I just don't even know where to start. I am disorganized and it seems when I have any time off, I find it more important to do other things.

I've gotten the "spring cleaning" bug but get overwhelmed as to what to do first. Any help is greatly appreciated.

We all have 24-hours in the day and not very many of us spend 5-hours a day doing housework. We no longer have to scrub and wax floors on our hands and knees and actually have enough conveniences to make the work fairly easy. You may find you will get more done if you get up 30-minutes earlier to do some of your cleaning, instead of trying to play catch-up at the end of the day when you are completely worn out.

I learned a valuable lesson from my artist son. He rarely watches TV because he says he'd rather create a masterpiece than watch a rerun of NCIS or listen to bickering talking heads which will do absolutely NOTHING for his pursuit of his art accomplishments. When you work all day (as he does), you have to set your priorities. I also think it helps to have a plan and do as much on a regular basis as possible. For instance, at our home if it's Tuesday night we do two loads of laundry and hang them in the basement to dry. I get up at 3:30 a.m. every morning (hubby gets up at 4:30 and then we walk), so I take the clothes down and fold them and bring them upstairs. That takes me less than 10-minutes.

Stop looking at the overwhelming BIG picture and try spending 20 'quality' minutes working on one project and enjoy the reward of a job well done. Literally set a timer and don't go over 20-minutes. When it rings, you're done! You'll be surprised what you can accomplish in that 20-minute period.

Start with the most obvious first (the public spaces of your home). Eventually you will find you can spend 20-minutes doing a closet. Don't just move a pile of things from one corner or flat surface to another, or from one room into another room; toss out what you don't need and put what you do need in its place. Make those decisions quickly and do as much as possible in that 20-minutes to eliminate the chaos. Carry a few plastic grocery bags in your pocket. Put things that go into another room in a bag and at the end of 20-minutes, put those things where they call "home" - including a bag for trash.

We keep a decorative basket at the stairs going to the basement. When I have things that need to go to the basement I toss them in that basket. The next time I head that way, I'll take the basket with me and deliver those things to where they need to go.

If you are the master of "dumping", take an extra minute to develop a new habit by putting things where they go the first time - only handle things once. Don't toss your coat/jacket on the sofa or a chair when you come in thinking you will hang it up later, go ahead and hang it in the closet to begin with. When you unload your groceries, finish the task. If you kick your shoes off, they also go in the closet, not in the front entrance for visitors to look at. That coffee cup, once emptied, goes back into the sink or dishwasher, not remain sitting on the coffee table for three days. Unfinished tasks will wear you out.

After a meal do the dishes AND after meal clean-up. Time it --- it takes about 7-10-minutes and it's one less unfinished task on your list of things to do. I can even sweep the kitchen floor in that length of time. You can spend 7-minutes now, or the rest of the evening thinking you will get around to it later.... You've eliminated more negative thinking and turned it into a job well done in a timely manner, and you won't cringe at the thought of an unexpected guest going into your kitchen for a glass of water because it's nice and neat.

When you get up in the morning immediately make the bed - with one person it takes about 1.5 minutes out of your day, with 2 people it's about 30-seconds.

When you change clothes, place them in your dirty clothes basket immediately. When you are finished folding a load of laundry, put it away. Develop a new "do-it-now-until-it's-finished" habit. By completing those small chores, it will help reduce the amount of time for the big chores.

Five minutes spent before you go to bed tidying up is going to help maintain some semblance of order in your life. In 5-minutes you can put most of the public spaces in your home in order. When you leave for work, you will come home to a positive environment, all for a measly 5-minutes in the evening.

In the bathroom, put things back where they come from, put your clothes away, spray the counter and sink with a spritz bottle of alcohol/water mixture (50/50 mixture - an inexpensive cleaner/sanitizer), and a quick wipe with a micro-fiber towel and everything is clean and sanitized.

Reduce the amount of "stuff" in your life. Start a box for the Goodwill and/or Salvation Army and get rid of the accumulation in your life. We don't have any magazine or newspaper subscriptions because they ended up taking over the house. I spend a couple minutes going through the mail when it comes into the house. Junk goes into the recycling bin, bills into the bill folder - not a heap on the kitchen counter or table.

Spend 20-minutes in one room each day until you have all your home back in order.

I can clean my entire home in 30-minutes, including two bathrooms, because I've eliminated the "fussy" stuff. It takes an additional 30-minutes if I steam the floors (we don't have any carpet) --- all because we don't dirty our house to begin with.

You don't say if you have a family, but if you do it's time to divide and conquer. All hands on deck. Dust cloths and mops are one-size-fits-all and not gender-biased ;-). Our theory was we all dirty it, we can all clean it!!! It also stays cleaner if you are the one doing the cleaning - whether you are 13 or 53.

Don't expect overnight success, but think of it as the age-old question about how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. One task at a time, one room at a time. You can do it!!!

-Grainlady

It's just me and my retired husband that doesn't do much besides eat and sleep while I'm at work. He is really messy also. He doesn't see very well so he doesn't see what is getting messed up; stuff like a bad aim into the toilet bowl or crumbs dropping to the floor while he eats from his seat in the family room. Working in the garden to then walk into the house with his muddy boots, never seeing the muck he brings in.

Please don't get me wrong, he is the sweetest person and most doating person I have ever met. However he get's really offensive when I point out something that he does that I don't like.

Thank you so very much for your insight.

For you, think about decluttering. The less stuff in the house, the easier it is to clean and keep clean.

Thanks.