Good luck with that! I raised two sons. You are in for a challenge. Tell them...

If you get the surrounding area wet, you clean it!

They learned quickly.

-Babka

If they think lifting the seat is yukky, remind them that that is why they wash their hands afterwards. Two birds with one stone!

Toto washlet s400 with an integrated seat lifter?

Looks like I will just have to order both and be the first reviewer for gardenweb :).

homepro01 - we just built a new house so do not want to replace things yet.

Miruca,
The washlet is just a toilet seat. Once you have, you won't be able to go back. On the other hand, it may also spoil your kids for life.
Good luck!

A single piece of toilet paper.

Ineffable space - what a concept - lol.

Home pro 101 - a washlet will be going in my mother on law space.

My sons were taught to lift the seat, hit the hole, clean up any splashes, close the lid, and wash their hands. They also knew not to leave toothpaste in the sink or splashes on the counter. Proper training seemed to make more sense than buying a gadget that enabled their poor habits.

Errant - I am sure there are many mothers and grandmothers that would love to have you come be the private bathroom standards trainer! However, I do think a toilet seat lifter is a far more sanitary option for even the most well trained.