formal/relaxed. I am never caught feeling under or over dressed. My favorite style jacket is a jewel neck. It's also really flexible. You can dress them up or down... wear with a silky shell, a sweater shell (love Talbots charming shell) or a dressier tshirt. I have multiple colors, materials and textures that i can rotate through the rest of my wardrobe. A lot of mine are Jones NY, Talbots and Ralph Lauren.. not too expensive and downright steals when on sale.

If you like chicos, check out JJill's wearever line. It's not a style I wear but they both have great sales so you can extend your wardrobe as you find deals.

I regularly check Talbots, Ralph Lauren, Bloomingdales, Nordstrom and Neiman Marcus for their deep discount sales.

Good luck and congrats on the new job opportunities!!

You have gotten some great advice. Over the years, I have switched from Talbots suits to Chicos more casual, based on less formal workplace requirements. The Chicos ladies are usually awesome and love putting outfits together for you. Be sure to sign up for their frequent buyer program. Have also found that different Chicos have different merchandise, so if you have the option, shop the different stores in your area. Anymore, I only buy from their sale rack, with an additional discount.

Clarks shoes offer a number of styles in 11N, may have to order online, but well worth that route if you find something that fits and is comfy. Shoebuy, Zappos, clarksusa.com all offer free shipping both ways.

Start with the minimum to get you through the first week and take it from there. Keep that "other" job in mind as you build the new wardrobe piece by piece.

Lastly, congrats on one, and possibly two new jobs!

I had several pairs of these pants from Soft Surroundings that I wore to work until I absolutely wore them out. They are very comfortable and easy to dress up or down depending on what blouse you wear with them. It feels like wearing pajamas. I had mine dry cleaned because my clothes seem to last longer that way than washing.

I also have several different colors of long skirts (almost to my ankles) that I wear now almost every day. I buy skirts in a soft fabric with an elastic waist for comfort and I make sure they go almost to my ankles so I don't have to wear hose. I don't like my legs to show. I just checked and they are almost sold out and don't have the basic black and brown colors anymore (QVC - http://www.qvc.com/George-Simonton-Stretch-Knit-6-Gore-Skirt-Search-Results.product.A70079.html?sc=A70079-SRCH&cm_sp=VIEWPOSITION-_-21-_-A70079&catentryImage=http://images-p.qvc.com/is/image/a/79/a70079.001?$uslarge$).

Then I just mix and match tops and get my color from blouses instead of pants/skirts.

Here is a link that might be useful: Soft Surroundings Silk Pants

When I was working, though we were business casual, capris were a no- no, as were flip flops. They drew a bright line between casual and beach or weekend wear. Not to mention the noisy flip flop disturbed co workers when the wearer walked by.

Yes, capris may be a no-no except on the super casual days. But ankle pants are probably OK for business casual in the summer...if you've got the body-type to pull them off.

In terms of shoes, I've found a number of ballet-flat type shoes that are comfortable for all day and yet look grown-up enough for business casual attire. Alternatively, I look for sandals with a medium high, but chunky heel and enough substance to support my arch and stay on my feet, yet look dressed up and grown-up enough for the office in summer. In winter, I rotate between medium heeled pumps and chunky-heeled boots with skirts and comfortable, but sleek booties with pants.

On stores...don't know where you are, but here's my take on shopping:

Chico's is great for accessories, especially when they are on sale. I love their no-iron blouses and they often have quite nice slacks. I find most of their tops to smack too much of the "cougar" however. At a certain age, I swore off reptile prints and shiny "embellishments".

Coldwater Creek is a hit-or-miss operation. Some stuff is well-priced, especially on sale, and decently made. Other stuff is pure junk. Their no-iron blouses...not the print ones, but the plain cotton...are fab. Their ponte fabric stuff is usually good quality, if boring. It's worth trolling their online outlet, especially when there's additional discount You get can great bargains on year-ago stuff that still looks very "in" for $10-$20.

J.Jill seems to be the least likely to mark-down sharply, but their quality is pretty consistently good. Styles run to the larger, floatier types. Particularly good for linen and other "soft" styles...somewhat like Soft Surroundings, but less costly and plainer.

Macy's is hands down the best mid-priced dept. store , largely because it ALWAYS has stuff on sale.

Talbots is a bit costier than most of the others and rarely marks way down. It's also still "preppier" and more conservative than the others mentioned above, but the quality is higher and often well worth it on things like classic slacks and jackets.

FWIW...

