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can ANYONE identify these plants and give me care help!
Comments (19)I see you're new here, welcome. Pls. do some reading around here on mixes. While it's good that you're already using Cactus & Succulent mix (C&S for short), you will quickly see that many if not most of us here have learned to amend our C&S mixes (w/perlite or pumice, at least 30% or 50% to be safest), 'cause these days, commercial mixes have too much peat in them (kills out plants) &/or include wetting agents to retain water (also kills our plants). Others of us on here use mixes you'll see mentioned as Gritty Mix or variations of 5:1:1, things like that, which over time folks have learned worked well for them. Also some of these pre-made mixes contain fertilizer as well, which many of us wish to control ourselves rather than someone unfamiliar w/ our growing conditions. There are lots of opinions on mixes, but key & accepted by all of us is that to grow C&S, we need fast draining mix & what you've pictured above doesn't look like that. So that's an improvement that could be made easily & help the plants more that almost anything else one could try....See MoreThe alternative to care-giving
Comments (5)Fairegold, it happens with younger people too... It happened to my best friend last year... He was only 62 years old... He did not live alone, he was married and had two boys who usually stopped by 5 or 6 time a week... He had tons of friends who talked to him on a regular basis, at least once a week and a few every day... We used to exchange e-mail 10 to 15 times a day... Yet he died alone and wasn't discovered for 3 days... His wife was out of town, visiting with her family... He had been at his oldest sons house on a Friday night and sent me e-mail when he got home saying he had a long day and was heading for bed... On Saturday I sent a few more e-mails but I wasn't too worried that I didn't receive any replies because I figured he was working on one of his classic cars or went to one of the car shows... Sunday morning when he still hadn't answered any of my mail I called... The phone only rang... He was found, by his youngest son, Monday morning, lying on the kitchen floor, dead... He had an aortic aneurism so ( thank God ) it was quick but for a man with a large family and hundreds of friends...See More? about Windows Live OneCare
Comments (8)cboy, I appreciate the help you're providing in this forum. I'm just a lurker who is here to learn and who posts occasionally when it's a problem I've experienced. I would like to make a friendly suggestion which I hope you don't take as being critical. It certainly isn't intended that way. When you post a long URL there are two ways to post it so that future readers of the thread do not have to scroll horizontally back and forth to read the messages in the thread. One is to paste the URL in the optional URL box under your post and put a name for it in the other box. The other is to use a little html which takes very little time and saves readers a lot of scrolling. Here it is: Just type this <a href="put URL here"> type name of URL here<a/>. For instance if I do this with your long URL in the post above it looks like this: Windows Live One Care link....See MoreThinking about giving up on organic lawn care
Comments (27)We have been trying to keep an organic lawn in our back and front yards as well for about 3 years. Our first step was to really reduce the size of the lawn by adding a lot of planting beds all around our house. But we have a child and do play outside a lot so I want to keep a lawn area. Our back lack lawn was in horrible shape so we actually solarized with black plastic to kill all the existing weeds and lawn for a full summer, then reseeded with a mix of fine fescue grass. It has been a few years and now there is clover growing all over which I don't mind. This spring we overseeded with the same fescue mix but also added "Mini clover" from Outside Pride to even the existing clover out a bit, topped with a top layer of filtered compost. It is growing lush and thick as of now. Not many weeds (I don't consider clover a weed). We hand pull the dandelions when they come. Mow high; leave the grass clippings; and water deeply. Our front yard was in much better shape, but covered with dandelions. Like you, we are surrounded by neighbors with perfect chemically treated lawns so we do get embarrassed if ours has a lot of dandelions. For this front lawn, over the years we have added layers of filtered compost, about once a year in the spring. We have also used corn meal off and on, but I find it very expensive and am not sure if it has really done anything. We also sometimes spray the lawn with compost tea (once a year.) Then my husband took on the back breaking job of hand digging out the dandelions. After digging each one out he puts a bit of horticultural grade vinegar (that I buy off Amazon) into the hole with a turkey baister. This works really well! Each spring he does have to spend a few hours doing it again, but not nearly as much as that first year. Then the rest of the summer it looks great. We plan to aerate and lightly reseed the front lawn this fall, possibly adding the Mini Clover as well. Not sure yet, as it is looking really well at the moment without the addition. Anyhoo, my recommendation to you would be to aerate again in the early fall, overseed witht he appropriate grass mix, and top with compost. I agree with another poster that your lawn may be helped just with some overseeding. You may as well try it and give it at least another year or two. Outside Pride has a lot of good info on grass seed types and mixes, and if you are so inclined, read about their Mini Clover. You can use it as a stand alone lawn or mixed in with your grass to make it more lush. Their Combat Extreme grass mixtures might work for you too. They have different mixes depending on your zone. That is what we are going to use when we overseed our front yard this fall....See Morecarrie630
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