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This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Posted by susie_que (My Page) on
Mon, Nov 23, 09 at 14:46

I feel like I've been sucker punched.

Except for maybe the newbies, most everyone else has heard me talk about our good friend Dan.
Dan is Franks best friend so this is very hard for him.

Dan is very sick.

He has always had issues with his legs for oh as long as I've known him but you see he tips the scales at over 350 lbs so with the extra weight comes those issues.

He had some sort of growth-cyst removed several weeks ago in the hospital. The short story is infection set in which lead to a staph infection which lead to phuemonia in both lungs which lead to the breakdown of his kidneys and he has slipped into a coma.
The doctors are trying to contain the infection all the while get his kidneys to work.
His one lung collapsed and he remains in a coma.

Its so bizzare because Dan helped us move just a few weeks ago and he was looking great!! Laughing and joking and always there to lend a hand no matter what...and now he is like this.

A little back story....Dan lived acrossed the street from us in Philly. He sold his house after his divorce and got custody of his 2 young boys and moved in with his folks to help them and to save for a decent place for him and his kids.
His oldest and Andrew are also best friends.

Dan and the boys along with Frank and Drew would go to all sort of sporting events together and we would often vacation together.

You know the damnest thing is we were supposed to get together this past weekend to celebrate Drews birthday.

The doctors have told Dans folks they cannot give them any conclusions other that to wait and see if he wakes up.

Kuddos to my dear SIL who works at this hospital in the caf as she has been going and checking on Dan and giving us updates...I really do not want to go as they have him one of the rooms (ICU)where my dad was and I just can't handle that right now so Frank goes and he told Dan I would see him when he gets to a regular room.

So please send some healing thoughts or prayers to Philly for our buddy and his kids!!

Thanks
Susie


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Oh my gosh. So sorry to hear this. Sending good thoughts to Dan and to you!


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Sure Susie, I know the power of the Kitchen forum, so I'm sending healing thoughts Dan's way, along with a little prayer. When I asked for the same for Luna (my golden retriever), it was very comforting. The forum's healing power is still working for her this day, so the least I can do is send some of the same in your direction!


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Susie, you know that Dan will be in my prayers, hoping for a quick and complete recovery.

Annie


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Susie,Sending all of you prayers and good thoughts! I am so sorry!
Gina


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Dan has been added to my prayer list...
Linda C


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Ack. Hoping for the best.


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Oh Susie, I am so sorry to hear this. I am sending my very best thoughts to Dan and to his good friends.


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Lots of healing vibes headed towards Philly......hope things start to improve quickly.

janet


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I'm so sorry to hear this. I do remember you talked about Dan years ago. Hoping for the best.


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Dan is in my my prayers. You and and Frank are also in my prayers.


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Susie, tons of healing power coming from me.


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Good healing thoughts coming your way.


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Susie, very sorry to hear this, sending positive thoughts from here.


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I'm so sorry for you, your friends and family--the worry and sadness and fear you must all be going through. It's that @#$% staph infection that is so worrisome with hospitalization. Been through it several times with my family members. Best wishes -- my thoughts are with you.
Annie1971


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

I am so sorry to hear this. Of course I will be sending healing prayers.

Alexa


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Praying for Dan and his children!


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More prayers coming for Dan and family and friends!!!!
Sooz


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Blindsided is right! Sending as much healing power as I can to Dan and you and your families!

Let's hope they get that infection under control and he wakes up soon!

Linda


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More prayers from here. Deanna


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Wow, Dan will be in my prayers, too!

Sally


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Thanks guys!!

Dan had surgery yesterday to repair a hole in his stomach...he is still in icu but his mom says his color looks better.

Frank will look in on him today before he goes to work.

Susie


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

Aacck, that's awful! Sending healing thoughts from the left coast!
Ellen


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So sorry your family and your friend is going through this. He is in good hands, and thankfully he is improving.


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Darn that's rough Susie-- MRSA is a real nasty bug-- I'm adding him & his family to my prayers


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Sending prayers from Ohio for Dan and all.

Tami


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RE: This blindsided me-can I ask for healing thoughts??

I hope Dan's condition continues to improve. I will keep him in my prayers.


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Sending my best wishes for Dan.

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lyra


 
 

 

 


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