I hope it's not too late to offer this shopping advice:
Wear things that are easy off & on to making the fitting room easier
Bring a bottle of water - this is crucial!
Don't go when hungry, bring a protein snack (almonds, a protein bar) in case hunger strikes while shopping
Keep an open mind, try a few things on that are new or different. Sometimes it's good to step outside your comfort zone.

Remember that you don't need to buy a full wardrobe this weekend. Buy at least enough to get you through a week to two and then you can see how your co-workers dress and adjust accordingly in you next trip.

Good luck.

Do you have a Kohl's ? They have a nice selection of different styles and tend to group things together that coordinate. Plus, the store isn't huge so a non shopper can take it all in without being overwhelmed. The quality is hit or miss but the same could be said for some of the nicer stores.

The Chaps/Ralph Lauren section of Kohl's would be a good place to start for a jeans and t shirt person.

I'm going to Kohls tonight! I have a 30% off coupon and you get $10 for future purchases with every $50 you spend. Yes Kohls is hit or miss.

Shopping on a full stomach and will wear sweatpants which is my usual attire. Might call a friend who is a regular Kohls shopper to see if she wants to tag along.

I'll have to check on the capri situation before I buy any. Funny about the flipflops. Where I was working not only did everyone wear them, no one could here the clip clip because they all had earbuds in listening to their Ipods.

I really can't thank you all enough. I've been having a very stressful time with all kinds of stuff happening, cars being totaled (no one hurt) other cars breaking down, dealing with a 17 and 20 yr old and all their issues, and this whole job situation. DH doesn't understand why I am so stressed. I haven't worked in 6 months and haven't worked in an actual office in 2 1/2 years. So a little nervous.

Feel free to keep posting ideas because this will have to evolve over time.

A lot of good advice here. I, too, am most comfortable in jeans and work in a business casual place (where jeans are not allowed). Ultimately you have to buy/wear what you feel comfortable in but I would skip the twin sets and blazers. Blah. Look for interesting sweaters, tops and jackets instead. Also skip the capris unless all the other women at work wear them. I think they are too casual and it's rare to see them where I work. Pants year round.

I second (or third) the Clarks shoes recommendation. I don't second the Lands End recommendations. Their quality went to hell after the Sears/K-Mart takeover. Dockers are a better value for pants. You might want to check out LL Bean because they have a lot of different pant styles/waist-line options.

I hate shopping too but you just have to bite the bullet and try on many, many things to find the clothes that fit and suit you. Good luck with the shopping. And the new job!

Sorry to disagree with you dk, but the drawstring pants look like PJs and IMHO are not business casual. Long skirts too, to me, look unprofessional, unless they are very formal fabrics or formally cut, like with a matching suit jacket. (Where I worked, you need to look like a 'go getter' and it was hard to do that with all the fabric flapping around your ankles.)

Look at Ann Taylor and (Ann Taylor) Loft. Loft is more casual but you might be able to find blouses and tops too.

I'm a petite and there is a small selection out there. Once you figure out your size, shopping on line can be very efficient.

If you are near a Nordstroms, I think they offer personal shopping service.
When my niece was starting work and needed a corporate wardrobe, she hired a personal shopper And said it was money well spent. The PS was able to out together outfits and some were things my niece would not have even looked at.

Pants for me are also the most difficult. When I find something that works, I get two more. I call it the power of three: one on, one in the closet and one in the wash (or dry cleaners)

You won't be able to find a whole wardrobe at once. You might need to go every few weeks as new merchandise is coming in,
Pay attention to your coworkers. You can learn a lot by observing women who have style.

I too agree to hold off in blazers and suits. I am not a blazer person. When I did own them, I wore them as a jacket that I would take off inside.
I prefer sweater sets.

I know that this is stressful for you right now, but I hope you can begin to have fun with your wardrobe. It's nice to look well dressed and in fashion.

This post was edited by ellendi on Fri, Mar 28, 14 at 20:55

Debra I often read your post and think we are sisters separated at birth.
I think a lot depends on your industry and your company. I returned to work a year ago for a company that I left(but consulted for off and on for the intervening 10+ years).
It is fortune 500, business casual - jeans on Friday, financial services, IT.
I mostly work at home so I am dressed from the chest up for web conferencing. I travel not infrequently. The way you feel, is the way I felt the first three times.
My stores are J Jill and JC Penny's(because the sell Liz Clairborne). I am late 40's, high waisted, big hipped, size 12. I hate shopping. I love the Liz Clairborne Sophie pant, It is SOOOOO comfortable and makes me look GREAT even when my day starts at 7:30Am and ends at 10PM.
Short sleeve sweater, trousers, nice shoes, necklace- I am done. 2 pairs of pants one pair of jeans 5 short sleeve sweaters, awesome sandals and workout gear has taken me to Brazil and back for a week. KISS
Good Luck

