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how do i tell sil i am not taking her dm

caminnc
9 years ago

MIL lived near us for years and years. She about drove my DH crazy with demands. He was really good about helping her. I gave up a lot of precious time with him because of it. She moved into the house next to SIL about six years ago and now SIL wants us to take MIL in to live here. Trouble is our relationship isn't that great to say the least. She doesn't like anyone. I feel like this would ruin my life. I can barely stand a three day visit. She has a ton of money so I think she should fine a really cool assisted living place. There are other children, one brother has done a lot for her and the other one lives too far away and has never done anything. I know it's hard on SIL but it is her mother. This will fall on my shoulders not DH. Any advise would be much appreciated.

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