Help me to understand
I have a relative, a very close relative that is always doing things for people. Oh, you say she sounds like a very nice person. She is but-t-t she goes almost overboard in doing. She will volunteer to drive people to the airport, pick up items at stores for them, making pies, sitting with their sick Mom and all SORTS of other things. Of course she doesn't do this quitely. She tells you over and over the things she does for other people. What is she getting out of this??? Attention? love? acceptance? is she bored? nosey? She is well thought of so is she doing this for self-love? and why. Also if she doesn't get the feed back from them she expects she complains.