Lots of good advice here, especially keeping in mind that you don't need to shop for a long window of time; perhaps only a few weeks. I didn't see anyone suggest a consignment store. We have several locally which all have a LOT of business casual clothing in very good condition. It may be nice option as you begin this new work experience.

debrak - I was rereading the posts and I wanted to say that I have a 20 yo and a 17 yo and I completely sympathize. I swear, the driving teenager stage is worst stage of parenting.

Hope your shopping went well last night.

Here are the results of my shopping trip to Kohls.

$88 which includes sales tax. Plus I got $10 in Kohls bucks for a future purchase. What do you think? The gray pants I like but the color is funny, bluish gray? The grayish sweater is a no button cardigan.

I was very surprise to find those pants fit. I need to fit some short sleeve shells. I don't like sleeveless.

No shopping today except maybe car shopping for DD, ugh. Tomorrow I will venture to the mall with my list.

Thanks for the tip on consignment stores. I live in a fairly well to do area (we are not one of them, LOL) and there are a lot of professional women. I should check out some of those stores.

This post was edited by debrak2008 on Sat, Mar 29, 14 at 10:42

Looks like a good start.

Now that you know what brand and size you are, look on Kohls.com to order more pants in colors not carried in the store. I am tall and find many pants this way. Shipping is usually free over some $ amount. Order extras if needed to get over the limit. You might keep them. ; )

What is weird about those pants are they are both Dana Buckman but I had to get two different sizes. They have a slightly different style. One good thing though is if I order on line and they don't fit I can easily return them at our local Kohls.

Nice job, Debra! you're well on your way!

I really like those steely blue gray pants.. they'll go with lots but I admit, I'd wear them with natural or white.. boring, I know. i tend to stick to white, black and natural tops and then bring in color in jackets and scarves.

Good luck with car and mall shopping! Best wishes for your first day!

Nice!

Nice selection. I am late weighing in but will offer that I agree with most of what has been said. I am tall and prefer a more fitted, tailored look for business casual. Especially in pants. I too like a higher rise and have found Ann Taylor has the best fit for me. There are several cuts offered and I can't remember which one it is (signature I think) but check out their sale rack next time you are around the mall. Their sales people can really help you. The overall length is also longer too. Talbots is just too baggy thru the seat and thigh for me. Do not like Lands End at all. Chico's is also too baggy for me. I sometimes have good luck at White House/black market and find good tops on sale there. Otherwise, I find things at local shops/boutiques. And I take a lot of my stuff to a consignment store. It could be a great place to look for some jackets, pants, or odd pieces to fill in.

I do wear skirts occasionally as I like to wear tights and boots in winter. In summer I sometimes do the same with a dress or skirt but because our office is often cool, I must have a sweater or jacket.

Very nice choices! You might look for a scarf or two when you go to the thrift shop. Scarves IMO add a great deal to a classic look.

Not sure if this is what you are looking for, but this a blog I came across a few months ago and I really enjoy it, even though I don't need any clothes! (Nowhere to go!)

The "one suitcase series" is my favorite, because she shows how to make many, many outfits out of a few, select pieces. It's amazing how just a simple change of gives a whole new look. Even if the outfits aren't your taste, it gives you ideas of how to mix/match. She also goes over how she builds each wardrobe in detail.

Example:

Here is a link that might be useful: Outfit Posts

You lucked up at Kohls. I rarely shop there because ours seems to have clothing a bit on the matronly side! They do have a good lingerie department and I know many who find children's clothing there.

As for Lands End, I stand by that for some items. As someone mentioned, there has been a drop in quality - in some items. I never had much luck with their pants - just didn't fit me right, but I have heard many complaints on those lately. I have had great luck still in sweaters and shirts. I think some of their knit items are not as good quality fabric anymore. I used to love their v-neck short sleeve tees. The last ones I bought did not hold up as well. I always order on line and read the reviews on an item before purchasing. You can often get free shipping and items can be returned to a Sears store, so I'm not out anything if I need to return. I'm on their mailing list and get discount codes often.

Love the board Anele posted!

tina

That one suitcase thing is neat except the pieces don't match....I guess you just have to judge which piece is supposed to be which....that brown pebble skirt doesn't show up anywhere, the gray slacks look like they are actually navy jeans, the black and white check jumper is really a halter dress....

