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Tough news today

Posted by pesky1 (My Page) on
Wed, Jan 8, 14 at 2:21

We were told that a dear co-worker-who was recently promoted to manager of our division-has horrible news. His wife has less than a week to live. Apparently the diagnosis was unexpected.

We're all taken aback, they have 3 younger daughters (early high school age). For some reason, it just seems so much harder to deal with a man who will lose his wife than a woman who will lose her husband. I can't explain it-I have friends that are widows-many were very young and/or had young kids when their husbands died. It's a tragedy, to be sure, but to hear of a wife dying young- or maybe it's that it's in our peer group-she's just two years older than me-that is what is difficult.

In any event, if you could please send some positive energy to KJ and his family, I'd sure appreciate that. This is a really crummy way to start out 2014.


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Such a tragedy for a young family to have to deal with. I lost my first husband in an automobile accident at 26, with 3 little ones to raise. Somehow I got thru it, but in all honesty, it took years.

How could they determine it's exactly a week? Usually there's a time frame, 1-5 weeks, 2-3 months, but to be so precise stymies me. It would almost be better if the family didn't know.

My sincerest condolences, pesky.


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I'm so sorry to hear this and I will definitely send some comfort and courage energy their way. So heart breaking for the family....


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such a hard situation. sending prayers


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Praying for them, so very heartbreaking.


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So very sad.....everyone can relate because we all know or know of someone who lost a loved one unexpectedly with young kids to raise. I hope she is not in any pain....


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Oh how awful for that family. I hope he has been an involved father now that he will be the sole parent. Does he have other family around to help him? I think I can't even imagine my XH being in that position. He was fairly clueless about the kids lives.


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Sending positive energy to you and your friend pesky.


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So sorry to hear about this. Unimaginable grief for this little family. I too hope that the family has a strong support system in place. Also sorry to hear about your own earlier tragedy, patty_cakes.


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So sorry to hear. I will keep the family in my thoughts.


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Pesky, I am so sorry for the member of your work family. It is so sad. I wish them strength and comfort.


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Oh how awful for that family. I hope he has been an involved father now that he will be the sole parent. Does he have other family around to help him? I think I can't even imagine my XH being in that position. He was fairly clueless about the kids lives.


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So sorry. I will keep this family in prayer.


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I am praying for them. that is heartbreaking.

Nancy


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