house guests update :)
First I would like to thank everyone for their helpful comments, and heart felt thoughts for our pain. We are healing as much as we can.
A gigantic cloud has been lifted.
They moved out yesterday and will tow their broke down car some time this week. They had 2 cars, so don't think I tossed them in the street :)
I thought my husband would be angry and he was for a few minutes until he realized they were already gone when he got home from work. I swear I saw relief wash over his whole face. He thought they would be here, and he would have to have the "don't listen to her speech" He is so happy to have his man cave back! And when I told him they moved in with her mother, he said """we are never letting anyone move in again""".
She had told him that her mother said under no circumstance is she ever allowed back.
Well I don't even care anymore. She either lied or her mother had a change of heart. Who cares. We let it go.
Last night we were thinking about all the times we've let family member stay with us. Some stayed a week some a couple of months, some stayed for 2 years! ( my sister's housed burned down and the insurance co tried to screw them over)
A total of 15 different family members. Have stayed with us over the years. Add these 2 and we're up to 17. We just have to laugh!
We must have suckers tattooed on our faces. lol
We FINALLY learned our lesson. A word of warning to all of you, if you are sucker for a sob story...don't buy a big house in the country. Don't fall for the "you wont even notice we're here" The whole aura of my house changed. Happy ending it's changing back.
Thank you all soooo much !