Here's another blog on wardrobe building from scratch ...I'm linking to the shopping list part, but the rest of the blog on wardrobe building looks like it's got some good advice....

Here is a link that might be useful: Shopping list

Matching is way out Annie, (it's matronly and in some places, lower class) Sorry :-) It's also a bit complicated.

You're right, Annie! Hmm. I don't think she normally makes those errors. I will have to find a better example from her site--normally the pieces are actually used in the outfits themselves. Strange.

Today I went to the mall to look specifically for short sleeved shells in basic colors. None at JCP and I even asked. I did get a pair of light weight brown boots and a gray/blackish scarf....both of a total of $20. No clue how to use the scarf but will work on it!

Went into Christopher Banks. Never been in the store before (I always thought it looked snobby, LOL). Anyway they had some great long and short sleeve shells for only $12.

This is the most clothes shopping I've done in years!

Here's a video...25 ways to tie a scarf....very helpful.

Here is a link that might be useful: how to tie a scarf

Here's another wardrobe builder from banana republic and lucky magazine.

Here is a link that might be useful: 13 lucky pieces

A colorful handbag, in tangerine or yellow for instance, would like nice with your choices.

Good luck on your new job!

I believe Old Navy has a scarf tying video on their site also. You can google and find many.

I'm not sure what you are calling "shells", but I would add some short-sleeve tees and also some tanks or sleeveless tees in bright colors - or even pastels. I have a ton of tanks that I wear under pieces.

Shells are typically sleeveless slip on blouses...usually they have a button in the back at the neck....broader shoulders than say a tank top....

What I called shells are plain tops, like tshirts but nicer??? if that makes sense. If you wear anything sleeveless you must wear a blazer or sweater.

The first day went OK. Capris are OK if below the knee. Flipflops are OK on fridays and weekends. Wednesday and Thursday you can wear jeans if you pay a dollar for charity BUT you still have to be business casual. I guess your top half is business casual but your bottom is jeans. No ripped jeans ever.

Shoes was not really discussed during our orientation so I have to ask about summer shoes. Like flat sandals that are not flipflops.

Almost 18 DD paid me a compliment and she didn't even know it. Those shoe/boots I told you about (not sure what to call them). When I showed her, she tried them on. Said they didn't look that great on her. That's as close to a "I like what you picked out Mom" as I'm going to get, LOL.

Sounds like your work environment is more casual than you thought!

It's surprising how casual businesses have gone.. it varies by industry and region but in general the standards have dropped multiple pegs since I started my career.

If I am not in meetings, I often wear *nice* jeans and a jacket. I don't think of it as casual on the bottom and business on top.. I think trouser jeans can be a sharp look.

Shells are a big part of my wardrobe. To me a shell is a sleeveless sweater or shirt-- wide shoulders, conservative arm holes that look nice under a jacket or sweater without adding sleeve bumps or an extra layer. You could take off your jacket without looking like you walked in from a run or the beach. I don't like the ones that button in the back .. I prefer the "dressy tee" style.

I love the Talbots charming shell. It's lightweight, lays nicely and washes well. I watch for their 40% off sale and load up on them.

But there's always the career advice....dress for the job you want, not the job you have. A buddy of mine, despite business casual, wore a tie to a work dinner party. Wouldn't you know, the SVP present asked him to join her at her table!

Thanks Funky. I have some shells then! I think I mentioned sleeveless tees - or whatever you would call them! I'll have to check those out at Talbot's. I don't like those tops either that button. A bit older looking.

Thankfully, I am quite happy where I am and prefer to dress for the job I have. Of course, we have a casual atmosphere. I'd feel funny going to work overdressed! LOL

This sign is going in my cubicle once I get assigned to one.

And you would look funny going to work overdressed. The old advice about dressing for the job you want is not universally accurate. My boss came to our company and refused to wear a tie except for important meetings. Most of the men wore ties at that time - it was part of the company culture. Polo shirts in summer, button downs in winter was his style. He became a VP in less than five years. Because of his abilities. Very few of the men wear ties daily now. Isn't it nice to know that talent can outshine "norms"?

Then there is the scientific evidence that wearing a bathing suit lowers your IQ....so what you wear does affect your performance....

Today (day 3) I sent a suggestion to HR.

I suggested we all pay $15 per month to be able to wear jeans everyday except if an important customer was visiting. I will let you know what happens.

I will say that taking all your suggestions and buying some new clothes is really helping me feel more confident!